Thread 512202396

What are the downsides of marriage for men? Redpill me

I'm not gonna lie that's obviously ragebait because it's retarded even by reddit standards.

>>512202396 (OP)
It would be easier to list the upsides, so here you go:
>nothing

>>512202396 (OP)
It's a contract with ZOG and Yahweh.
Get a consort.

>>512202396 (OP)
There's no making this shit right desu you've shown that you hate everything that he loves and admitted you have regrets about marrying him whether you take it back or not the damage has been done

>>512202396 (OP)
>What are the downsides of marriage for men?
all of it since modern women are not groomed to be partners anymore they are competitors

>>512202645
Nice try, Julius

Go home, you're drunk

>>512202396 (OP)
So these are the
>all the chads and normal women are married in their 20's already
couples, eh?

>>512202865
I didnt say anything about violence against white people however

Yeah you're supposed to clear this stuff up before marriage, not after it.
If you didn't like his hobbies, you should have told him at the start of the relationship.

>>512202396 (OP)
I think the far shorter list would be what the upsides to marriage are for men, because there are not that many of them these days.

>>512202396 (OP)
Upside:
WÖMEN
Downside:
WÖMEN

MEN OF WÖ

Quirk chungus story

>>512203549
lel

>>512202396 (OP)
The upside is kids. You can have kids and raise them.

The downside is everything else. You're marrying someone who is going to be bored by you after three years or less because you don't excite her anymore. And rather than accept that that happens she'll rationalise it to blame you for it. So she'll be primed to cheat at the first opportunity. If you're lucky and she has some principles, she'll stick with it till the kids have flown the coop. Then she'll divorce rape you and take the cash. If you're unlucky she'll do this and take the cash and the kids.
You will, in the course of marriage, be expected to kowtow to her every whim. If she manages to turn you into her doormat, she'll hate you even more because now you're not manly enough.

I have three older brothers. They have all been divorced and this started to happen before I was ever in a proper adult relationship, so I witnessed what could happen. All of them have told me that they wished they'd done what I did, stayed single, spent my money on myself and had fun.

>>512202396 (OP)
What are soccer analysis tools? I would enjoy this.

>>512202396 (OP)
No women worth marrying.

>>512202396 (OP)
The better question is what are the upsides?

>>512202396 (OP)
>demoralization thread
>Fear, uncertainty, and doubt (often shortened to FUD) is a disinformation strategy used in sales, marketing, public relations, politics, cults, and propaganda. FUD is generally a strategy to influence perception by disseminating negative and dubious or false information and a manifestation of the appeal to fear. These threads and articles are demoralizing propaganda. Don’t believe the kike lie.

If you don’t have friends or family, go join a church. The people in the church believe that IT’S THEIR JOB AS CHRISTIANS TO MAKE YOU PART OF THE COMMUNITY. They will go out of their way to fit you in. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have strong social skills. Just be honest and they WILL take you in and teach you. At least a good church will, so if you don’t find it at one, then keep trying until you find a good one. It’s God’s plan that you have a good mate and family and be supported by a strong community.

It’s amusing that there’s a fat tranny shill like you being paid 10 cents per post that barely makes enough money to pay for your dilating supplies. But your time here will be over soon when you kill yourself for not being a real woman.

>>512202396 (OP)
>What are the downsides of marriage for men? Redpill me
I gave this advice to other anons last night.
Happily married with kids.
Goes more to understanding women than anything else.
In order:
>Women are not malfunctioning men, anymore than men are malfunctioning women. Remember this and keep it in mind when things go wrong. Because they will.
>A woman does not think 180 degrees opposite how men think. If they did, that would be easy.
>Women think rotated 90 degrees from how men think. This means you probably won't be able to second guess them.
>A woman does not want a man who will be a servant, worship her, follow her around, simp for her, etc.
>A woman - whether she admits it or not, whether she knows it or not - wants a man who will tell her "No" and mean it.
>This does not mean "be an asshole"
>It's about setting boundaries: this far is acceptable behavior, and no farther
>If she oversteps, you have to follow through.
END PART 1

