How do you get a girlfriend in 2025? - /pol/ (#510180007) [Archived: 361 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: AVE+X95UGreece
7/12/2025, 4:34:09 PM No.510180007
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The club/bar scene is a scam. She goes there to reject every single guy that makes a move on her in order to boost her ego. It's a rejection competition between her and her friends, and God pity the fool who thinks he has a chance with her. Sometimes you might get laid if you're attractive enough to overcome her defenses however THE NEXT DAY SHE WILL DECIDE YOU'RE DONE AND GHOST YOU. This happens 100% of the times you get some luck in the club/bar scene.

Dating apps are a scam as well(imagine trusting big corporations to give you want you want). The algorithm wants you to become a premium member and keep paying so they will just tease you with the possibility of getting a girl but never actually give you one. At the same time women in the dating apps think you're a sexless loser for using them and will automatically reject you after getting your validation.

Social circles have collapsed due to the social media takeover, so meeting a girl through friends is a thing of the past. Making plans and going out with friends is a thing in recession and GOD HELP THE MAN who didn't go to university to build up a social circle in his 20s. There's no socializing with new people after you reach 30.

That leaves us with cold approaching which NO LONGER works since "it's 2025 and you should be doing the things above THAT DON'T WORK EITHER".

So how the fuck do you escape the loop?
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Anonymous ID: ULnnk/gj
7/12/2025, 4:42:38 PM No.510180513
Treat them like the objects they are—that's what all women actually want whether they know it or not https://youtu.be/LPq7CyHqQ2I
Anonymous ID: lMNouW6sBulgaria
7/12/2025, 4:45:51 PM No.510180698
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>>510180007 (OP)
Good morning
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Anonymous ID: 3D9oF5vhMexico
7/12/2025, 4:47:04 PM No.510180768
>>510180007 (OP)
For real relationships you have to invest time in coed activities.
Dancing, random classes and courses, social clubs, church activities, etc.
There's really not a simple way to go about it without gambling on random bar whores and dating apps.
Anonymous ID: bkbpixLHSwitzerland
7/12/2025, 4:47:36 PM No.510180801
OMG that's some ugly women
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Anonymous ID: V+8VhTfkUnited States
7/12/2025, 4:48:04 PM No.510180829
>>510180007 (OP)
Easy, church and coworkers. Also friends of friends. Also, large family circles of multiple aunts, uncles and cousins that know someone.

If you are on 4chan, then more than likely you are isolated from the above. I know of ugly people that are constantly dating because they are constantly being introduced to someone until they find the right one. I know of a few ugly, fat single moms in their 40s that are constantly dating until they find the right one. It's because they are constantly being introduced by others.
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Anonymous ID: 8IUS/ad4United States
7/12/2025, 4:48:40 PM No.510180859
>>510180801
Post some attractive women, then.
Anonymous ID: 0ivtK2iPMexico
7/12/2025, 4:49:49 PM No.510180914
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>>510180007 (OP)
Anonymous ID: tXPBbgokCanada
7/12/2025, 4:51:15 PM No.510180988
>>510180007 (OP)
Be a gradeschool teacher.
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Anonymous ID: pth9zg7c
7/12/2025, 4:52:03 PM No.510181025
pay a twitch thot to tell lies, like that pussy whipped paypig slave on a leash, tenda lung fat ugly chinese pig
Anonymous ID: gV6NXGwzUnited States
7/12/2025, 4:54:09 PM No.510181154
>>510180007 (OP)
Uhh I downloaded bumble and met a girl 11 years younger than me. Had her vetted and then moved her in to pay me rent and suck my cock.

