Thread 512137589

No WONDER you're not getting any matches, you're only swiping on the models!

>>512137589 (OP)
Epic.

>>512137589 (OP)
Well, yes. Dating apps only focusing and benefiting the attractive goes both ways. A woman being likable as a person to whatever man she fancies usually adds on average 2 extra points on the out of 10 scale for attractiveness in a man's eyes

>>512137589 (OP)
This is obviously true. That tea app fiasco really proved this. All you gays did for days was sit around and make fun of ugly/meh women like you're all 8/10+ yourselves.

>>512137589 (OP)
Dating apps are full of whores and bots

>>512137589 (OP)
Ya hot women are for ultra wealthy only!

Learn your place peasants! Peasants don’t deserve love! If you make under 30k you deserve nothing! Philosophy isn’t a real career!

/s

>>512137589 (OP)
>No WONDER you're not getting any matches, you're only swiping on the models!
It's not that, it's that people don't understand how dating app ELO works, and before they do, they absolutely trash their ELO making it impossible to recover from. If you want a detailed explanation, please respond with your bodyweight in lbs, and your bench press max.

I do not need to lower my standards. I need to die.

>>512137589 (OP)
if im already genetically inferior, why would i marry and have kids with someone even worse than me? thats giving my son even less of a chance to continue reproduction. its better to take your time (men can have children their entire lives) and find the right woman who is at least equal to you in attractiveness.

I left swipe every hot girl because theyre out of my league, trying to get more followers, or more subscribers. It's the mid to ugly ones I look more closely but they're usually covered in tattoos, have long fake nails, multiple kids or not wanting kids.

>>512137589 (OP)

In this day and age I don't think men have had this low standards ever before, same with women and having two high standards. The bar is so low for women that for most men out there, they'd have to start dating literal pigs in dresses to lower it even more.

Men in the 1940s or 50s wouldn't even look at the type of women that men are trying to turn into girlfriends these days via dating apps. Fat tatted up bitches who smoke weed all day feel like they're 8/10s now.

They're referring specifically to single mothers, aren't they? Pussy janitor is a gross job, no respectable man wants it.

>>512137589 (OP)
>Men need to

Lol. Women need to stop complaining with I rob them, rape them, beat them, kill them, and throw them face down in a ditch.

>>512139972
Well put. One of the most major problems with modern """dating""" is that Men's standards are far too low and wom*n's standards are far too high. Just as the kikes intended.

>>512139307
200/200
Now reveal your secrets.

>>512137589 (OP)
>Czech dating app

Lol. Lmao

>>512140105

What's worse about all of this is that women are actively ruining dating and men having to do what they can to get by. Some dudes break the system and end up winning and either getting the hoe or finding one of the rare examples of a decent women in their personal life.

Women have no one but themselves to blame. Think of Rei from Evangelion. She does nothing but go to work, come home, stay in shape and do nothing. She's boring and lacks a personality. She does nothing good/bad yet if she existed in some sort of speed dating, she'd probably be the best girl in the room.

Women can do almost nothing and they'd be better than their peers. They expect men to be Christian Gray, but they themselves can't even meet the expectation of doing nothing. They have to sabotage their own life constantly and blame men while praising themselves.

It's fucked.

>>512137589 (OP)
Not use dating apps. If I find out she does, she gets ghosted.

>>512137589 (OP)
>lower your standards you INCEL
someone post the tea app collage

>>512140234
>don't be a landwhale
If you think landwhales don't get partners, I have some news for you.

>>512137589 (OP)
There's only 3 women in a 100 mile radius that aren't morbidly obese wtf am I supposed to do

>>512137589 (OP)
I have a strict no fats, no brats, no tatts, policy. I guess that qualifies as "model" now.

I've had tinder for many months now and I got 1 match in which the girl didn't respond.
Tinder tries to sell me premium to see who liked me, but no one is liking me lmao.

