>>511392095In 1999, I was banging a chick. She and I were having fun doing stuff. Movies, burglarizing an oceanside bar, fucking, lots of fun shit.
We were on our way back to my apartment one night, and there was some chick screaming and raised voices.
We rubbernecked.
It was a guy, and he was slapping a woman. She was running, jump kicking, and flailing on him.
He was just slapping her. She would hit him three or four times and he would then slap her, sending her rolling on the ground until she got up screaming and crying, and attacked him again. He would take a few hits, and then slap the shit out of her again.
Girlfriend got mad, and wanted me to stop and help her.
I told her "I don't know her, and if she wanted to stop being slapped, she'd stop attacking him."
Girlfriend got mad and asked what I would do if someone slapped her. I told her it depended on whether I was there, and what she did to deserve it. We were together for another year. I don't see it as a failed relationship. She moved on to someone else, got pregnant, and dumped, and then she gained 150 pounds. She was still single when I looked her up six years ago with an adult son living with her. I'm married and have two kids that will be out of high school in the next three years that understand that if you find yourself in a shitty situation, it's because you put yourself there.
Women want complete control of men. Because they are too weak to do anything on their own. Deny them that control, and you do not have to fear losing them.