My gf has BPD and so far it's been manageable. Shes also high iq she isn't a roastoid or a slut.
She is also a leftist but not an extreme or outspoken one, browses reddit though and agrees with most talking points.
She knows I'm a nazi and ignores it out of love just like I ignore that shes a leftist so it kind of works.
And I'm 100% sure she has BPD, she's diagnosed with it but not medicated.
Will she make a good mother? She said she will birth 2 kids max. I'm just afraid the illness will fuck up our kids mentally.
Only times I notice the BPD is she gets jealous easily if I talk to other women (Not even flirting, just talking with them) and taking things too personally sometimes and starts crying, but I know how to calm her and ground myself in those situations.
She made me stop watching porn so I guess she has a positive influence.
Anons here said sex is great with BPD women and I can't agree enough, she indulges every single fetish of mine from feet to femdom. Question is, how feasible is this that it'll last? We love eachother but I'm not going to lie you fuckers scared me with those BPD threads sometimes I think she will cheat on me from all the stuff you guys say about BPD women even though both of us were virgins in our 20s when we started dating.

>>509110399 (OP)
an uncle of mine married his childhood friend
she was his first gf and he her first bf
the dream of many, they lived, and yet today they still have serious marriage problems here and there

the only guarantee in life is death, for all the rest what you can do is manage %'s, increasing or decreasing them, and the numbers of this scenario of yours point towards disaster.

>>509110399 (OP)
>Is it worth being in a long term relationship with a leftist BPD woman
RUN!
RUN MOTHERFUCKER RUN!
They make terrible mothers and will manipulate you, you might think you know how to calm her down or something but anon, you can't keep that shit up forever.
Trust me.
You'll hear the same from other guys, they all thought they knew what they were doing and had a grip on the situation but in the end they got destroyed.

Your job STARTING RIGHT NOW:
1. Minimize or destroy any information she can use to fuck with your life.
2. Secure your finances along with any and all account information.
3. Make arrangements for what your living situation will be afterward, maybe time to call in some favors from old friends.
4. DUMP HER AND RUN

Alternatives if you're a pussy starting at step 3:
3. Quietly withdraw emotionally. Be transparent so that she wont start thinking your cheating or anything, just be as present as normal, but withdraw from her emotionally.
4. Try to get her to dump you before you have to dump her.

>>509110399 (OP)
You actually managed to find an adult virgin woman with BPD?

Rate my stack:
Clomipramine
Lamotrigine
Quetiapine
Pregabalin
Lisdexamphetamine + Dexamphetamine
Clonidine
Propranolol
Viagra

Diagnosed with:
Borderline Personality Disorder,
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder,
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder,
High-functioning Autism (Aspergers),
Generalised Anxiety Disorder,
Social Anxiety Disorder

>both of us were virgins in our 20s when we started dating.
Oh, you're a nigger dating a whore. Nevermind then. Learn English you retard.

Girl I know has BPD and finally got over her wild years and settled down with a nice guy. Until she started to go off the rail again as now she's 40, does come in the weekends, goes out and parties like she's 20, does shrooms with her teen aged daughters, and thinks this is okay because she needs validation that she's still an independent hot woman. Her husband is about ready to divorce her and she feels she's done nothing wrong

>>509112281
does it fix you?
I need something to fix mine.

I feel like if you have dated her long enough and your life isn't a smoldering crater in the ground then she may not have BPD. Most are too insane to hold it back all the way till they trap you in marriage.

grippy sox grippy box

>>509112234
But I love her anon, like actually love her.
>>509112251
Most girls in Bosnia are prudes and shes a self admited femcel. Took me a long time until we had sex and since everyone knows eachother in my city I'm 100% sure shes a virgin.
>>509112251
Yes.
>>509112413
We have been together a year and a half, dated and knew eachother half a year so can round it up to two years. I have more positive memories than negative ones with her, just a few fights but we never go off the rails just talk it out like rational adults, even when she has an episode.
She said she went to a therapist who diagnosed her. She also has depression but takes no meds.