>>512137589 (OP)
I'm surprised dating apps are still in business considering all the hoeflation and onlyfans promotion shit on there

>>512139774
>picrel
>women rate 81% of men below average and 7% of men above average
>men rate women according to a standard gaussian natural distribution curve
>it's men's standards that are the problem

>mfw i just gave all women the ick by referencing mathematics above a 7th grade level

>>512139210
>Peasants don’t deserve love!
Are you saying non-hot women are incapable of loving? what are you trying to say?

>>512137589 (OP)
What does this have to do with politics?

>>512140145
Everyone has an ELO on every dating app.

I'll use 1000 as the default, "you just made your account", ELO.

ELO affects who you are shown to, and in what order you sit on a prospective person's stack of people. AKA, someone with a 250 ELO is going to be at the bottom of a 2000 ELO's stack.

Certain things influence your ELO, both positive and negative.

Positive Influences:
Buying a Boost
Premium membership
Talking with your matches
Having the other person give you their phone number.
Someone right swiping/liking you

Negative Influences:
Swiping yes on people who swipe no on you.
Swiping a large amount of times in a short period of time
Having a large amount of people in your match queue that you haven't spoken to.
Not responding to someone without having had a large conversation beforehand.

Essentially, the apps strive to group people based on their ELO together, and encourages engagement. When engagement happens, people are more likely to subscribe and thats how dating apps get their money. Remember, this is a business model. Users with high engagement with prospective members, attractive users, etc, are more valuable to the app than the people who swipe 10000 times and then "filter based on the matches" by unmatching or not responding to the undesirables.

If you want an extremely dark secret and how I jumped my ELO up, do this:
Set preferences to both sexes, and set travel mode to thailand/philippines. Go to sleep. Wake up in the morning with over 1000 potential matches from faggots who want to suck your dick. Left swipe all of them, go back to your regular browsing. You've now accumulated tons of points in ELO and the system now thinks you are a highly desirable individual.

I could go into the nitty gritty of it, as I'm sure it works the exact same way as it did a decade ago, but this post is getting long enough anyways.

t. full-stack developer for Tinder in 2013-2017

>>512137589 (OP)
haha right

>>512142224
>higher inequality than 95% of world's economies

>>512137589 (OP)
Mens entire strategy on dating apps is to swipe on the vast majority of women they see on them or they never get a match.
They've done big studies on this, women swipe on less than 5% of men but the inverse is true.

>>512141407
Jeets abroad pay for every possible secondary or fomo feature imaginable.

>>512137589 (OP)
First mistake was using a Czech sample pool lol. I'm gonna assume all 3000 participants were wearing adidas track suits as well.

>>512137589 (OP)
>Virgin
>Not fat
>No tattoos
All qualities a woman is born with, considered "unrealistic standards" in 2025 and these are the bare minimum. Modern dating just isn't worth it, none of my ancestors had to deal with this shit.

I created my Tinder account. First time.
All girls there look fake - big lips, tits everywhere, ass shots. Etc. This does not get me hard in the slightest.
Where are all the wholesome waifus? I want big heart and soul, not some super model.

>>512139307
155lbs, I have never tried a 1rm but my PR is 185 for 6 reps.

>>512143206
>Virgin
Are you willing to wait for marraige?

>>512137589 (OP)
>this fucking thread again
I finally read the article the cocksucking nigger OP failed to link. The desirability of the Czech participants were determined by number of swipes on a Czech dating app. So literal 1-3s are considered as desirable as an 8 man. They also admitted that there were more men then woman participants, because of course there would be with a dating app sample.
https://nypost.com/2025/07/26/lifestyle/men-need-to-lower-their-standards-on-dating-apps-new-study-shows/

>>512137589 (OP)
Sort of true. If you want a woman who's not disgustingly obese you're already being quite picky. If you want her to also not be whore it's pretty much over for you.

