Why aren't guys approaching anymore? - /pol/ (#510878739) [Archived: 225 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: Z+hT2Ml8Greece
7/20/2025, 2:07:36 PM No.510878739
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Been going out for several years straight. Bars and clubs are full but nobody is approaching anymore. Everyone sits at their table talking to friends or scrolling the phone. Guys are eyeing women but approaching? Fucking never. What's going on?
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Anonymous ID: 68jO8qJBUnited States
7/20/2025, 2:13:36 PM No.510879048
>>510878739 (OP)
>nobody
Just because you and your loser friends cant talk to women it doesnt mean nobody on earth can lol
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Anonymous ID: 54b/DuckCanada
7/20/2025, 2:14:59 PM No.510879109
>>510878739 (OP)
bro if you put your arm on a woman's shoulder she'll scream and call the cops and you'll get arrested for sexual assault and get put on the sex offenders registry
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Anonymous ID: xjSGKf2YUnited Kingdom
7/20/2025, 2:17:31 PM No.510879241
Last time i went to a club I approached a table offering free prescription amphetamines. They told the bouncers! When I was 18 they'd have all been gone within around 5 minutes. Fucking bitch-ass kids these days.
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Anonymous ID: BORWfmYLAustralia
7/20/2025, 2:22:03 PM No.510879465
>>510879109
even worse, leering at a woman can give you a sexual harrasment charge. shan't be going to prison. no woman is worth having my rectum violated over
Anonymous ID: atGmSr6R
7/20/2025, 2:23:31 PM No.510879552
maybe they don't want to get lynched for talking to a woman without permission
they shouldn't be looking either, gross behaviour
Anonymous ID: tOt5dAy1United States
7/20/2025, 3:00:26 PM No.510881484
>>510878739 (OP)
Drinks are too expensive and the women scammed guys too often for guys to want to buy them anymore without a lot more investment on the woman's part, investment women are unwilling to give. I actually know a couple of nightclub managers and that's their theory anyways
>>510879048
I'm married but this is a pretty easily observable trend both statistically and anecdotally, saying "well I see guys approach women" is the same logic that had New Yorkers ignoring the passenger pigeon extinction until the problem was too big to stop.
Anonymous ID: IEZYsk7zUnited States
7/20/2025, 3:01:58 PM No.510881560
I refuse to answer any question or bump any thread presented by a Greek flag.
Anonymous ID: k1KqU1npAustralia
7/20/2025, 3:03:32 PM No.510881648
>>510878739 (OP)
You should have a look in the archive for the other 500 threads on this topic
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Anonymous ID: twZAqwzpCanada
7/20/2025, 3:13:18 PM No.510882148
>>510878739 (OP)
Well this is the first time I'm hearing about it!!
Anonymous ID: e9uDCuj/Netherlands
7/20/2025, 3:14:24 PM No.510882197
>>510879241
Thats jist because you live in a cucked anglo slave nation where snitching is a virtue in the netherlands wed welcome the amphetamines
Anonymous ID: uQLuhZnXUnited States
7/20/2025, 3:17:22 PM No.510882335
>>510878739 (OP)
Go to Japan and stop dealing with Western bullshit.
Anonymous ID: EZGFbWIdCanada
7/20/2025, 3:19:29 PM No.510882432
They chose the bear
Anonymous ID: F9Fc8TGIUnited Kingdom
7/20/2025, 3:20:44 PM No.510882489
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You shouldn't bother unless you are clearly high value, which is a funny because if you are that high value they come to you and you don't need to approach anyway.
Anonymous ID: JGVuYBjuNorway
7/20/2025, 3:21:11 PM No.510882520
>>510878739 (OP)
No one wants you to, greasy monke.

She will give you the look, and then it's alright to say hi. You going over there with a grin stroking your beer gut trying to touch her never worked, never will.
Anonymous ID: aYOcF655United States
7/20/2025, 3:21:48 PM No.510882554
>>510878739 (OP)
i used to approach but have stopped, i was whitepilled and blackpilled at the same time when i backpacked latam for 6 months. during this trip i dealt with women from all over and i realized that there are decent women but not decent american women. the local latam girls were awesome and fun to go on dates with but they are brown. i did meet some really nice white girls though. i met a russian girl, a Lithuanian girl and a dutch girl who were all very pleasent to be around, they were kind, gentle and feminine. now im back in the US and have nothing but fat entitled whores to pick from.
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Anonymous ID: vgBEGBMXPortugal
7/20/2025, 3:23:11 PM No.510882628
>>510878739 (OP)
I would just get shot down
Anonymous ID: BF2avY7uFinland
7/20/2025, 3:24:37 PM No.510882729
>>510878739 (OP)
Wtf is wrong with people these days, why can't you talk to people normally? I'm a fucking finn and I can bag a woman without following a flow chart. I don't drop some autistic "uhh maybe m'lady would be interested in some coitus with me perchance?", I just fucking mingle like a normal person. Mutual attraction just happens if it happens, it's not a goal in itself.
Anonymous ID: tjKNzJi1Sweden
7/20/2025, 3:25:01 PM No.510882753
>>510882554
Sorry to hear that man
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Anonymous ID: T5DjA4B2Germany
7/20/2025, 3:27:50 PM No.510882908
>>510878739 (OP)
Imagine approaching in the bar where you only find drunk sluts.
You go to the park and look for those that look like they have nowhere to go right now, not busy.
maybe those that walk their dog.
Ask if you may invite them to a smoke. 2 instantly invited me home even, which i was shocked about myself. One even later told me she has an ex already stalking her and yet she invites the next weird guy in the park offering drugs.
Admittedly nothing really came of any of it, but im trying my luck since this year basically, and at least met one to hang out with, even if just as buddies.