>>509112631
>just a few fights but we never go off the rails just talk it out like rational adults, even when she has an episode
NO
RUN
Anon, I shit you not I thought this was working well with my ex as well and it certainly was not in the end.
10 years.
Please please do not make the same mistake.

>>509110399 (OP)
>Shes also high iq she isn't a roastoid or a slut.
anon, that just means she's a good liar.

>>509112755
Well wtf do I do then? I cant break up cause I am emotionally attached and so is she. I already promised I'll marry her and have kids at some point. Im thinking maybe withold marriage till my thirties (Im 24) and see in the meantime if she knows how to control herself or not. Whats your story?
Shes a nice girl, she hates it if she hurts me, never intentionally. Any sign that I take offense on something she instantly starts apologizing.

>>509112983
Nah I'm sure, she was very inexperienced,. We are very honest with eachother, I just feel it.

>>509110399 (OP)
i fucked lots of sluts and never married, as soon as they became a bother i showed them the door
now im old, fat and alone but never lonely, i got it all out of my system and dont care, no ragrets.

>>509110399 (OP)
run you fucking idiot

>>509113069
anon she will kill you her knowingly or unknowingly
you said any sign that you take offense on something she instantly starts apologizing maybe for now but in next 10-15 years she will start threatening you like putting your dick in a blender or chop of your arms/legs with a grinder
just because she seems nice now doesnt mean in future

>>509113069
>Well wtf do I do then? I cant break up cause I am emotionally attached and so is she.
It might hurt in the short term but you'll get over it.
Follow the instructions in >>509112234
I won't tell you my whole story and all but yea married to BPD girl for 10 years and it nearly killed me. I thought I loved her so much but after a few months of being split up I pretty much got over it.
Find some bros to hang out with and party a tiny bit to distract yourself after you break it off.

Save yourself, RUN.

>>509110399 (OP)
No, she will make your life miserable then possibly kill you.

>>509110399 (OP)
"BPD" is just stock standard woman behavior. All women are unstable, childish, histrionic narcissists and you will never truly have peace with one. That said if you gave give up on peace and embrace the sturm und drang of fighting then making up/fucking then you can manage just fine. The key is when she starts fights with you to never take her petty bullshit seriously or let it affect you. Pretend to be mad then the moment she's out of sight, drop the act and do something fun while she stews. Then play your part in the drama, make up, fuck the shit out of her and things will be peachy until she starts to get bored again. Hell maybe even start a fight yourself if you feel the boredom setting in.

>>509112281
You cant take propranolol and viagra at the same time read your med brochures retard youre gonna die.

imagine listening to all those incel losers on here. If she is truly borderline she might be the most loyal person you could ever encounter. Withholding marriage for what? You’re just delaying your happiness and robbing her out of her fertile years

>>509116440

>>509116562
Propaganda lol. You losers are the ones that try to push that gender division and destroy traditional family units. Drawing some horror conclusions based on OPs story. Might turn out well and everything he says points to it. You people just want others to be miserable just like you

>>509116774
honestly she doesn't sound that bpd. very mild.

>>509110399 (OP)
most bpd is just trauma from this shit world

>>509110399 (OP)
>Will she make a good mother?
No, because she can’t provide the structure that kids need. BPD is drama and chaos. It teaches kids whoever misbehaves the most wins.
>I'm just afraid the illness will fuck up our kids mentally.
It will. Any sons will learn to hate women. Any daughters are likely to get BPD as well.
>Only times I notice the BPD is she gets jealous easily if I talk to other women
It's not BPD if her threats aren't a constant center of attention. If it is BPD and you try to leave she may get dangerous. If you suspect BPD then you need a solid exit plan with witnesses.

