Thread 509326563

would men be willing to be stay at home dads if all women suddenly made enough money to support a family? or would it be too emasculating for most?

>>509326563 (OP)
I'm a SAHD and it's hard work but better than some stranger raising my child.

>>509326563 (OP)
I will never raise children. I'm going to use IVF to have only male sons with dozens of single mothers to secure my genetic legacy. I don't care about my children's quality of life. I just want my high IQ alpha male genetic material to be passed on by any means necessary. My brain is too fried from years of drug abuse and poor decisions to raise children. I hate women and humanity. I just want my genes to live on. That's all I want.

>>509326877
>my high IQ alpha male genetic material

>>509326563 (OP)
It doesn’t work because the women will always cheat on you with the chad at her work.

>>509326961
I'm 6'4, White, and jacked. Very healthy, no genetic defects, good face, no allergies, etc. Everyone in my family is highly educated and rich. The only reason my life is so fucked up is because of bad luck and poor decisions on my part. My father's genes should proliferate even if I used them poorly.

>>509326563 (OP)
I'm fine with it
ask women why they aren't

>>509326563 (OP)
Every neets dream

>>509326972
yeah but if she's the breadwinner and you divorce her then you can fuck her in the divorce if you stay at home and raise the kids all day.
yes, that actually is how it works btw. divorce law favors the stay at home child-rearer, no matter the sex.

>>509326563 (OP)
Women would hate you over time. Most of them are biologically incapable of accepting that.

>>509328026
This is the major issue. Something hardwired into your wife’s brain that made her choose you because of your protective nature and earning capacity will be broken when she is the breadwinner, even if you do just fine financially. She will never see your home labour as the equivalent of a job, especially since you didn’t birth the children. You emasculate yourself doing this. If you’re extremely masculine in other ways, it might be enough to cancel it out, but it’s unlikely for most men. You’d have to be jacked, and using the time to accomplish things- building stuff, culinary mastery, homeschooling, etc. to really demonstrate value.

Some relationships will survive it fine. Some others have no chance. Mine would last a few years but diminish over time…

yes.

>>509327176
>I'm 6'4, White, and jacked. Very healthy, no genetic defects, good face, no allergies, etc. Everyone in my family is highly educated and rich. The only reason my life is so fucked up is because of bad luck and poor decisions on my part. My father's genes should proliferate even if I used them poorly.

>>509327698
That’s how it works if people are honest, but if she claims you were abusive, alcoholic etc you’re gonna have issues.

To win at the marriage game, your wife has to think she is winning because of you. Continually, until menopause. She has to want to show you off, not be embarrassed about you.

>>509328362
Literally me.

>>509326563 (OP)
I'd do it in a heartbeat. I'd love to homeschool my kids and teach them everything they need to know while my wife works. Best of both worlds.

>>509328445
Oh sure. It would be great to do. You’d get the housework done together with the kids in no time, and they’d become less messy people by virtue of having to clean it. Get through some lessons and then go exploring or build something. Fantastic life for you and them.

But while you’re doing that, your wife is resentfully spending the day in corporate daycare, earning money, and hearing from Cindy that her man just got a job paying a quarter million dollars a year…

>>509326563 (OP)
If my wife was skinny with good feet, I really dont give af about our "lifestyle". I def wouldnt have any shame about that. Honestly it wouldn't bother me at all, though its hard to imagine any woman that fits my standards (not fat and good feet) would stay with me. Logistically, Im not sure how it would work.

>>509328425
that doesn't work as easily in this case as you think it does. I know a couple where the dad was SAHD and she pulled multiple dirty little cards like that. didn't matter. there was no proof and the judge knew that that he spent all day with the kids and making the home. she got fucked with child support and alimony.

>>509326856
Lol it is not hard work

>>509326563 (OP)
GO BACK

>>509328605
If I have kids and my wife cheats on me while being the breadwinner sounds like an easy divorce and alimony+child support for me kek

>>509326563 (OP)
I am already doing this, except I am a stay at home uncle. Pride is a sin and I have none, I earn nothing and have nothing and am eternally grateful to God for that.

>>509326972
wife works from home, sahd life is comfy

>>509326563 (OP)
Hypergamy is female nature. SAHDs will be divorced. It is only a matter of time. She sees you as an anchor holding her back from a real Chad.

>>509326563 (OP)
Women can't stand to see men sitting about doing nothing.