>>511140203 (OP)Most people aren't wired to operate the way we do.
We are obsessive because we suppress emotions for survival. Most aren't conditioned to suppress emotions. They wake up each day and think, "ahh, I feel good today," and they text their friend because they felt good that particular day. Friend texts back "you seem in a good mood" and they work together to improve each other's mood.
Then, Mr. Chud comes along (who suppresses emotions). They see him and think "wow, this guy makes me feel weird, I feel repulsed but also somewhat scared, he is weird."
Mr Anon Chud thinks "here are two thots, I must put on my A-game" (feeling doesn't even cross his mind, he doesn't feel weird, he isn't feeling anything at all, he is retarded).
After this interaction, most people laugh at the chud, talk about how he made them feel and about what he reminded them of, the chud however goes home, opens 4chan and asks /adv/ for advice on how to plan a wedding because in his head, he did everything right and he just found a wife. He has no idea who even felt what.
When reality doesn't pan out as he fantasizes, he seethes. Little does he know, his issue is that he suppresses emotions. Had he not, he wouldn't be weird to begin with, he would've felt a bad vibe from the getgo and he wouldn't have fantasized that a bad vibe meant a wedding. He would've been anchored in reality and made genuine connections in the world.
Regardless, he can't be helped. He can only help himself. And he will stay mentally ill until he dares to feel, accept his feelings and to embrace his emotions.