>>509110399 (OP)
Any relationship with any woman is massive risk especially if you get married and CERTAINLY if you have children. At any point she can gang up with the government and use its laws to divorce and extort you. That’s the power they wield, so depending on the woman, whatever whims she desires will determine whether or not it is worth it in the end

>>509116971
i agree. I’m sure there are levels to it and a true bpd person wouldn’t have such mild fights, feel bad and even reflect on it. Bpd or not, most women wouldn’t apologize and self reflect on their behavior after doing something wrong

>>509113069
>Shes a nice girl, she hates it if she hurts me, never intentionally.
The promise of marriage is the only thing forcing her to have some self control. Once married she's going to lose any resemblance of self control. She's going to hurt you far more. When you're forced to leave she's dangerous. She'll do everything she can to control you including false accusations and numerous calls to the cops. When she hits you, if you're not very careful, she will put you in jail. If she's smart then she's even more dangerous.

>>509117507
you can’t force or fake your impulses and emotions when you genuinely suffer from bpd

>>509110399 (OP)
>Will she make a good mother?
you absolute retard, kys

>>509112234
>they all thought they knew what they were doing and had a grip on the situation but in the end they got destroyed.
This. BPDs never get better. Only far worse.
>>509112631
>She said she went to a therapist who diagnosed her. She also has depression but takes no meds.
You're in real danger. Did her father abandon her? You've got to run.

>>509112281
When I look at BPD it really looks like the pattern of someone who had bad ADHD and never learned to cope in the adult world. It all goes back to impulsive behavior. Impulsive behaviors create situations where you have to apologize, explain your behavior, feel guilt and regret, which in turn makes you think too much.

>>509110399 (OP)
No. Avoid those kinds of women at all costs.

>>509117582
>you can’t force or fake your impulses and emotions when you genuinely suffer from bpd
I've seen them suppress the crazy for years. BPDs just seem like normal crazy women until you’re trapped. Then they completely lose self control. BPD is tied to stress I think. If they can manage their stress they can hide for a long time. They seem fixable. It's a lie.

>>509115327
Also cant take clonidine with viagra nor clonidine with propanalol and adding vyvanse to that mix is also crazy considering the seroquel.

>>509110399 (OP)
>>509112631
if you love her then why are you in doubt?

>>509118067
if you stress out any type of person male or female they can end up unhinged and crazy

>>509119104
t. BPDemon

>>509114210
You clearly havent experienced it, its fucking insane. Always drama most of the time unnecessary

>>509118023
But the sex is beyond amazing, its like theyre demons. Scratching up your whole back and shit

>>509110399 (OP)
your life is in danger. run, don't walk

>authoritarian cuck thinks he can bag a freebird leftist woman
Think again commie faggot
https://youtu.be/CKqvmpuXzSc?si=2wjnpbTi35Nry21V

>>509112631
Love IS love. Put a baby inside her, maybe that will help both of you. Live in the now and don't worry about tomorrow, Fren.

>>509120216
>love is love
sounds like a bunch of fucking faggy drama for middleschool kids

>>509117000
Checked. Trips of truth. I think OP should knock his bitch up. We can safely assume he'll never get another chance at being a dad.

>>509117199
Checked. Solid advice

>>509120352
>>509117000
>le world is so FUCKED UP!
>so be a piece of shit and contribute to it
gangstalker doormat cucksbands and their whore companions in a nutshell]
Honestly inferior genetic vaxxbloods are living on borrowed time so why do I even bother?

Depends some BPD can be okay and with you understanding, be enough to deescalate the whole situation but some are batshit insane when it switches and those are the dangerous ones and NOT worth the time for anyone.
You'd have to pick at her and have her explain a normal freakout and a really bad one, how often they happen according to her etc.
Least that would give you an estimate as some can get really bad freakouts and become tornadoes worth of property damage..

>>509120443
>long as I get to fuck and shit and cum and everybody know it
Germanic blood is anti-civilization

>>509120309
Maybe. But is has served me well.
>t. 58 y/o oldfag with a dead wife, 3 kids and 2 grandkids

>>509110399 (OP)
>s it worth being in a long term relationship with a leftist BPD woman?
No. Not if she's right wing even.
One thing I will say is that all women have some issues. No avoiding it.
Me = 2x divorced 5 kids. single 20 years. 60 years old this month. You two are as they say, unequally yoked together.

