>>510010322 (OP)Men are lonely first, then horny second, so they turn to porn which satisfies the horny and makes them forget the lonely.
When that poster says "moids are just securing theydont actually love you" who's the type of guy she is talking about?
The majority of sub 8 males genuinely want to fall in love (which is very easy for them to do if a women is openly affectionate) and have babs with a woman and pour his life into them.
maybe 5-10% of men who are hyper-overachievers will throw away their women for the sake of their life goals.
These men were never meant to reproduce, they are like homosexuals with exceptional abilities, they were meant to be solitary, to die in battle as a champion, to be a great statesmen, their genes would pass on because of the familial reputation they earn and their brothers, sisters, cousins would all have 3x more kids which would recreate this particular exceptional individual's gene set many times more than if he himself were to reproduce manually.
one man could maybe reliably keep 6 women with 5 kids each at most in the greatest harem centric social structure possible (assuming they are raised with their father in their life, well this is only 30 but if you have 3 brothers 2 sisters and 7 cousins, and they all have 10 kids, that's 120 kids (with completely present fathers) , more than double, and if those kids have good families You have (potentially more) 20-30 exact copies of the exceptional geneset (with a good environment) as opposed to one man breeding it alone and making only 15 copies (with a poor upbringing) of the exceptional geneset.
Elon Musk is a good example, the collective body of his extended family will outperform his kids because he isnt a good father due to how much of himself he gives to his life.
genes are absolute determiners for baseline but upbringing will determine whether or not genes reach their full potential.
Women only want these elite status men, they wont settle for the average man.