>>512504421
>I can bang them I just don't want to.
You need to understand that step 1 to getting a wife is banging them. You just keep banging different girls until you find one you like and actually get along with and then just go from there to being married.
>I need a wife not a one night stand
If a girl is willing to fuck you more than once, she is almost certainly willing to be in a serious romantic relationship with you. If you keep fucking her she will probably start pushing for it to become a serious romantic relationship.
If a woman is willing to be in a serious romantic relationship with you, she is almost certainly willing to get married to you. The main reason for being in a serious romantic relationship with you is because she hopes that this will be the time it works out and she gets married.
The hard part for men is at the beginning, when you try to get a girl to want to fuck you (and honestly, it's really not that hard). After that, it's basically all downhill for the man, and the girl is going to be the one trying to get you to take the relationship to the next level.
>>512504842
>I don't want casual sex even if I can't have a wife. It won't make me happy.
How do you know? Have you ever actually had casual sex, or any sex at all?
I'm not saying that casual sex is some great thing, it can definitely be awkward and weird and unfulfilling. But more importantly, like it or not, in the world that we live in, you generally start out with a casual relationship that turns into a serious one.
Trying to jump over that part straight to a very serious relationship / marriage does not work at all.