Idk try being handsome or something lmao, are you at least White? No one likes brown guys these days, they're gross.
Anonymous ID: pg4f8LoY
7/12/2025, 4:54:47 PM No.510181192
Are those women Greeks or Turks?
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Anonymous ID: GAmIzRPlCanada
7/12/2025, 4:55:51 PM No.510181243
>>510180007 (OP)
gimmicks and costumes. acting like one of those jewish influencers etc or just being a black or brown nigger
Anonymous ID: GAmIzRPlCanada
7/12/2025, 4:57:12 PM No.510181321
>>510180988
If they choose that profession, they're not in it for the 'girlfriends'
>>510181192
100% Aryan whites
Anonymous ID: U4D/NSC8Chile
7/12/2025, 4:58:44 PM No.510181418
>>510180698
If you only knew how bad things are.
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Anonymous ID: dI/eKFup
7/12/2025, 4:58:46 PM No.510181420
How the fuck do you end up in playboy club in mumbai as a relatively normal looking white woman
Anonymous ID: oq0NoLFB
7/12/2025, 4:59:33 PM No.510181476
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>>510180007 (OP)
Just stop being conservative.

It's litterally that simple.
Anonymous ID: U4D/NSC8Chile
7/12/2025, 4:59:39 PM No.510181486
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>>510181418
Forgot pic
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Anonymous ID: p9NFy9/GBulgaria
7/12/2025, 5:04:04 PM No.510181747
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Be born with gigachad features/mentality,
Self-improooovement is a meme.
Anonymous ID: GAmIzRPlCanada
7/12/2025, 5:04:16 PM No.510181752
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>>510181418
>>510181486
>forgot pic
Anonymous ID: 7vnxwe7+United States
7/12/2025, 5:04:28 PM No.510181766
>>510180007 (OP)

Ask your mom/family to set you up. You'd be surprised how well they can do.

Church.

School/classes. Take a hobby class, like cooking, that girls join at a local college and just talk to them

It's not really that hard if you're not a retard or ugly af
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Anonymous ID: zrCNyHokGermany
7/12/2025, 5:06:50 PM No.510181912
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>>510180007 (OP)
1. Have a job
2. Don’t be an asshole
3. Have interests in this world to take about or do

Quite easy. And yes, women will reject most men, they also get approached hundreds of times each month, so it is nothing personal, kid.
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Anonymous ID: WjRcobPDUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:10:10 PM No.510182092
>>510180829
>larpch
Anonymous ID: V566HgnBUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:10:51 PM No.510182123
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>>510180007 (OP)
“Picking someone up at a bar” has always been a way overblown method. It makes for a good story, so we hear about it a lot and see it in movies and on tv, but it was never very common. It’s just become a sort of last resort since the collapse of social circles and the rise of online dating.

Social circles are still the answer. They always have been. But not everyone is on the same page so people just stick to social media. It’s pretty grim.

And you’re absolutely right about dating apps not being designed to actually get people together. If you want to see apps designed for that, check out Grindr and Sniffies.

I’m not gay, nor suggesting you should be, but everything from the UI to the basic design of these apps (one isn’t even an app, just a website) is so vastly different that it becomes apparent and tragically ironic; women ruined dating sites.
Anonymous ID: LCqYOJQoUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:12:05 PM No.510182199
>>510180829
>coworkers
Lmao yeah that only works if she makes almost all the moves because if you fuck up then HR will ruin you.
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Anonymous ID: nsE7427nUnited Kingdom
7/12/2025, 5:22:49 PM No.510182834
You don’t because of a several million strong demographic imbalance between men and women in most large countries combined with women choosing only men who are above them in status meaning that millions of men are literally numerically doomed . There is no defeating this problem.
Anonymous ID: VMp58fblUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:24:25 PM No.510182928
>>510181912
post claws
Anonymous ID: S+XScDKZUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:27:25 PM No.510183119
I’m not bullshitting here, so many girls out there are lonely. Very lonely. It’s not hard getting a girlfriend, just depends how hot you’re looking for but in my opinion, plain girls are gold. Just go for ones that are cute enough that you enjoy looking at them over and over and most of them have decent to good personalities, just be casual, calm, dominant, playful and keep yourself looking good. If you’re better than just most of the men in the room and you choose her, she’ll obey every fucking word you say. Most girls are desperate for a real man, they’re just bored with the slop average man they’re used to. Be something different and exciting and trust me, in a week you’ll have a girl wanting every second of your attention.
Anonymous ID: TelrtUCRUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:31:58 PM No.510183402
>>510180007 (OP)
>How do you get a girlfriend in 2025?
Go to dance classes like swing and salsa.
Anonymous ID: S2P5QulmUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:37:14 PM No.510183735
>>510182199
Coworkers fuck all the time, especially in the service industry. So long as you don't act like a weirdo, you can get pussy by just being available. It's actually disheartening because a lot girls with bfs and husbands will still approach you to be their side piece.
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Anonymous ID: V+8VhTfkUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:46:28 PM No.510184304
>>510182199
>she makes almost all the moves because if you fuck up then HR will ruin you.

