>>509734393I don't think there's an issue with being transbian... I've been with men and trans girls but I don't really go outside that and I only really bottom unless they explicitly ask me/tell me to top them.
Just wanna make the people I'm close with feel good too ya know it's comforting and nice
>>509733948 (OP)Sadly there's no simple answer but being curious and wanting to know this myself and living it and being around a ton of girls over the past decade+ that do.. My understanding is that its a complex that's develops either consciously or subconsciously when you're young (from as young as 3 to as old as 15 in my experience) that helps you cope with not being generally accepted, or just feeling like you're not accepted, being bullied, etc. It's not hard for even children to realize women have it easier. Usually always you're naturally feminine, more creative, intelligent, maybe autistic, at least a few of these or things like these --natural feminine traits.
So you start developing a complex over time.. it exists in your head as this magical solution, you are genetically inclined, and one day you're exposed to being trans or crossdressing or whatever existing. For me personally (and for others I've interviewed) realizing this after having all these thoughts built up is the most relieving thing because it feels like a goal and path opens up in front of you that would solve issues or make you happier.
It's hard to let go of it then.
If you keep this framework in mind yes grooming would make sense as a contributor but in my experience it doesn't ever really actually happen. Children are really just smart enough to come to these conclusions and desires all on their own.
I hope this helps.
Also I'll say we're just normal people mostly. Maybe a bit crazy but estrogen does do that. The trans people you get shown on X and media -- we hate them too. They are not us and personally I feel like they're planted well poisoners. We just want to be happy with who we are.