Also every rejection was polite, no offenses taken, and the worst that happened was that one took the invitation i in hindsight rather would have her not to.

Like really just go outside and talk to people. Its not anywhere as bad as the internet tries to tell you (at least here in germany it seems)
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Anonymous ID: IEZYsk7zUnited States
7/20/2025, 3:29:36 PM No.510883004
>>510882753
Imagine the worst kind of Swedish women you can and that's the average American woman. It really is that bad.
Anonymous ID: IEZYsk7zUnited States
7/20/2025, 3:32:05 PM No.510883144
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It's fucking scary out there.
>hurr durrrr why dont men approach :(
Maybe because you're 300lbs. and covered in shitty nigger doodles and have fucked like 8000 other men I don't know I'm not really that motivated. What happens to the momentum of a society in general when men aren't even *wanting* to get laid? I think you already know.
Anonymous ID: us+aQSwB
7/20/2025, 3:32:10 PM No.510883153
>>510878739 (OP)
Not true. My female friends say they constantly get approached. Just stop being so autistic and learn social skills
Anonymous ID: 6z0iWH/sItaly
7/20/2025, 3:32:21 PM No.510883160
>no man is approching me
>how dares this bum approach me? im gonna pull out my tik tok and blast him in worldview
modern women
refanon ID: u9vQtbywUnited States
7/20/2025, 3:35:40 PM No.510883335
>>510878739 (OP)
I see Greek flag/relationship question guy is back.
How's the weather over there?
Anonymous ID: wpBbi1NgUnited Kingdom
7/20/2025, 3:36:26 PM No.510883371
>>510878739 (OP)
Becuase I know that women already got drilled by a bunch of dudes for no effort, while I need to jump through hoops. Either I humiliate myself, or I can laugh as women get humbled for thinking those guys will commit.

Men approach if they want something, modern women jut aren't desirable.
Anonymous ID: rKlPr8VGRussian Federation
7/20/2025, 4:00:23 PM No.510884899
>>510882908
>. 2 instantly invited me home even
>One even later told me she has an ex

that's why I don't approach btw.
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Anonymous ID: T5DjA4B2Germany
7/20/2025, 4:02:35 PM No.510885051
>>510884899
Unless you are a virgin its kind of hypocritical to also demand a virgin. Low body count sure, but come on
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Anonymous ID: SHwDh9iIUnited States
7/20/2025, 4:04:07 PM No.510885155
>>510878739 (OP)
In most western countries the difference between criminal stalking behavior and what would have been a normal romantic gesture 15 years ago is the womanโ€™s feelings about it.
Anonymous ID: rKlPr8VGRussian Federation
7/20/2025, 4:05:14 PM No.510885236
>>510885051
no it's not.
Because men and women aren't the same
> hurr unless you don't have tits it's kinda hypocritical to demand tits
Anonymous ID: eeOnt87s
7/20/2025, 4:10:24 PM No.510885603
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>>510881648
Anonymous ID: nL+V+oz6United Kingdom
7/20/2025, 4:12:34 PM No.510885758
For one I'm getting older and older women are worse as sex usually. And secondly fuck the cunts. I was talking to some younger women the other week and they were complaining about spending so much money the previous night cause not enough men were buying them drinks... And they had boyfriends. The freeloading days are over. If you want to be spoiled you're gonna have to suck some dick. Men don't mind paying for their girlfriends just not whores who think their looks entitle them to free drinks and entertainment.
Anonymous ID: zG7Ajr7BFrance
7/20/2025, 4:46:01 PM No.510888021
>>510878739 (OP)
People LIKE larping as lonely and victims. I've tried to gets events going and play match maker but people honestly would rather jut larp as lonely since they read some (((fake news article))) convincing them their pampered, easy mode life asses are lonely. I watch what people do...or DON'T I should say, rather than listen to their lies. So people must like it that way. There is no other explanation. People just like to larp as lonely, they really do. Anything else is cope.
Anonymous ID: CJOQtTz3Hungary
7/20/2025, 4:47:34 PM No.510888137
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>>510878739 (OP)
But they do.