>>509226974>you have to be undeniably good at something and people, especially women will notice. quit chasing what you think society expects and instead build yourself up. pick a skill, any skill, make it yours, push it, refine it, until no one can touch you in that lane. once you do that the rest of the pieces of the puzzle all fall into place on their own.that's still selfishness
your skills are not for your self agrandizement
you didnt phrase it like the following but it bears killing the ambiguity nonetheless: do not do anything specifically to get women, as that attitude turns you into a female and a whore
yes, find you are good at and develop that, but do that to serve a community, to be of service to others
then women will land on you like flies on shit and you will compromise by accepting to get one on one with one, meaning you will do it knowing it actually takes you down, not up
you will step out of monk mode if you wish to, but you wont have to and indeed monk mode is a higher mode than paired up with the roast
getting involved with women is a compromise, it is compromising your ability to be in full possession and use of your abilities