>>509780141>If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them.Yes, pretty much.
>they are rare Not at all. They only seem rare to you because you are never parts of those social circles/events where they are found. But inside them, there is an abundance. They might have the token fat/annoying girl they keep around to make the rest look better by comparison, but the vast majority of the people in those circles/events are high value.
>exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in toChad and Brad's parties and shit like that aren't really that niche or hard to get into, but yes, if you are too socially retarded and low value to get into them it is by design. The whole system is intended to filter out guys like that. To the extent that if for some reason one of the guys on the inside of those circles brought some socially retarded loser into the circle, and then that guy proceeded to annoy and creep everyone out, that puts a serious dent on the value and social status of the guy who invited him in.
And there are guys inside those circles/events who most incels would see as fairly low value / unattractive, but they are still there and getting girls there because they are likeable and have the social skills to navigate those situations without being creepy or annoying.