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Anonymous (ID: s0jqTIpm) Hungary No.511046437 >>511046615 >>511046829 >>511047092 >>511047110 >>511047139 >>511047156 >>511047519 >>511047589 >>511047654 >>511047679 >>511047716 >>511047728 >>511047819 >>511047845 >>511047858 >>511047881 >>511047933 >>511047956 >>511048021 >>511048053 >>511048111 >>511048480 >>511048591 >>511048715 >>511048835 >>511049057 >>511049360 >>511049482 >>511049734 >>511050054 >>511050269 >>511050272 >>511050369
Women are fed up with garbage men and they won't take it anymore.
Anonymous (ID: cHS6ei+W) United States No.511046615 >>511047110
>>511046437 (OP)
skinner_meme.jpg
Anonymous (ID: nQhmm22t) Ireland No.511046829 >>511047110 >>511049251
>>511046437 (OP)
the only solution is rape
Anonymous (ID: mAf2RSEi) United States No.511047026 >>511047110 >>511049030
Did someone say trouble?
Anonymous (ID: N4k6JGK3) Croatia No.511047092
>>511046437 (OP)
>noo men aren't paying for my shit!
Turn lesbian then. They'll come back running lmfao!
Anonymous (ID: u0wAlDkv) United States No.511047110
>>511046437 (OP)
>>511046615
>>511046829
>>511047026
Can we just post the part where she talks about having an open relationship so we can get to the mockery quicker?
Anonymous (ID: Sw0RM8hi) Germany No.511047139
>>511046437 (OP)
Then leave men alone
Anonymous (ID: YZt+Djr8) United States No.511047156
>>511046437 (OP)
There's plenty of wine and cats to go around.
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511047408 >>511047750 >>511048924
OP is incapable of making threads
https://archive.md/0o8xe
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/21/magazine/men-heterofatalism-dating-relationships.html
>By Jean Garnett
July 21, 2025
The stranger arrived at the bar before I did, as I intended him to, and was waiting for me at a table in back. He had the kind of face I like, and he had been a little difficult to pin down, delayed in his responses, which I also like. The place was loud with the “having fun” sounds people make when they expect to have fun any minute now, so we were leaning in to hear each other. His hair, I thought, would be good to put my hands in.
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511047440 >>511050072
There comes a time, usually, when a few extra beats of eye contact are enough. We passed through these beats, took each other’s wrists and met across the table, which was wide enough to frustrate kissing in the right way, keeping the rest of us well apart. Back at my place he was a little shy, I thought, or a little out of practice, but I felt he wanted me, which was what I wanted — to be organized and oriented by his desire, as though it were a point on the dark horizon, strobing.
“I was really looking forward to seeing you again,” he texted me the following week, around lunchtime, “but I’m going through some intense anxiety today and need to lay low :(.”
“Totally understand,” I replied, but I didn’t. Feeble, fallible “looking forward” is not longing; a man should want me urgently or not at all. I was about to collapse into a ritual of frustrated horniness (fantasy, masturbation, snacks) when a friend urged me to join her and two other women for dinner.
“Of course he has anxiety,” said one of them, a therapist, who sat across from me at the restaurant. “That’s life. That’s being alive and going to meet someone you don’t know well.”
“Yeah,” said the woman beside her, a historian. “It’s called ‘sexual tension.’ Stay with it for a minute and you might get some.”
“They can’t,” said my friend with triumphant disgust. She told us about a woman she knew who was dating a man from another city. After weeks of saying “I can’t wait to see you,” the man ghosted her during his actual visit. His explanation later? He’d been “too anxious.”
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511047478 >>511047966 >>511048137
“Aww, poor baby!” cried the historian, and we all cooed and moaned for the poor wittle fraidy-cat boo-boo, working ourselves into a frenzy of laughter over men’s inability to “man up and [expletive] us.” We were four women at a vegan restaurant in downtown Manhattan; we knew what show we were in, and we couldn’t help but wonder, in a smug, chauvinistic way: Where were the men who could handle hard stuff? Like leaving the house for sex?
