Thread 512349230

How miserable is dating in your 30s?

It’s going well for me but I look after myself. I’m not a beer drinking loser.

>>512349230 (OP)
Pretty miserable. Probably a little easier if your work requires you to wear a suit. I wear coveralls and my back hurts all the time so for me, pretty miserable.

>>512349230 (OP)
I wouldn't match with someone with the number 666 in their profile either.

its the PIGMAN!
also 666 :/

its awful i can only get women my age

>>512349230 (OP)
>few matches despite 666
Unc didnt listen to the second part, if you have shit hair you are cooked also his face looks fat.
If he grew his hair out and styled it and lost weight he would do better.
He looks like some pastor right now, and they are not known to male panties drop.

>>512349390
Nigga use Hims. I am surprised how well it works on people.

>>512349230 (OP)
With that face nothing can help.

>>512349230 (OP)
he should just embrace his looks and wear a fred flintstone outfit all the time

>>512349230 (OP)
6 figures doesn’t mean anything anymore. 6 pack is just code for being hot. 6 feet is still the bare minimum.

>>512349230 (OP)
If you are single and in to your 30's or older, there must be something wrong with you which would, to me, signal that you are undatable. The exception being the death of your loved one which left you single.

>>512349398
One of the sixes is actually a secret 6/10 in looks and he's 4/10

>>512349432
Explain yourself

>>512349467
Lol wtf

>>512349230 (OP)
Guy looks 40 and boring

His fault, marriages should be arranged though

>>512349230 (OP)
Surely it can't be that hard if Gen Z men are a bunch of spergs.
Women outnumber men in colleges and universities, so you could meet a lot more of them there.

>>512349230 (OP)
Any e-thot can make 6 figures and they don't even need to open an onlyfans. You can't really impress women with money anymore, unless they're ugly.

>>512349230 (OP)
Holy fuck if I look like that when I'm 50 ill kms

It’s better than your 20s as long as you’re not short, fat, or bald. You aren’t a kid anymore, you have to start making an effort to physically maintain yourself. You can’t eat McDonald’s everyday. As long as you can do these things your dating life should improve. Girls love fit well off men in their early 30s

>>512349533
Hims is a capsule of fin and min and its taken daily. I have seen people with huge bald spots and receding hairlines hold it and even grow hair back. Its not a total cure but I am shocked how well it works on the guys I know. It has to be done daily but its better than just roughing it.

Hahaha, you know I had no luck in the fucking apps like 8 years ago or whatever in my 20s. But then the government started importing immigrants like mad. I never got a single white girl match. But if you're looking for an asian or indian trade wife you're made in the shade. I got a great wife now. But ya if you're looking for hookups or non liberal white girls you're probably fucked unless you're an ultra chad in the bible belt. I am not chad enough for that.

>>512349230 (OP)
>666 rule

This is why I fucking hate normies

>>i did the thing/met the requirements "they" told me about, so where's my reward? i was supposed to get something. you told me as long as all the conditions are fulfilled, i'll get what i'm owed. why am i not getting anything for following through with what you told me to do. this isn't fair. i listened to you and did what you said and this isn't fair.

>>512349533
It's a top shelf minoxidil stimulant to get hair follicles growing strong. Think a 3/month supply of either the spray or tablets is like $75 or something.

>>512349230 (OP)
>>512349472
All the good looking women are taken in highschool and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (6 and above) women that are single. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
Boomers and gen-x are throwing money at young pussy like never before, we are talking boat trips, exotic trips, paying their rent and bills, buying them clothes, trips to beauty salons, etc. Many of them have net worths in the millions.
Then there are chad millenials and chad zoomers who get their first pick at all the young pussy.
Then at the end of the line there is you anon, the average nobody with no money, no charisma, no looks, no social circle, no experiences and no toys.

>>512349432
why use a subscription service when you can just get the drugs yourself?