>>509110399 (OP)
It’s fun short term
DO NOT GET ATTACHED
She’s going to ruin your life
> if you don’t take this advice - you’re an idiot that’s going to regret it in time

>>509120517
Yeah I'll be smacking my wife so I can return to my study and invent shit, loser
https://youtu.be/coaPzHSwnL4?si=4Isib6YrTdrQeRKH&t=72

>>509120435
The world has always been fucked up, always. Jews. You know this. Why are you doomposting? Enjoy life because it's short.
>58 y/o oldfag, father, former zogbot, dead wife.

>>509120614
I'm pretty sure I'm not the loser here Fren. I'll be dead soon.

Yes.
>t. gf is a BPDemon

>>509110399 (OP)
BPD is just the average woman

>>509120614
Is that bike yours? Nice. I like the exhaust setup.

>>509120667
>muh JUDEN
It's the proles getting revenge on us Nobles by inventing gangstalking
Germans let jooz live in their lands and create a language, then they implemented the stasi of their own free will
Only Anglo Kings who have both Wild Celtic and Autistic German genes should rule this world, outside of East Asia
They have sort of a superior, non-gangstalking thing going on that we ought to learn from
https://youtu.be/Awx1UHh_QHI?si=P-Vhpzj9z1M7WJ-T
>I'm le hecking 58!
I bet the music you attempted to make(as if!) and the shit you listen to is such crap I take a dump on your life
https://youtu.be/Awx1UHh_QHI?si=P-Vhpzj9z1M7WJ-T

bpd isn't real, she's either a whore or she's not a whore.

>>509110399 (OP)
BPD is really, really rough.

>>509110399 (OP)
Mavoglurant cures BPD try getting some of that.

Microdosing LSD also helps BPD.

>>509120727
The only non homosexual here besides me. How's it going Fren? You doing well?

>>509120854
>just realize maybe you aren't such a fucking piece of shit society wants you to be, goy!
Introverted Whites have been running this shit since day one.
All we get when we let you speak is slop

>>509110399 (OP)
>100% sure she has BPD, she's diagnosed with it but not medicated.
Medications don't really work for BPD. Therapy, time, and luck may result in improvement of symptoms. If she is mild the prognosis isn't so bad, but be aware that it is highly heritable and therefore you shouldn't have children with such a defective specimen.

>>509120814
Haha. Yeah I was in a band in the early nineties as well. Toured and made records. It was fun. Not sure why you're a fecalphiliac, since I agreed with the rest of your post. Anyways, hope you have a good day Fren.
Remember rule 88 of /pol/ newfags! Helps to get through the catalog more quickly so you can leave this vile shit hole for a few hours and actually go and do something.

I had a BPD gf for 2 years.
She said I love you first.
She wanted marriage she wanted kids.
She took tons of meds and said she's need to be off them a year to get preggers.
She was still early 20s but rushing to get married.
We both lived at home and I was saving for a house.
She dumped me because I wouldn't buy the shitty trailer homes we were looking at because of lot rent.
She said multiple times I was the least intimidating person she'd ever met.
I don't know why she made that jab while continuing to date me.
Like that'd be like me calling her the least feminine woman is ever met, while continuing to date her. Kind of a self own.
She was nice I do miss her a bit but I've moved on.

>>509120066
You can pay for amazing sex.
You cannot pay for bliss and peace of mind you get when you finally break free from a crazy BPD whore.

>>509120216
>put a baby into a BPD whore
I got so fucking lucky my BPD ex didn't get pregnant.
BPD pregnancies are hell on earth and your kid WILL get BPD.

>>509120723
First - what happened to her lips? Why did she niggerfy her lips anyway?
Second - why do BPDemons have similar "vibes"? She has the same gaze, same style of my BPD ex.

>>509121099
>we made records from our CIA studio!
>tell me more for the honeypot while I post none of the work I'm so proud of
58 years of digging himself to hell

>>509110399 (OP)
leo is not one to be tamed, only through humbling will they be shown god

>>509117930
You would be incorrect. If i twere the case then ADHD meds would reduce impulsivity in BPD and they don't.