>>512137589 (OP)
I don't want to date women; I actually tried the last year I had a stable job (sometime around 2017 or 2018) to find a partner by asking a woman to cheat on the job, we were both discussing it daily at lunch and she was attractive, we both KNEW the job was paying peanuts and would never promote us, the job was literal NPC tier but we'd both go to the pub at lunches to drink together and talk shit. I came up with a plan to do a road trip and when it came to crunch time, that woman completely cheated on the plan and torpedoed it.

I am NEVER attracted to a woman that will use a dating app or any app whatsoever, it would have been nice to have started a family after fucking around a bit on a road trip, but instead she opted to stay there and... well be boring. Chances are she's already found during the scamdemic that there is no such thing as stable work but I did find better paying work and had fun on that road trip, but I was alone and it really pissed me off it did.

>>512142036
Thanks for the insight

>>512137589 (OP)
you have to ignore the ones that have an insta gram handle on it

>>512144432
she just wasn´t as into you as you were into her retard.

>>512137589 (OP)
And that's in the New York Post, a supposedly conservative, Republican paper. And they're disingenuously claiming that men's standards are the problem, not women's standards.
It goes to show that the whole hates young men, but mainly if they're white. White males are the new "niggers," the segment of the population that it's acceptable to hate and harass. The mainstream "right" has nothing to offer young white males, same as the Democrats.
Our "republic" or "democracy" or whatever you want to call it needs to end.

>>512137589 (OP)
>men need to stop rejecting 20 out of every 100 matches, women should continue rejecting 99 out of 100 matches

I hate journalists so much it's unreal.

>>512137589 (OP)
99.99% of the women on these dating apps are zeros. They don't even register on the scale, the only thing they are good for is to pump and dump

>>512143806
enjoy
>>512142036

>>512143206
>not fat
26% of women in the UK are no longer eligible due to obesity
59% if you mean generally being overweight
>virgins
82% of women in the UK lose their virginity by the age of 20
>no tattoos
29% of women in the UK have at least one tattoo, though that drops down to around 19% for 18 to 24 year olds

Anyway, just with those three criteria applied, you can see how it's very unlikely that you'll find just any woman that fits it, let alone build a meaningful connection with her.

>>512137589 (OP)
wrong, retard. im chad and women love me. they even put up with my shit being broke as fuck thats how hot i am.

tough luck incels, kill yourself. you will always be pussies no matter how much money you farm.

Being fat is against my religion. Sorry girls.

>>512139210
>/s

go back

>>512137589 (OP)
>UMM actually sweetie men are the hypergamous sex
This gaslighting is so retarded it's insulting
>>512139774
This

men need to stop expecting any adult female to be
>a virgin
>without a tattoo
>without an std
>less than 140 pounds

I am a top 1% male and I struggle to find women on my level. They're attractive but in debt and mently ill. It's over for the little guy.

meanwhile...

I can't go any lower dude.

>>512137589 (OP)
Really that's funny, cause my studies show that bitch inflation (not monetary, I mean physical inflation) has gotten out of control and they need to lower their calorie intake

Why would you trust a subscription dating app for anything other than glorified prostitution? An app that charges you $1000 if you end up getting married to the person they match you with would be better.

>>512150592
>Why would you trust a subscription dating app for anything other than glorified prostitution?

I never really understood the online dating thing. When I was younger I would just walk the park and chat up girls effortlessly. When you are over 30 things change because you are old and suddenly the girls are too young! And everyone wants money you don't have! Ha!

>>512139972
Majority of women have drank the kool-aid and believe that they arent obligated to self improve and introspect about their own flaws, and how to apply a solution thereof. Ie my sis is basically the archetypical modern harpy, bitch and moan about how mens either are arrogant or spineless, yet she fail utterly to realize her own horrid behavior and hypocresy is to blame. As in, she act like she do no wrong, but talking to her about anything is like walking on eggshells as she go apeshit over presumptions and prejudice over what you said, and good fucking luck convincing her that she is the wrong for doing so because she literally cannot accept being wrong, regardless of the reason she acted upon, but then she act like her shit doesnt stink and if you dont take her "advice" with glee she take it personally, notwithstanding how she hold grudges and will speak behind your back, only to act like there is nothing going on if confronted.