>>512205801
BEGIN PART II
>Women choose mates based on status.
>They are hard-wired for this, thanks to biological evolution.
>Thus, women will constantly jockey for position with other women and shit test each other
>If there are no women around to shit test, a woman will shit test YOU.
>Again, they are biologically hard-wired for this - nothing personal.
>Like everything in nature, stay away from bright and un-natural coloring. It is a sign of danger/divergence/genetic mutation.
>If a female has blue hair, a septum piercing, barnyard tats, a lattice of scars on her arms - stay away.
If I had to rank attributes in order of importance, I would put Loyalty as No. 1 and Honesty as No. 2
My wife said to me on the day we were married: "Where you go, I go."
Not once has she looked to Better Deal me or eyeball the door - even through some very dark shit.
That goes both ways, anon. You have to be loyal as well, even when things suck and they get pretty fuckin dark.
Loyalty to your mate is not simping - it means what it means: You stand by them and support them, regardless of how bad things get.

>>512202396 (OP)

You lose house for wife and kids when divorce happen (and it will happen)....and you still have to pay alimony when only they living house which you own half.

>>512206334
You’d still lose stuff even if you weren’t married

>>512202396 (OP)
The downsides are potentially limitless. Its a one sided contractual obligation thats legally enforceable that can destroy you financially for the rest of your life. Its a risk you take and shouldn't take lightly. You still have to take it though because no woman worth your time will hang around with you if you dont marry her. Take your time, make sure she's the one. Live together for years, talk about it before hand. Make sure you can both agree on how money should be handled in your household. If you cant save money together or if one of you is a parasite financially then you have a high chance for divorce. Ultimately marriage can be your biggest financial instrument or your biggest liability. Its not all bad but people jump into marriage with women they really should be avoiding like the plague.

>>512207217
>you HAVE to take it
Fuck off, tradcuck. Any woman that pressures you to sign a completely one sided contract doesn't have your best interests at heart. And neither do you.

>>512204474
>he doesn't know
lol
lumfao
it's time to give it up anon.

>>512207217
Money problems are simultaneously a positive and a negative.
I remember us being the most happy when we were dirt poor, lived in a crappy 3rd floor walkup with no A/C and didn't have two pennies to rub together
We had each other - both of us against the world
We did okay
One caveat I would add to your post is that when your spouse is upset, don't tell them to "calm down" or admonish them.
From a psychological point of view, if something or some one is pissing you or your spouse off, positioning yourself as an ally to what is pissing them off will earn you their wrath.
Example: You come home after being overcharged at a store.
>Dammit!
>What's wrong?
>They overcharged me at the store!
>You sure it's not your fault?
or
>I told you not to go to those people
or
>You need to calm down
What you just did - in your spouse's mind - is ally yourself with the thing they are against or is bothering them. Your monkey brain says "ENEMY" at that point.
Instead, ally yourself with your spouse
>I can't believe those assholes at the store!
>I know, right??!
>Let's grab a cold drink and take a beat, and then go sort those assholes out!
>Okay anon. Good plan.
You just made yourself an ally against the thing that is pissing them off.
It is psychological judo.
It seems obvious when you lay it out, but you would be surprised how often a spouse will go
>You just need to calm the hell down.
And then it's a fukin battle royale

>>512202396 (OP)
You just can say certain things to others and expect to keep them in your life. There's no fixing openly questioning why you married your husband.

>>512207934
Yes, there is.
The husband dropped the ball.
Allow me to explain
My wife and I were in an argument about something fucking stupid - it's always something stupid - and she plays this card:
>Well maybe I should just LEAVE and go to my sisters!
My response was:
>I will not keep you in a relationship you do not want to be in. You are free to go. However, if you leave, all your shit will be thrown onto the front lawn and I will have a yard sale.
>Then I will change all the locks.
>You will not be allowed to return.
And she knew I meant it.
Because I fucking did.
Your resolve in this matter must be unquestioned. You must follow through, even if it hurts.
She realized playing the Nuclear Card would get her nowhere because I do not respond to threats very well.
She backed off and never did that ever again.
That was 15 years ago.
Guy in the story should have held her to accounts - he should have done something similar instead of just passive/aggressively shutting her out of his life.
That is very feline.
0/10

>>512202396 (OP)
Somebody has to breed and raise the next generation of goyim nigger cattle. Most normies will happily step up to the plate and wage their life away for a chance to reproduce. I'm just glad that's not me.