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The therapist mused about the anxiety of needing to “justify the phallus.” “You know,” she said, “from the child’s point of view, it’s like, ‘I get what Mom is for, but what are you for? What’s the point of your thing?’” This sent us miming confrontations with imaginary members — “Who invited you?” “What’s your deal?” “Are you lost?” — which led to wisecracks about the not-so-precision scalpel of the surgeon the therapist was seeing. Privately, jokes aside, I am quite susceptible to penis — like, I worry that in some Hobbesian state of nature I might just automatically kneel to the prettiest one — but lately I have been bruised by the ambivalence of men, how they can first want me and then become confused about what they want, and this bawdy, diminishing humor soothed me, made me feel more powerful, more in control.
“When did the men get so anxious about desire?” asked the therapist, and I said I didn’t know. “Yes, you do,” my friend said. “It was when they were put on notice that they can’t just get drunk and grope us.”
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511047513 >>511049439
I haven’t been dating long (just the other day my ex-husband and I received our Judgment of Divorce as an email attachment), but long enough to discover that I have a type. He is gentle, goofy, self-deprecating, rather deferential, a passionate humanist, a sweet guy, a “good guy.” He tends to signal, in various ways, his exemption from the tainted category of “men,” and it is perfectly understandable that he would wish to do so. It must be mildly embarrassing to be a straight man, and it is incumbent upon each of them to mitigate this embarrassment in a way that feels authentic to him.
One of the reasons my marriage ended was that I fell in love with another man — whom I’ll refer to by his first initial, J. Spontaneously graceful, with a soft voice and an inordinate, sad-eyed smile, J. made me laugh, stopping my breath. Being a “good guy,” he intimated from the jump that he did not know how to “do” relationships, giving me to understand that if I expected one with him (or, as he may have conceptualized it, from him), I did so at my peril (which was his peril, too, since he would hate to hurt me). Still, he pursued me; we seemed to be “doing” something together.
Anonymous (ID: 5C1Ydht0) United States No.511047519
>>511046437 (OP)
It really is starting to feel that the only way a man can enjoy anything resembling a meaningful relationship is if he finds a woman from a considerably well-off family who isn't just looking at him as a ticket out of the peasantry. Trying to form a relationship with a woman without resources in the modern world is essentially like trying to date a street hooker. The same scarcity mentality and mercenary behavior exists.
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511047542
My husband and I had an open relationship at the time that J. and I met, so the terms of our involvement were, at first, limited, and although J. exerted a pleasant pressure against these limitations, ultimately they suited him. I was the one who violated the terms by finding it intolerable, after a while, to care that much, in that way, for one person while being married to another. I could not disambiguate sex from love nor love from devotion, futurity, family integration, things I wanted with (from?) J., even as, throughout the year and a half or so that we saw each other, he continued to gesture to his incapacity to commit as if it were a separate being, an unfortunate child who followed and relied upon him, maybe, or a physical constraint. I stood there reaching for him while he sad-faced back at me like a boxed mime: He couldn’t talk about it; he wished things were different; maybe someday the child would mature, the glass would break, but for now, there was really nothing to be done.
It seems to me, surveying the field as a dating novice, that this kind of studiously irreproachable male helplessness abounds. I keep encountering and hearing about men who “can’t.” Have these men not heard of “don’t want to?”
Maybe my friend was right about male anxiety at this moment. Maybe the men are taking a beat, “laying low,” unsure of how to want, how to talk, how to woo. Maybe they are punishing us for the confusion.
Anonymous (ID: gW1G249i) United States No.511047589
>>511046437 (OP)
Okay? What are they gonna do? Start attacking people because they can’t get penis? Lmao even. Enjoy your cats, bitch
Anonymous (ID: qvviZ8XG) United States No.511047654 >>511047796
>>511046437 (OP)
Women these days sure are FED lol
Anonymous (ID: G945+cbZ) Canada No.511047679
>>511046437 (OP)
You made the post again?
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511047681 >>511049561
so this article is just the womens sex fantasy or someshit. I can't read anymore it's starting to hurt my brain
Anonymous (ID: diXHKOvz) United States No.511047685 >>511048596 >>511049484
I want a boyfriend
Anonymous (ID: fS8PYDUt) United States No.511047716 >>511047812 >>511047884
>>511046437 (OP)
A major problem with incels is they cry and whine and bitch about wanting a "trad wife" and a "trad life" and join all these men's groups on reddit. But fact of the matter is they are completely useless in any situation where an actual man is needed
Anonymous (ID: 5YA3Viuz) Canada No.511047728 >>511047799 >>511047915
>>511046437 (OP)
Is this really true or is it cope? Did women abandon men or did men abandon women?
