>>509018102I'll explain it to you how it was explained to my grandparents: " you will never be one of us, but if your children intermarry and uphold our laws and values, they may one day become like us, but they are still not us, only after your children have children through us and continue to uphold our traditions will we accept you." This is a defense against the bad actors who imitate, but do not reproduce our culture. I will accept anyone who can abide by this law, but only after 3 generations of proven loyalty and struggle towards the pinnacle of my culture.