Thread 512664931

I went to the park today with my 16 month old son and I realized while watching him play with the other kids and vice versa, he might have autism. I realized a lot of the other toddlers seem overall more aware of their surrounding, better emotional control, seem to have better motor skills with climbing and balance, and less repetitive play. I feel my wife is too overprotective and coddles him too much with love for him to really challenge himself or put him in uncomfortable situations to grow. Especially when it comes to protecting him emotionally, she's never lets him cry if he starts throwing a tantrum and I'm wondering if I'm making a mistake by allowing this to continue. My son looks almost one hundred percent identical to me and I wonder at times if I was like him at his age. The difference was though that my parents were very strict and wouldn't hesitate to yell or physically discipline me if I threw a tantrum, behaved bad or acted stupid, which is the complete opposite of the way my wife is raising my son. I honestly don't mind one bit that I had to go through that as a kid. I think I came out much better for it because I did very well in school, had plenty of friends and am doing very well for myself as an adult. I wonder whether I need to start doing the same thing with my son to hopefully reverse course of his autism.

>>512664931 (OP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZgivA2ENvY

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https://i.4cdn.org/gif/1754739781595385.mp4

>>512664931 (OP)
How old is the mom?

>>512664931 (OP)
wow who cares

>>512664931 (OP)
Autism is a meme, he's under socialized, take him to the park more or sign him up for sports

>>512664931 (OP)
Get that little bastard into dirt bikes and cool shit like pic related and it won't matter how retarded he is bro. He'll be cool and the bitches will swarm.

>>512665049
31 when she had him

>>512665242
Oooff.

>>512665133
We're trying to do that 3-4 times a week now. He didn't really start playing with other kids until he turned 15 months.

>>512664931 (OP)
Youre not taking him to stimulating environments enough. I had these exact same problems with my daughter and it was fixed by a lot of painful encounters in hyper stimulating environments such as fireworks, the beach, sports events, large crowds, concerts etc.

Hes sitting at home in a quiet environment likely watching TV too much. Get up and fucking yell or turn on loud music every now and then and desensitize him to the stimulation

>>512664931 (OP)
Nutrition is a big part. Make sure he is getting enough iodine and healthy saturated fats from your wife’s milk for proper brain develop. It may seem weird but the longer you can keep him on the tit the more chadly he will become

>Should I beat my kid more? Should I beat my kid less?
90% of parenting problems have nothing to do with that. Take control of your environment. Kill niggers and tell the government what to do.

>>512664931 (OP)
you can't yell autism away (if he even has it)

>>512665560
this is what I have been doing with my son. it kind of sucks because I like our peaceful quiet suburban home too

>>512665560
I'll try that out. He doesn't seem like he's scared to be in loud environments cause we've taking him to crowded places. I just want him to learn to be more aware of his surrounding or people. He's gets easily distracted sometimes.

>>512665513
He's fucked in the head because of what the COVID lockdowns and vaccines did to him. The only way forward with him is to explain that "bad people did this to us" and "we have to do everything we can to make them go away."

>>512664931 (OP)
>>512665513
A 16 month old child is not supposed to be playing with other kids. He'll be playing in proximity of other kids, and they might interact minimally, it they aren't playing together per say. You're probably comparing your kid to older ones. 6 months can do a uge difference at that age. Don't sweat it. Keep you kid actve and engaged by being present and attentive to his needs