>>509145162unless youre 16 and older, its actually really damaging for your psychology. when i was around 9-10 y.o. i was very shy (and to this day am) and once on some party some female ( i think she was over 18) invited me to dance together (nothing romantic, just for fun, i am kid after all and there were lots of adults including my parents), i mumbled something like "no, i dont want to", then she said "cmon lets goooo", grabbed my arm and started dragging me out. i got scared, nervous, almost broke down in tears, then my mom came in and said "hes good, let him be". i still remember this incident. nothing too extreme, but i remember how uncomfortable i felt back then. she died of cancer long time ago if i recall correctly. interesting and sad.