>>511392138 (OP)The thing about femcels and incels is that they are both perpetually paralyzed by indecision due to personal preference, without realizing that attraction is malleable. But what we want at the end of the day is somebody who "gets us", but we're paralyzed by oneitis mental spam, which reinforces a "I need exactly this" image in our fantasy heads, which ironically blocks off the rest of what could be actual happiness.