Its genuinely draining to interact with her, and its no wonder her every boyfriends (and husband) eventually fuck off and ghost her, she is the kind of bitch who'll feign be happy to recieve a gift but spit in your face for it at a later date. Ie one of her last boyfriend brought her a fucking camping trailer and she had the audacity to call it a "poisoned gift" because it stay in the driveway not being used and slowly decaying away. But the worst is truly how much of an hypocrite she is, the way she talk to others, she wouldnt tolerate the tenth of it. And that doesnt even go into the truckload of utterly condemnable stuff she did and just washed her hand of any accountability, like talking behind my back and trying to convince my family im autistic without even asking me anything about how I feel about snything, lie to her friend about our interactions so they demonize me and pick her side, slapping me as a "joke" and act like I am the one innthe wrong for being pissed off at her for doing that fucking gratuitous, etc.

>>512137589 (OP)
>men need to lower their standards
>since the inception of the dating apps, men have been swiping yes or right on all sorts of fat, crazy, ugly women
>it's men's that need to lower their standards
>the men need to lower their standards
>on dating apps
>software that women use to filter out 60-90% of men
>"men need to lower their standards"

>>512151680
In retrospect, im almost sure at 110% she is either a sociopath or manic bipolar, because the way she basically did an 180° from crocodile tears to angrily flabbergasted at my absolute lack of fuck given to her emotional manipulation was surreal. Like from tears and emotional bait, to soulless stare and silence in mere seconds. Felt fucking creepy. Like she dropped a mask because she realized it just wouldnt work on me.

>>512137589 (OP)
>you're only swiping on the models!
Bullshit.
This is all about women feeking the downturn in simps simping.
Women are the loudest to cry about things.
Hence, the government needs u 2 B CAptain Save the Hoes!
Let the indians do all the ugo women!

>>512140978
>only 3 women in a 100 mile radius that aren't morbidly obese
passport bro.

Another limp dick 1pbtid faggot agitator OP.

>>512137589 (OP)
I get matches but it’s all ugly chicks, I’d rather just die alone

>>512137589 (OP)
@skynet can you summarise this article for me please? Thank you

>>512142036
100% makes sense
But what does ELO stand for?

>>512141407
They've all consolidated to two companies but the cracks are there. You get free paid features once in awhile now which shows more and more men are refusing to pay. I've met women in person at a bar I've seen on tinder and they react like they've never seen my face and I'm in a very small town. If it was showing me, they would have seen me and at least recognize my face in the back of their mind. Didn't go anywhere with them but at least got to talk to them which tinder certainly wasn't offering.

no matter how much you hate the media, its not nearly enough.

>>512154070
It's a way of ranking zero sum games like mating and chess.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elo_rating_system

>>512137589 (OP)
The ratio is like 100 men to 10 women on dating apps right now. Women don't use them because they don't have to since they have access to plenty of Chads and Chad-lites via their social circles and via regular social media (Instagram,Faceberg, etc.)

Women now have an abundance of men to chose from online. Every average woman and above who has social media, and they all do, is bombarded with hordes of male attention and suitors. But this also happens in real life, at school, in their social circle and everywhere else they go. They are importing millions of men every year into the west and have been doing this for decades now. The competition is fierce and you are now not only competing with your countrymen males but also endless supply of third worlders, some of which are hard working, decent looking, and willing to breed the average white woman and wage his life away for a chance to wash away his non-white genes.
No point mentioning the fact that all women who are worth their shit are already taken or the fact that a large part of women would rather be part of Chads harem playing the sex kitten.