>>509121109
>not being a superior god-like entity
IntroGODS were defining reality with Agamemnon
It makes sense she doesn't want a faggot extrovert queer crying and cumming to her smell

>>509110399 (OP)
nothing that can't be cured

>>509121109
Sorry it didn't work out with your ex. Sounds like she was talking shit about you to test you. I don't think you responded correctly. Gotta be quick and super aggressive with your response. Hope your well Fren

>>509110399 (OP)
Cheating chance is high but with BPDemons it honestly is not even the worst thing that can happen. Careful what you sign up for.

>>509121177
Checking those nice digits. Yeah, I'm a CIA nigger. You caught me. I used to go to Albinis house to record while he was building his new studio, Electrical Audio. I miss him. Also don't believe the news that he's dead. He was a glownigger as well and is currently in Israel. Be well Fren

>>509121264
Nah fuck him and the little bitch-ass whorse he rode in on
https://youtu.be/ID2sgixgTu0?si=KOLEesv2tNh_h977&t=67

No, she will not make a good mother, just forget about it. My mother is BPD and my childhood was hell.

Use you gf finding powers to find a real gf

>>509121414
Alcohol is truth serum
>yeah I'm so comfy and secure like cattle to the slaughter
>Fuck freewill!, TREASON!!
Lemming Moment
https://youtu.be/3CfOZcwhOdE?si=_dYmwdEXcj30DqNz&t=76

>>509112281
Big pharmas top goy! How does ingesting poojeet pills filled with metal shavings going to cure you?

>>509110399 (OP)
1. If she's on Reddit, she has an IQ of 100 MAYBE.
2. BPD is a made up condition. Women use it so they can act like fucking psychopaths while avoiding all accountability for their actions, which is something they aspire to do every waking moment of their lives.

>>509121417
Nice! God I miss those old synths and drum machine. Still made I sold my rolamd TR-808 and Yamaha drum machines. Plus my MC-303 and Juno 106 synth and Oberheim OB-x. Still got muh HiWatt Custom 100 guitar amp and a couple of Gibson guitars. Be well Fren. Send more tunes my way!

>>509113069
like another anon said, maybe she doesn't have beepeedee, or has a mild form of it or something related or maybe nothing much and just poorly socialised.
if there haven't been any major problems in 2 years and she's been stable, there might not be any problems in the future either.
i was with a girl who I guessed had it, she was never formally diagnosed, but she flipped within weeks, and continued to flip, with her eyes turning empty for hours/days at a time, like she didn't recognise me and I was as a stranger to her, emotionally speaking.
she'd fly into uncontrollable rages, broke up with me so many times I lost count at 30, and was increasingly less trustworthy.
your relationship sounds like a dream in comparison.
odd she's still 'leftist', usually women steadily veer towards the beliefs of the man over time.
how is her relationship with her mother/father? if it is stable and always has been, it's a good sign.
how does she treat other people, even strangers?
I wouldn't wait forever for marriage/children, the earlier the better, as long as your situation is fairly decent.

>new gf is schizophrenic and has BPD
I'm going to fucking die, but damn some deaths are worth it. Exact same situation as OP really but were both traditionalist artfags, don't worry I've already prepared myself for an absolute shitshow, as of yesterday I now need to send written letters as she doesn't trust online messaging. This is going to be one of those, either it works or I go into politics with fury behind me and a beerhall in front of me.

>>509121515
IMHO, I believe shrooms are more effective as a (((truth serum))). Hope your doing well

>>509113069
meant to say, that you were both each other's first makes a big difference in terms of successful outcome of marriage/the relationship.

>>509121639
>still mad

>>509110399 (OP)
Are you trying to convince me or you? You already know the answer

>>509110399 (OP)
>Only times I notice the BPD is she gets jealous easily if I talk to other women (Not even flirting, just talking with them) and taking things too personally sometimes and starts crying, but I know how to calm her and ground myself in those situations.
So you mean she's a normal woman?