>>512339366 (OP)
Honestly? You'd need to murder your wife the moment she begins ideating divorce. As soon as she talks to a lawyer, that son of a bitch is going to tell her to go to the cops and say the five magic words
>I am afraid of him
They will immediately come to you, throw you off your own property, and you'll be sleeping in a hotel with a backpack of clothes they let you collect. The wife will then have the upper hand in court, because you're just assumed to be an abuser. You will lose everything and she will still bleed you dry for child support and alimony too.