>>510226440Women are women, they're always looking and even if they're not looking, they're still accepting of the compliment of a man asking if they're single.....so long as they find him attractive. These stupid dating ploys are missing the fact that you can't over ride women's programming, it's in their DNA.
The solution is for men to realize that they're not fisherman...men ARE the fish. Women are lures, that's why they get all dressed up and go out to be seen. Women want to catch a prize fish and most men are dirty carp to them. That's why as a man you be the best fish you can be and always be on the look out for a good lure. Eventually you'll get pulled into her boat and mounted on the mantle.
How does this work in real life? You do what you do, you pay no mind to women or approaching them specifically and when one starts talking to you, don't get nervous. Remind yourself every fisherman wants you AND there will always be another fisherman looking for you. 99.98% of the women you pass will not ever approach you, but the .02% that do will be home runs where you can say the stupidest things and she'll laugh. Ultimately, you don't disturb your peace seeking out women and when you do talk to them the ambiguity will dissolve and you'll never again think about the retarded world of "hints".
Women are cats, when you want a cat to like you, ignore it. They canton stand that, it's irresistible to them. Ignore women for your own peace and eventually a woman will come along and want a piece of your peace, but if she ever disturbs it, you kick her to the curb because your peace is more valuable than she is....and that's what a good woman likes most about you. I don't make the rules, God does, I just observe what He created.