>>512349230 (OP)
Getting dates is easy. Getting women who aren't delusional is the hard part. They expect you to own your own business so you can travel the world. They tell me that they expect me to pay for everything while they keep all their money. These women are fucking so far gone it's better to just walk away from looking for anything serious. I'm waiting for the right woman to come into my life but I don't think it'll happen at this point. The ones who have some sense of grounded in reality are fat as fuck. I need to at least be attracted to the woman

its terrible. if i could go back in time, i would have tried harder to be paired up by now.

The older you get, the more single moms and psychwards are your options, and shit is grim as fuck.

35 here. Haven’t had a date in over a year and before that zero. I briefly dated a single mom, 2 kids 2 dads, covered in tattoos and shaved head. Not kidding you unfortunately. Other than that I dont really speak to women outside of forced interactions (cashiers, etc).

I’m going back to school for my MSc (math) and plan to do a PhD. My apartment is tiny. I’ve accepted that my dating life is functionally over and I’ll be alone for the rest of my life. Oh well, at least I got math.

>>512349472
They are talking about 6 figures in American money not your fake monopoly currency. I have all 6s and a big dick, it don't mean shit when the women are off their rockers. I'm in the position where I get to choose, trust me it isn't any better

>>512349230 (OP)
God dam that is an unfortunate face.
His church membership directory tier setup isn’t doing him any favors

>>512349398
Facts
I slayed in hs and college
Am fit and 6 ft. But SUPER bald. In fact the second all my hair looked super thin and terrible, the love of my life of 6 years dumped me and is now married to a woman. I will probably kms as soon as my parents die.

>>512349799
>Oh well, at least I got math.
I'm married with children but if I ever split with my wife I'm never dating again, I'm going to devote myself to math.

>>512349492
Retarded logic. My ex wife went mentally unhinged. Bipolar and manic depression developed and she refused to be an adult. She sabotaged every chance I gave her to get ahead in life. I miss the old her a lot :(

>>512349746
Thats a fair point. I think its easy to sign up and get started but if you can get the drugs It just as good.

>>512349453
Was about to say this. Age doesn't matter, if youre ugly then you better have some low standards, maybe you could score an obese bitch or maybe a burn victim

I've given up on women near my age. Now I just hit up 18-21 year olds on snap and see if they want to fuck.

>>512349390
No woman wants you

I've accepted my fate, and I will continue to spread misinformation and propaganda online and vote to make things worse.

>>512349230 (OP)
Pretty nice, i always get a date quickly, they always pay for me, they're nice, great sex, most want a stable relationship after meeting. I'm gay.

>>512349596
There are over 3.5 million OnlyFans creators. Less than 1%, about 16,000, make $50,000 or more a year and about 300 make over a million.
If most are women, they're producing free porn.

>>512349871
Making 120 grand a year now is meaningless.
You have no idea how bad pussy inflation is.
And absolutely no western women wants to play house. So unless you can afford a maid and a cook it is basically a break even or a step down for them

>>512349908
I only know because of my exGF. Basically made me start to see patterns with other women. They love good hair, you don't even have to be that attractive but having good hair is like a huge buff.
But dont kys anon, women suck and are stupid. There is plenty in life you can do, and will have even more reason to.
Be this eras Diogenes, he lived like a fucking vagrant and Alexander the Great would have chosen to be him.

>>512349230 (OP)
between 18-30 I always had a gf, but since turning 30 I stopped. 35 now and I don't care anymore.

>>512349390
Just get a hair transplant. You can get one in Turkey for like 3k. Stop being a loser and do it.

>>512349799
>>512349924
Time to round up the boys and make an active or political club.

>>512350153
I tried to get with first generation immigrant women and it's just as bad bro. Western society is so fucking cooked. Remember don't ever compromise your morals. If she is a gold digger run away as fast as you can

>>512349230 (OP)
He's 30 but looks 50 with that picture.

