>>512561718There's a term in evolution/sexual selection called a "supranormal stimulus" and some of the things in the world are the result you see from this.
Things such as the peacock's tail, plumage in birds of paradise etc etc. For tens of thousands of years in the villages and tribes we lived in, women would want the chad big strong hunter as mate (a) because of the genes and (b) because women rate men as a herd. If other girls want a guy then that guy is the one SHE wants. And she wants him knowing that if she gets him she gets to sit and preen knowing other girls are seething because she has the chad.
Most of the time this didn't matter, tribes were small and there were only so many men to pick from and so if they couldn't get chad, they'd have to get someone else.
However, in the internet age with social media apps, women are preening online with their chad yacht owner millionaire hedge fund investment managers who are also ripped gym studs or whatever and now every woman can't just settle for her place in the tribe with an average guy because now the tribe is the entire fucking world of women she's competing against and she won't settle until she gets a guy she can stick on her social media without feeling like she's less than another woman. She wants the supranormal stimulus.