Thread 512338439

>be me
>get girlfriend pregnant
>tell parents
>they yell at me demanding to know how I plan to pay for it and that they aren’t helping me and that I need to get another job and work 16 hour days everyday forever and be a real man if I want to afford it
>realize they are right and I can’t afford a baby and talk to girlfriend and she agrees to abort it
>I take her up being the gentleman I am I pay for the abortion and we get Wendy’s on the way home
>parents ask about the baby and I tell them we aborted it
>parents freak out crying and asking how on could kill my baby and how they are disgusted with me and when I say I couldn’t afford they just kept saying I, “could have made it work”
>few months later parents are now pressuring me to try and have another kid and I point blank tell them I am not having children in this miserable world
Seriously what did they think would happen? I’d just work 16 hours forever and accept a shittier life than what my parents had only for my kid to go on and live an even worse life than what I have. No fucking thank you.

>>512338439 (OP)
>things that didn't happen
buy did you really need suck that many nigger dicks OP?

>>512338439 (OP)
you dodged a bullet OP. abortion was the right answer.

If someone doesn't like abortion then they can pay for the kid. Your parents had the right of first refusal, and they refused.

>>512338439 (OP)
I'm a father.
Yeah. You fucked up. Id be pissed too. You'd have to grow up fast to have the kid. They still could've helped in what ways they could and communicated that with you clearly, thats what parents are supposed to be there for. I can see why you went that option, but here's the rough part, you took an option similar to cutting your head off because you had a headache. You were going to have to grow up and be a man some day, may as well have accepted it and stepped up on your own accord, rather than the option you took. That road is irreversible. Pray to Christ for forgiveness, and move on. Be more responsible, and if you fuck up, take responsibility, man up, and accept your fate. That child could have given you such joy, yet you snuffed it out in an unwitting offering to Moloch.
The world sucks. The cush times dont last forever. Man up.

>>512338439 (OP)
>talk to girlfriend and she agrees to abort it
Why not give up for adoption?

>>512338439 (OP)
You murdered your first born child. You are part of Satan's army now anon. That's the entry fee. Have fun burning in hell for all eternity.

>>512339010
Fuck off that kid would have lived a even shittier life than the one I did and I am not busting my ass 16 hour days everyday just to barely scrape by hopefully especially not after my shit childhood.

>>512339013
>give to the foster system to be raped by pedos and kikes
Great advice

On one hand, that kid would have suffered a lot and his parents would hate him

On the other, i cant agree to kill a sentient intelligent being

How long was she pregnant when you aborted OP? There is a period before conciousness develops, if you aborted early you are fine it was quite literally a clump of cells, if not, you just murdered someone

>>512338439 (OP)
fake story but if it was real there's a very high chance that your g/f will never be able to have children now

>>512338439 (OP)
>>few months later
>everybody clapped
Gtfo of here moshe, that was a pathetic larp

>>512338439 (OP)
If that story was real it wouldn't be your fault since you're being subjected to an environment that makes raising children almost an impossibility when not adhering to the capitalist agenda. And now they make it hard to become a wagie slave.

On the other hand purely idealistic people will shit on you for not building a cabin and having your babies there off grid while you creampie your 18 yo aryan gf that lost her virginity with you.

>>512338439 (OP)
My feelings on this situation depend on whether you and your girlfriend are both white or not.

>>512338439 (OP)
This is why I'm a volcel. Imagine what would have happened if she refused to abort it. You'd be stuck working 16 hour days for the next 18 years, all for a nut. No thanks. No nut is worth that. Men have NO say about whether to have a child or not, and women can steal half of everything you've worked your entire life for even if you don't marry them (common law bullshit). The ONLY choice you have as a man is to never stick your dick in a woman. It's not worth it.

>>512338439 (OP)
Honestly it's your parents who fucked up, if they want grandkids the right thing to do is offer whatever support they can, not yell at and scare them into getting an abortion. The selfishness of boomers/gen X is what will kill our race, truly.

>>512338439 (OP)
abortion is safe and legal, but only if you actually need one for medical reasons not just because you're a whore.

>>512338439 (OP)
You are now a murderer.

>>512338439 (OP)
>I take her up being the gentleman I am I pay for the abortion and we get Wendy’s on the way home
Nashville?
We made that same mistake.
The frosty just wasn't as pleasing as I'd hoped.

>>512343583
This.
though the story is copypasta.

>>512343286
>No nut is worth that.
Disagree strongly, I'd love to have had a few kids even by accident. Now I'm stuck looking for egg donors and surrogates and hoping I can have some kids that way before I die.

>>512344816
>Now I'm stuck looking for egg donors and surrogates and hoping I can have some kids that way before I die.
Just go to an egg bank?

>>512344816
Kids are a luxury that fewer and fewer can afford. We should have our youth to make mistakes and have a few children.

>>512338439 (OP)
You don't have to work 16 hours and your dumb Parente will help

>>512338439 (OP)
you'd have been white-trash or nigger tier had you kept it. your girl would have left, fucked niggers and smoked crack. it would have been bad overall.
you can at least maintain your sanity and status, re-impregnate her when you're ready.
your parents are being hypocrites for simultaneously blaming your for getting preggo and getting not-preggo. fuck their duplicity.

>>512338439 (OP)
Have you thought about aborting yourself?

Good news, in Canada, its legal:
https://www.canada.ca/en/health-canada/services/health-services-benefits/medical-assistance-dying.html

Buy a plane ticket to Canada and you can MAID yourself.

>>512338439 (OP)
How much did you pay for the operation? Just out of curiosity. Also, how old are you?

>>512338439 (OP)
NO.

if women try to get unsafe abortions illegally, then they need to be found out and shamed. and if they risk their life then that's part of the punishment. that's how it works and that's their problem

>>512338439 (OP)
Abortion is always evil. We're going to criminalize it in all 50 states.

You can't stop us, God Himself is on our side.

>>512339010
Holy cope, nigger!
OP was right to go ahead with the abortion, and you can blame his parents for being cunts about it and planting the seeds of rejection in his mind.
Rather than supporting their son and being proud of him about to become a father and giving them a grandchild, they told him his life is fucked and everything will be shit. If you did that to me, I'd abort too.

>>512339789
Not really though. I am also a father, a relatively new one at that. You look at it from the lens media programmed you to look at. It is an entirely different experience. It has its ups and downs but it isn't as much of a resource hog as people make it out to be. It becomes expensive if you start taking the Jewish merchant's recommended route and go give birth at a hospital, take them to doctor checkups, vaccine bullshit etc. even fucking schooling. You can school that kid yourself. Nothing in that kid's life is particularly expensive. You can fucking use non disposable diapers even. Like fucking niggers have children in africa, pajeets have it in india next to a river of human excrement. Jews made you believe that a child is expensive. They are tearing down society at such a pace that a child born this year will likely not be in school when they are 7 or 12 anyway. What the fuck are they gonna do, chatgpt prompting?

>>512346495
For up to the first ten weeks, you don't need any sort of surgical procedure, you (well, the chick) just takes a pill. Costs about $600, most of which is profit for the middlemen.

Get a vasectomy you fag.

>>512338439 (OP)
Are you retarded or are you retarded? Don't bother answering

>be boomers
>have easy life
>tell young people raising kids is a path of endless suffering with no joy
"How could they abort their kids? Why aren't they having babies??"