True which is actually very common. Female coworkers are aware of the nature of the work environment. So they will ask you out or send a fellow coworker as an intermediary.
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Anonymous ID: wbVFtxZLUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:55:50 PM No.510184871
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>girlfriend as goal
you’ve lost before you’ve even begun. you should want a harem of concubines and make one beg and plead to rise from the ranks to be the head bitch
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Anonymous ID: w30v3ZWzGermany
7/12/2025, 5:58:10 PM No.510185007
>>510184871
Is pic related Tony Yayo?
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Anonymous ID: LCqYOJQoUnited States
7/12/2025, 5:58:44 PM No.510185040
>>510183735
What's the best service industry job for a skinny failed normie to get laid in? I'm about to be unemployed so

>>510184304
>Female coworkers are aware of the nature of the work environment. So they will ask you out or send a fellow coworker as an intermediary.
So if you've never been asked out by a female coworker then you're fuckin ugly.
Anonymous ID: MQW0Z7MNUnited States
7/12/2025, 6:01:24 PM No.510185195
>>510180829
>Church
This is terrible advice the median age of women is going to be 70
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Anonymous ID: LCqYOJQoUnited States
7/12/2025, 6:20:52 PM No.510186421
>>510185195
That means you get all that granny fanny to yourself.
Anonymous ID: fwGB5+95United States
7/12/2025, 6:27:44 PM No.510186853
>>510185007
Are you that retarded? Thats Patrice o' neal, an unironically based black. He is the exception that proves the rule.
But he is also a nigger and so he died of diabeetus which is funny as shit.

This is the guy incels like andrew tate wish they where (except the nigger part) also he based on the JQ and called out his own kind.
Anonymous ID: z9qe1XgtUnited States
7/12/2025, 6:27:55 PM No.510186866
>>510181766
My mom fucked it up on her first try by setting me up with a vaxxed half-israeli girl who's the same age as me, who had her israeli dad call and try to vaguely threaten and intimidate a few weeks after our date because I just never spoke to her again afterwards.
I don't like being lonely but this is the sad reality of living near a jewish hive. They'll never steal my genetics or last name.
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Anonymous ID: fwGB5+95United States
7/12/2025, 6:30:45 PM No.510187044
>>510184871
This is de wae. Even bald old dudes are getting cuts of trim this way. I would know. I get mad seetheing from millennial roasties cause i have no interest in blown out old raggedy roast beef vaginas. Got a tight trad 20yo wife.
Anonymous ID: fwGB5+95United States
7/12/2025, 6:31:53 PM No.510187116
>>510186866
See>>510184871

Check out the podcast he did. That will help you out by leaps and bounds. Its like the ballad of dark Phillip or some nigger shit
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Anonymous ID: z9qe1XgtUnited States
7/12/2025, 6:33:48 PM No.510187248
>>510187116
Fuck it, I hate Saturdays (& their namesake) and have nothing better to do right now. Thanks for the recommendation, anon.