Anonymous (ID: qvviZ8XG) United States No.511047750 >>511047865
>>511047408
>The stranger arrived at the bar before I did, as I intended him to
Topkek what the fuck kind of retard is this woman
>show up late
>hehe yes…just as I intended….
Anonymous (ID: BCXnpDX+) United States No.511047796
>>511047654
Haha because they are all fat haha!
Anonymous (ID: fS8PYDUt) United States No.511047799 >>511047903
>>511047728
Its only true for people who seek it out. Notice how NOBODY talks about this shit in the real world?
Anonymous (ID: gW1G249i) United States No.511047812 >>511047945
>>511047716
>80% of young men aren’t useful
Wow chud. Painting in real broad strokes. Guess you think appeasement is a valid strategy
Anonymous (ID: z9RRejbP) United States No.511047819
>>511046437 (OP)
HOT DAMN ANOTHER INCEL THREAD, I CAN'T WAIT TO GET ANGRY
Anonymous (ID: pbEGkjD1) United States No.511047832
cisgirls who are tired of men should date transgirls, unless they hate vidya or something stupid like that, they can be with other boring cisgirls them

its just better in the modern era

and transgirls should date transgirls or cisgirls whichever they feel safest etc with

and boys belong with boys or femboys

and icky men can be wizards or be with their bros
Anonymous (ID: MSyFT8Pg) United States No.511047845
>>511046437 (OP)
They're too stuck up and look down on everyone. They all have a princess complex.
Anonymous (ID: qTtOV8O+) United States No.511047858
>>511046437 (OP)
>heterofatalism
Women have lost the plot.
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511047865
>>511047750
this bitch is fucken insane
Birb (ID: yXXWDqbv) United States No.511047881
>>511046437 (OP)
Well, who else is supposed to pick up your trash?
Anonymous (ID: z9RRejbP) United States No.511047884
>>511047716
>a-actually men are the problem...
silence, hole
Anonymous (ID: 5YA3Viuz) Canada No.511047903 >>511048188
>>511047799
I've heard overweight white women coworkers complain about men in the real world.
Anonymous (ID: zWvvHsYh) United States No.511047915
>>511047728
Dating apps are 70-80% men.
Anonymous (ID: sdLvgU/U) Greece No.511047933
>>511046437 (OP)
>men are fed up with garbage women and they won't take it anymore.
ftfy
Anonymous (ID: fS8PYDUt) United States No.511047945
>>511047812
80%? what kind of retarded bullshit is that lmao. I get youre just trolling but you should use lower numbers so you don't get called a retard
Anonymous (ID: 4ljuCkqn) United States No.511047956
>>511046437 (OP)
Anonymous (ID: qvviZ8XG) United States No.511047966 >>511048234
>>511047478
>“Aww, poor baby!” cried the historian, and we all cooed and moaned for the poor wittle fraidy-cat boo-boo, working ourselves into a frenzy of laughter over men’s inability to “man up and [expletive] us.”
Do women think this makes them look cool or something?
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511048005 >>511048451
here is her instagay with her cuck husband
https://www.instagram.com/publishingtwins/?hl=en
Anonymous (ID: bJQZzIzZ) Canada No.511048021
>>511046437 (OP)
Cant wait for ai and robot men.
Cant wait for biomoid seethe.
Just have to wait for men to make their replacements.