>>512202396 (OP)
This is just a divorce ready to happen. This is a no win win for the guy. If he didn't have hobbies and bothered her all the time she would be mad, if he had a social life and spent time with friends she would be mad, he had his own hobbies and tried to at least be open about them to her and she got mad. What she screamed and "regretted" wasn't a regret, it's what she actually feels just never told him until she snapped.

>>512202396 (OP)
>You're all wrong, tomboys are real, just like my wi-

>>512209002
>nihilist anti-natalist anti-White defeatist bullshit
You should be beaten with a fucking crowbar

>>512204230
sex, sometimes, if she feels like it, maybe

>>512202396 (OP)
So it seems like Legos were minecraft before there was Minecraft for autties. What th fuck does that make a kid who was on knex instead of legos...

>>512202396 (OP)
She could easily fix it by acting super slutty towards him for a few weeks but she won’t because she does not actually feel bad about it

>>512209468
It makes your parents cheap. I was a knex kid myself, as an adult I can see they are ratchet garbage that cost penny’s compared to Lego

>>512204474
>take anons advice
>go to church
>its all old boomers
>a few middle aged families with their kids
>everyone knows each other and only talks among themselves when the sermon isn't going on
>people are polite but dont make small talk or try to get to know me
>stop going after a few more times

Don't fall for it bros. If you dont already have a connection in the network you are just an interloper

>>512204474
God doesn't exist and if he does, he's either indifferent to the suffering and evil within his creation or actively responsible for it and I'm not sure which is worse.

>>512202396 (OP)
you have to live with a woman

>>512210316
>bad thing happen mean God not real

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>>512207812
>It is psychological judo
Great analogy considering judo uses the opponent’s momentum to gain the advantage

>>512203948
>I have three older brothers. They have all been divorced and this started to happen before I was ever in a proper adult relationship, so I witnessed what could happen. All of them have told me that they wished they'd done what I did, stayed single, spent my money on myself and had fun.

none of your brothers believes in a higher ideal like continuing the family line? yikes

>>512210872
It's true.
Your spouse coming into the house pissed off at something definitely has "momentum"
Learning how to redirect that away from you and towards something else is important
It took me a long time to figure out that about half the arguments we were getting in was my own damn fault for aligning myself against my spouse unconsciously.
It is a reflex action one has to consciously work to avoid.

>>512202396 (OP)
1000th time this exact thread has been reposted.

/pol/ is 100% repeated spam and nothing else.

It is time to go.

>>512211106
why don't you make a thread then instead of complaining about everyone else's

>>512202493
How cute. The little lies you tell yourself to keep your innocence just a little longer. Next you'll say it's AI or the CIA.

>>512210951
You're missing the point. Although I wished he shared more of his anecdote; other Anon was just trying to demonstrate that three otherwise good men; immediate family to him - ALL THREE have gotten divorced. Why? We don't know. I hope he comes back and elaborates.
But travel back in time and explain this. Explain divorce frequency, the reasons given, there will be no sympathy. Every human from the beginning of time until basically only recently would look at our battlefield of love and name it Death to step upon it. Marriage is suicide under these terms, you are killing a free individual for the opportunity at companionship. When that fails, you are a spilt soul and live under usury to your former goddess.

>>512202396 (OP)
>our home country's team
GTFO

>>512211106
see you tomorrow

>>512211222
As I recall, the Hungarians in the medieval period had a fix for problem marriages.
One small room - a cell, really - with one bed, one chair and one table.
Couples that had problems were locked inside and given food and water, etc, 3X a day.
They were told to work it out.
Hungary during this period had less than 1% divorce rate.

>>512202396 (OP)
red pill me about the epstein list, anon.... anono.....anonononon.

