>>512102429I'll be honest, it was the fear of a humiliating misunderstanding that stopped me as much as the morality. If she'd straight up said "I want you to fuck me" (arguably she basically DID that in girl speak the time she messaged me to say that her husband was busy at an event all day and could she come over to hang out at my place, but there's still room for interpretation) I'm really not sure I could've said no.
I've had long-running problems with friends' GFs trying to cheat with me in general though, that's happened with at least 5 different girls, and I actually DID not only fuck one but end up in a 5 year relationship with her, only I didn't know we were cheating at the time, she let me believe they'd already broken up and I was the rebound and we were just keeping it on the down low to not hurt his feelings.
Taiwanese food is fucking awesome, I'm 3 hours from the nearest Din Tai Fung and I'm seriously considering making the drive for my birthday because Chinese food where I live is fucking garbage in general and I miss the good shit.
I wouldn't have a lot of experience with Japanese people either except I happened to go to college with an exchange student and that lead to me developing a whole Japanese friend group, getting a job with a Japanese company that one of them worked for, spending a bunch of time there, etc.
I'm not sure where any of the Chinese girls I knew in High School were from, but they were all so thoroughly Americanized (I think mostly ABC from the SGV) that it hardly mattered. I've only known a few canto people in the US as an adult, like you say they're rare, but liked pretty much all of them.