Anonymous (ID: DcPJkZpZ) Sweden No.511048053
>>511046437 (OP)
Why are they so mad. It's almost like they want to go after men for not pleasing them enough. They don't understand, we don't even need them
Anonymous (ID: 3T2dLXRZ) Macedonia No.511048111
>>511046437 (OP)
They need my BAC to please them while I stay a NEET and multiple roasties provide for me
Anonymous (ID: 4ljuCkqn) United States No.511048136 >>511048190 >>511048218 >>511048439
any woman with a body count over zero is a sentient sex doll for recreational use ONLY. she is not to be dated, courttd or married, ever
Anonymous (ID: N4k6JGK3) Croatia No.511048137
>>511047478
lol
lmao even
Anonymous (ID: cxRuk4qi) United States No.511048188 >>511048375
>>511047903
Why do you hang out with people like that? Why dont you surround yourself with successful confident happy people who have money, successful social and romantic lives and have fun hobbies? Why do you choose to be a loser? Why do you lower yourself as a man in society? Why dont you surround yourself with all these "trad" women you beg and cry and whine about wanting like EVERYBODY else on earth does when they want to succeed? I dont get it. You spend all day crying and making cope threads when you should be posting things to inspire people.
Anonymous (ID: bJQZzIzZ) Canada No.511048190
>>511048136
>men prefer women with foot faces
Anonymous (ID: 3T2dLXRZ) Macedonia No.511048218
>>511048136
I prefer to put them even more into debt and experienced so I can go full blast in western roasties
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511048234
>>511047966
I think she's some NY cosmopolitan try hard. the article is dross and I don't know what any of it is supposed to mean
Anonymous (ID: 5YA3Viuz) Canada No.511048375
>>511048188
Dude I'm at work and they just blurt these things out of nowhere.
Anonymous (ID: Zz8Ai8bU) Canada No.511048439 >>511048677 >>511048809 >>511049145 >>511049752 >>511049920
>>511048136
>just allow 99% of women to die childless
Yeah great idea. Really forward-thinking plan you have there.
Anonymous (ID: 5YA3Viuz) Canada No.511048451 >>511048509
>>511048005
Face is familiar
Anonymous (ID: /iQ4wkNq) Canada No.511048480
>>511046437 (OP)
That's a good thing though because it will motivate men to improve themselves. Women are supposed to do that.
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511048509
>>511048451
it links the article on the instgrim
Anonymous (ID: Sx9K1T/i) Russian Federation No.511048591 >>511049735
>>511046437 (OP)
Men are fed up with tailless women.
Anonymous (ID: /iQ4wkNq) Canada No.511048596
>>511047685
What's your waist size?
Anonymous (ID: 4ljuCkqn) United States No.511048677
>>511048439
you realize 100% of women are virgins at birth, correct? stupid faggot simp leaf. you on the left btw
Anonymous (ID: 1o+cv552) Iceland No.511048715
>>511046437 (OP)
>women are fed up with dating men after spending years complaining men aren't asking them out on dates
LOL
Anonymous (ID: N4k6JGK3) Croatia No.511048809
>>511048439
>allow
Man even if I was offered a pretty virgin, I'd still like a dowry too to be compensated. How the fuck does anyone excuse marrying a cumdump? And "allowing" has nothing to do with anything. It's not my fucking problem.
Anonymous (ID: LYVvH06C) United States No.511048835 >>511048977
>>511046437 (OP)
What did garbage men do to get deserve hate?
Anonymous (ID: pltjAJ1g) United States No.511048911
>women
seriously who gives a shit anymore
pic related: average woman enjoyer
Anonymous (ID: f8BsDPy3) United Kingdom No.511048924 >>511049014 >>511049190
>>511047408
>The stranger arrived at the bar before I did, as I intended him to
Sex and the City has convinced a generation of women to think about dating like it's a Machiavellian murder plot.
Anonymous (ID: 5YA3Viuz) Canada No.511048977 >>511049739
>>511048835
Goddamn that's a nice dumpster. Look at the counterweighted lid.
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511049014
>>511048924
nah just this nuts bitch. from what I can gather she is in an open marriage. writes gay shit for a living. she thinks shes carry bradshaw or something
Anonymous (ID: IQ22GelJ) United States No.511049030
>>511047026
MAKE IT DOUBLE
Anonymous (ID: snHpzIiv) Canada No.511049057
>>511046437 (OP)
Anonymous (ID: kbhcEHPZ) No.511049058 >>511049181
>incel whining thread
Anonymous (ID: z9RRejbP) United States No.511049145
>>511048439
they voted for it
Anonymous (ID: z9RRejbP) United States No.511049181
>>511049058
you lost, tranny
Anonymous (ID: 5YA3Viuz) Canada No.511049190
>>511048924
Every relationship is now a power struggle. She has to set the tone from the start that she is in charge by showing him she doesn't respect his time as much as her own.