>>512350188
If you have to fly overseas and pay some brown to fraud your genes you're beyond a loser

>>512349467
lmao

>>512350476
Cope.
Looks is everything. People should invest in surgery fixes

>>512349230 (OP)
I'm trying to beat the "become a stepdad/date fat chicks/date walled foids/alone forever" dating in your 30s meta by going for early 20s women but goddamn they are immature
t. 35 year old boomer dealing with on again/off again drama with a 21 y/o

>>512349230 (OP)
not political

>>512349230 (OP)
He doesn’t have a 6 pack

>>512350612
>if you're not going to pay me
I hate these kinds of women so much it's unreal. They want free shit just for existing. At least a hooker does her job when getting paid.

>>512350153
>You have no idea how bad pussy inflation is.

I keep reading this, but is everyone basing all of that off of dating apps?
How many of those people actually go outside to school, church, book clubs, or anything where they actually meet other people in person?

>>512350173
Diogenes lived outside the university in Athens and was a student of Antisthenese who was a student of Socrates. He was basically a celebrity who used his nihilism of Greek society as his persona to be an attention whore. Basically I have nothing to lose at this point except my reputation/word and being a homeless bum is worse than dying young(ish) and being remembered fondly

>>512349492
I have schizoid, im not a virgin tho, like 15 one night stands.

>>512350770
People love attention whores as long as they’re funny. Just look at Trump. You should be a funny attention whore like Diogenes. A good sense of humor is one of the most valuable weapons a man can possess

I'm 32. Since I started working out and losing weight I've been getting some female attention for the first time in my life but only from single moms in their late 30s and early 40s. The balding of course is becoming a problem.

>>512350579
Getting scammed by browns to "fix" your genes won't hide the other glaring signs of your genetic inferiority. Good looking, tall men get females even if they're bald. An uggo manlet could spend $1M on getting hair transplants, all kinds of fucked up face surgeries. He still won't get pussy except now he'll have lifelong complications and debt.

>>512349942
I stand by my logic. You just proved me right.

>>512350924
Just get a transplant bro, go to a reputable doctor for it of course not some cheap amateur. No reason or need to be a baldlet

>>512350732
We all do faggot. I live in a big-ish city and have fucked or been cucked by every girl in my age bracket. They are all passed around. And they all go for the same dudes to the point my fat friend (hamplanet) is getting texts from my old roommate, my school years HS QB, my hunting buddy and my exs baby daddy. Along with hundreds of other guys from 18 to geriatric. It’s insane what attention holes get. She says it’s “overwhelming to get on dating apps”

>>512349799
A good way to meet and pair up with a women is to find one who wants to learn math and then teach it to her. I would have loved a patient, persistent man to teach me math, back in my single days.

this miserable.. youre gonna be side checked in every social media posible

>>512350908
>like 15 one night stands.

This is what proves that there is something wrong with you.

>512351141
No man wants teach math to trannies.

>>512349492
kid, you have no clue do you?

>>512351037
Thanks for confirming you're retarded

>>512351437
Yeah he has no fucking clue. Probably thinks he's a chad because he's dating the first chick that ever gave him attention

all good, I get all my dates through my wife, she loves me watching fuck another women, I don't even try anymore, the last girl was from some small town who was really young and asked
>how often does your husband fucks you, she asked
>at least once a week, my wife replied
>but is it just like that? does he kiss you? gives you chocolates? she asked
>nah, he just gets me naked and starts fucking me... have you ever had sex? my wife asked
>no, that's why I asked, she said
>if you want to see, you can come this saturday and see how we fuck, my wife said
>really? I can watch you? she said
>yes, just ask your parents that you are gonna be all night at my house, my wife said
all good

>>512351511
Better than ending up single at 30's. Everyone single at 30's and older got something wrong with them. Why else would they have end up single when they are so old? Old people are supposed to be paired up by then. Not still pretending like they are still in their teens and 20's. Only excuse is if your loved one that you were paired up with unfortunately dieded.

>>512349577
most girls by that age want boring