>>510878739 (OP)Imagine approaching in the bar where you only find drunk sluts.
You go to the park and look for those that look like they have nowhere to go right now, not busy.
maybe those that walk their dog.
Ask if you may invite them to a smoke. 2 instantly invited me home even, which i was shocked about myself. One even later told me she has an ex already stalking her and yet she invites the next weird guy in the park offering drugs.
Admittedly nothing really came of any of it, but im trying my luck since this year basically, and at least met one to hang out with, even if just as buddies.
Also every rejection was polite, no offenses taken, and the worst that happened was that one took the invitation i in hindsight rather would have her not to.
Like really just go outside and talk to people. Its not anywhere as bad as the internet tries to tell you (at least here in germany it seems)