>>511405937 (OP)
Not quite.
First I don't "hate" them, I just wouldn't marry one. Secondly I would be ok with marrying a non-virgin woman if I myself got to live the same kind of life without moral confusion. If it's "objectification" for me to pump and dump women I think are hot but have no intention of forming serious relationships with then I am being expected to abstain, and if there is a moral expectation for me to abstain then why doesn't that same expectation exist for women, especially given that female promiscuity is far more socially destructive than male promiscuity.
There were several girls like that I could've fucked in highschool (even though I was an ugly nerd) but I knew that I would just be using them for sex. Of course I also knew that I would naturally form a bond with them because that's just what sex does at that age and wouldn't mind remaining friends with them, but would that harm their future relationships etc etc. I'm burdened with all this moral confusion and socialized responsibility while women aren't, so unless these women literally tell me
>hey anon
>we're going to start being sluts
>if you want to fuck us then lets go
>if you don't then we're just going to fuck other guys, so you aren't protecting us by saying no etc
>either it's you fucking us or some random dickhead
then yeah I would fuck them and have a great time because they have just diffused the moral ambiguity. That experience would also make the thought of eventually marrying a non-virgin woman a lot less painful. Women don't do this though. They bombard you with moral ambiguity and then expect you to be confident etc, but only bad people are able to be confident in morally ambiguous environments, which is why most of those women from my school got knocked up by drug dealers and became single mothers in their teens. By not diffusing the moral ambiguity they made it uncomfortable for good men to get involved with them, ensuring that they all get swept up by shitty men.
