It just makes me almost cringe seeing people here describing relationships as a 24/7 constant conga line of happiness.
Is this due to feminist brain washing? What gives
I’m sure the decline in birth rate is making some mf’ers thirsty as fuck

>>509700192 (OP)
Without them, we would have been extinct long ago. God ordered Adam and Eve to "be fruitful and multiply".

Why else do you you think the godless Left and Jews (most of which are atheistic) are pushing hard for childlessness, abortions, faggotry, trooning out, promiscuouscuity (for pleasure only), light penalties for murderers, excessive censorship and political correctness, propaganda disguised as "entertainment" where the father is an idiot and the mother is the intelligent one, as well as complete population replacement via "migration" from third-world nations to replace native citizens that fell for that?

>>509700192 (OP)
Don’t fall for the relationship memes anon
Women need YOU, YOU’RE the prize
AI girlfriends are coming really soon anyway and they’ll never break your heart or at least if they do it’ll happen so quick you don’t even notice

every thread about r*lationsh*ps and w*m*en is a psyop or slide thread

>>509700192 (OP)
Heavily overvalue being in a “relationship”
Heavily undervalue family

>>509700783
>i am the prize!
>my ai gf told me so!
Fucking tip toppest of keks.

it's easy to believe that when you have never been in a relationship. Until I was 19 I was a romantic, then I started meeting women and now I see them for what they truly are. Women are retarded, filthy and genuinely evil creatures.

>>509701224
Makes sense

>>509701191
are you trying to tell me your dumb bitch who probably took a dozen dicks before yours is the prize?

>>509700192 (OP)
Unless they are introverted then they likely get lathergic being alone.

>>509700192 (OP)
NOT POLITICS YOU STUPID SACK OF SHIT! FUCK OFF WITH YOUR GAY ASS LOVE LIFE TO /MLP/ OR /B/ WHERE IT BELONGS!

>>509700192 (OP)
men have given away most of their freedoms in exchange for pussy. more specifically, "chad" has told all women that they are right all the time. I don't know where the meme came from that chad says whatever he wants to at all times. he doesn't.
once men claw back our freedoms, our lives as single individuals will be much more fulfilling.

>>509700192 (OP)
part is feminist brainwashing...part is convincing themselves it's great because they don't relaly like it but it's the RIGHT thing to do...and it is, I wish I had kids...but yeah the birthrate decline is hitting us a little harder...it's getting visceral; tingly

>Does anyone else feel like anons
the (((anons))) you speak of are paid demoralization shills working for jidf and aipac to do a job.
it's called called propaganda

>>509700730
>God ordered Adam and Eve to "be fruitful and multiply".
The gloss:
[28] "Increase and multiply": This is not a precept, as some Protestant controvertists would have it, but a blessing, rendering them fruitful; for God had said the same words to the fishes, and birds, (ver. 22) who were incapable of receiving a precept.

>>509700989
/thread

>>509700192 (OP)
All I know is I was depressed in my 20s. Found my girl. Got married at 31. 44 now I'm still as happy as a child on a Saturday morning. Got 3 kids. A career I don't hate and got a nice thoughtful blowjob this morning. Nothing is as important to me as my relationship with my wife and I probably would've killed myself by now had I not met her

>>509701321
I’m not trying to tell you anything, why would I bother?

>>509700192 (OP)
Yes, it is cringe. Any relationship where you place undue priority on your partner is going to be hell. A good relationship is where you could have someone fit in with your life and no fuck things up. If you don't have a good life then a relationship is not going to help.

No, they don't. I was always in some sort of romantic relationship from early adolescence until a few years ago, whether FWB, something really serious, or somewhere in-between, and I decided to go it alone because it always seemed to be more stress than reward.

The first two years were actually really nice, catching up on reading and film and so on, but I am fucking lonely and sexless and getting back into the dating pool fucking sucks. I broke up with every chick I was ever with looking for something better*, and broke up with the last one because I was sick of the burdens of it all.

I'm sure I'll land on my feet, but once you get a girl, try to meet her halfway on most things and take care of her well and keep her, and save yourself the torment of learning the hard way like I have.

>*I also had some really petty reasons, too. I dumped a chick who could've been Christina Hendricks' stunt double because she couldn't suck dick. I've also dumped chicks for being too hot because it felt like such a pain in the ass having to deal with flirty guys. Don't throw away good looking for a perfect that probably doesn't exist.

>>509701490
>pls make more zog bots
>I am a real person

>>509700192 (OP)
I think there are multiple problems going on at once here and outside of here...

1) People here put too much of their idea of happiness on having a perfect ideal of what their wife should be. It makes it easier to cope if you think "There are no good women anymore" or if you apply standards of "18 to 22 and still a virgin". That is unrealistic in the modern world. Dudes literally want gorgeous tens who have never been touched and who share the political views. None of the chads out there are getting that either. We all sacrifice something when we date. All of us.

2) People outside of here dismiss the idea of how depressed incels or just MGTOW types feel about their social lives. Telling someone "Never being with someone isn't a big deal" is easy to say when you yourself are with someone or could easily get with someone. It's wrong to dismiss the pain of others. Even if they're causing a lot of that pain themselves. You should still try to find compassion for them. Human beings crave socialization and being in sexual relationships. It's normal to desire that and to want that.

And because of those 2 things that are such hardline positions of unrealistic ideas we end up with assholes on both side being ridiculous. Group 2 should shut up and Group 1 should be more realistic about dating in the 21st and even what it was like in the 20th and 19th centuries.

>>509700192 (OP)
>decline in birth
god, im sick of you fuckin dipshits parroting this boomer bullshit.

>>509700192 (OP)
Been with my wife for 7 years, I wish she'd fuck off every once in a while so I could have a wank on the couch

>>509703379
Careful m8, eventually this leads to you realizing she's a fat cunt and shitty mother
>T. Just sent "lol hi" to my wife's attempted catfish tinder (without matching)

>>509700192 (OP)
>24/7 constant conga line of happiness
Anon if you're following anyone online who describes their life this way you're a silly billy. Those accounts are meant for women to flex on other women. Nothing more.

>>509700192 (OP)
>Does anyone else feel like anons here over exaggerate the value of being in a relationship?
Possibly.
A better question is why should I care?

>>509700192 (OP)
>seeing people here describing relationships as a 24/7 constant conga line of happiness.
Who hell does that?
It's not, at all but that doesn't mean it's not the ultimate ideal and that the bumps in the road that come along with any human relationship aren't just a part of life.

You can't have kids unless you have a relationship. You can cope about rape fantasies or living like a nigger and throwing your seed around without a care, but there's a reason why the vast majority of human societies have been built off of the nuclear family, and before retards start seething if you think the nuclear family is bad you've got a bunch of kike propaganda in your head confusing you.

The nuclear family is not the strawman you have in your head where mommy and daddy have no interactions with extended family and cut off their kids at 18. This has never been a deliberate social model. When people said nuclear family, they meant it in the sense that the relationship between parents and children are the NUCLEUS around which all other relationships form. You cannot have an extended family without first having a nuclear family.