>>512202396 (OP)
women have no social intelligence until they see something they can steal

>>512204230
Kids. That’s literally it.
>you can have kids without being married
Sure, but married parents is the best environment to raise children.

That said, artificial wombs can’t come soon enough. Single fathers are so much better than single mothers.

This post brought tears to my eyes. I hope all you bros find love and happiness in all its forms. This morning over coffee I just told my wife how much I enjoyed yes and she used it as a spring board to bitch at me about a bunch of bullshit. I fucking hate women.

>>512202396 (OP)
Marriage isn't supposed to be a fucking government contract but a covenant between two souls and God. If your marriage isn't based on that covenant but instead a secular piece of paper - you don't have a marriage, you are simply a slave to a Womans whims. Which are as fickle as the wind.

>>512211563
>This morning over coffee I just told my wife how much I enjoyed yes and she used it as a spring board to bitch at me
Based, listen to King Crimson like a real man

>>512202396 (OP)
How does autistic man children with no friends get wife at age 23 while I am fkn 31, 6ft tall, good looking and fit and am an incel. WTF

>>512211665
They spend time in places where women are and proceed to talk to women in those places

>>512202396 (OP)
> I told him it was a mistake to marry him
> and now he's upset, why?

Women are like children

>>512211622
But how do you carry on family name then? They need to be legally recognized with your last name

>>512210951
>>512211222
Oh they all had kids and multiple wives. I am an uncle to 13. One has two divorces, the others one apiece, but breakups with women they didn't marry after the first wife also.
I used to joke that divorce was my family's hobby.
In each case it was the wife initiating, because she had a new guy to jump to. All my brothers though are tall and handsome, prizes when their wives first landed them. So what went wrong? Nothing my brothers did, they're all good guys. All have great senses of humour, all are practical men who are good around the house. All are great dads.
Women just fall out of love and then blame the guy though. Someone else pays them attention and they get the giddy feelings of love again and they're off.
As I said, all my brothers envy me and the life I've had. Their wives are nothing but a source of regret. Could be poor quality women they hooked up with. Our mother warned them against marrying all the girls they chose and she was right every time.

>>512204474
Go to church so you can give 10% of your gross income to Africa and Israel and pressure your friends to come to church so they can give 10% of their income to Africa and Israel.

If you're a single man over the age of 27 and go to church they will set you up with drunks, felons, and single mothers with 5 kids on welfare.

>>512211754
How do you spend time and hang out with women if you have no social life??? I feel you need friends to meet people

>>512202766
Best thing I've read on here desu

>>512202396 (OP)
1pbtid

>>512211878
I'll be minorly sympathetic here; normal people are used to being able to say emotional shit they don't really mean and then make up later. They'll say whatever's going to hurt the most while they're upset, but they have the feeling that everyone does that sometimes and the other party will understand. Which for normies is true.

Not so with autists. Autists tend to stay internally consistent and don't do that. So when this is done to them, they take it not as a passing woman mood, but as the final answer.

This wasn't a mistake though. She's lost respect for him which is why she lashed out. They are doomed and should split.

>>512212117
It's just unavoidable that if you're a single man over 27 and at all implying that you need somebody's help to get hooked up, you're going to be offered poor options. People will just assume that's all you could handle.

If you want a woman who matches your ambitions you have to pluck her yourself. Quality pussy cannot be granted, it must be taken.

>>512212447
Radical change in your employment or radical investment in an incredibly pro-social hobby that becomes your life

>>512202396 (OP)
marriage is just male to female wealth redistribution

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He's not comfortable anymore. Heart=broken. But you know how autists are, some of them literally expect you to care for obscure shit you know nothing about. I used to bother people with my hobbies as a kid lel

>>512212821
My job i can;t change so I guess hobby is my only way. So fkn gay, my life has been nothing but bad luck while ugly and autists men get women over me

>>512213047
If it is that's the most realistic and pointless to fake AI ever. We know women do this regularly regardless. Some live entire lives around screwing over that one rich guy.

>>512213885
If you can't tell its AI just by looking at it and its usage of the --- mark then you are NGMI.