Anonymous (ID: 5Sg/CIVJ) Germany No.511049251
>>511046829
I'm beginning to believe this might unironically be a correct statement.

The west is undergoing a shit test on a global scale. The women crave subjugation but we have been making them dry with consent.
Anonymous (ID: 4ljuCkqn) United States No.511049325 >>511049591
Anonymous (ID: OQ+uhCkL) United Kingdom No.511049360
>>511046437 (OP)
>listening to women
Anonymous (ID: rG66RwTP) United States No.511049439
>>511047513
>It must be mildly embarrassing to be a straight man, and it is incumbent upon each of them to mitigate this embarrassment in a way that feels authentic to him.
>refuses to elaborate
>leaves
Anonymous (ID: e1r6C4nk) United States No.511049482 >>511050137
>>511046437 (OP)
>women incoherently screetching about men for the billionth time
Giving women rights was a mistake.
Anonymous (ID: MBZccTOo) No.511049484
>>511047685
and i want a girlfreind join the club or start putting out like the rest
Anonymous (ID: ZoX0YQyF) Paraguay No.511049561 >>511049693
>>511047681
Didn't read
Anonymous (ID: e1r6C4nk) United States No.511049591
>>511049325
>genuine guys
>bleaches hair blonde
>lies and gaslights
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511049693
>>511049561
don't bother. it just annoyed me knowing that a person like that exists
Anonymous (ID: qvviZ8XG) United States No.511049734 >>511050045
>>511046437 (OP)
Why did the New York Times publish this?
Anonymous (ID: ZGLvibWY) United States No.511049735 >>511049869
>>511048591
Does it give you some comfort, little man, to go and post in every possible place that you have given yourself so fully to fansaty and degeneracy that your sexual desires cannot possibly be filled by a real woman?
Anonymous (ID: MBZccTOo) No.511049739
>>511048977
hello fellow autist
Anonymous (ID: ffET1cgb) United States No.511049740
reading that insipid pablum up above made my eyes angry. women know how to say nothing in the most longwinded ways.
Anonymous (ID: ERmppXbI) United States No.511049752
>>511048439
If western civilization/the white race/humanity needs men to marry used up, debt ridden, diseased, drugged up, vaxxed whores who can walk all over us and ruin us whenever they want, it deserves to fall. Fuck the gynocracy and fuck white knights like you.
Anonymous (ID: qvviZ8XG) United States No.511049869
>>511049735
>attacking tailanon with “little man”
Why don’t you take 40 percocets and a bottle of wine tonight
Anonymous (ID: cxRuk4qi) United States No.511049920 >>511050118
>>511048439
Incels lack the life experience to understand what they are saying
Anonymous (ID: L5K0p7Et) Australia No.511050045
>>511049734
my best guess would be shes jewish
Anonymous (ID: oTECYN2R) United States No.511050054
>>511046437 (OP)
>heterofatalism
Anonymous (ID: Xbps0a8t) United States No.511050072
>>511047440
This actually contains a pretty interesting tidbit of truth about women here.
Sex, and sexuality, for them, is a celebration of themselves. They want to be desired by the best man they can get to desire them.
Anonymous (ID: qvviZ8XG) United States No.511050118
>>511049920
You are barely literate yet come here copping a misplaced smug superiority about how totally cool and normal you are. Yet you still ended up here same as any incel. Why don’t you drop the act and fucking kill yourself you worthless cretin?
Anonymous (ID: ZlJEH7A5) United States No.511050137
>>511049482
Repeal the 19th
Anonymous (ID: qWmb72qe) No.511050269
>>511046437 (OP)
Anonymous (ID: OQ+uhCkL) United Kingdom No.511050272
>>511046437 (OP)
Reading this article makes me want to blow my head off with a 120mm cannon
Anonymous (ID: xDmKfQEm) Finland No.511050369
>>511046437 (OP)
>you can't fire me! i quit!
Anonymous (ID: fALlnL5y) United States No.511050518
So like , when y'all growing a pair and fighting the government?
I can't do this shit on my own