Thread 512727406

If there was a woman, kissless virgin, not a dude/no cock, not fat, how would they even go about finding a guy? Apparently it's "so easy," but it's also piss easy for guys to just hire a whore.

>>512727406 (OP)
they would talk to them.

>>512727406 (OP)
tits or GTFO

>>512727406 (OP)
>>512727554
good morning sars

>>512727406 (OP)
Not in the USA. Getting a white here is fucking sketchy and far from easy.

>>512727554
The guys I see around me are generally either already in relationships or total human trash (i.e. fat, stupid, indian, etc.).
Maybe I'm too old
>>512727637
>>512727637
Thank you for the needful bumping saars

>>512727732
*Whore

>>512727406 (OP)
How? By existing and being in public. It’s not the same game for them. They just camp until they spawn kill the highest value male that runs at them
(And maybe using the term “spawn kill” for modern women is in poor taste now that I think of it)

>>512727779
find a mutual hobby.
then you have something to talk about without any pressure.

>>512727732
While that's true, the same can easily be said for fucking the first guy you see on the street. There's more to finding a relationship than just finding another human being.

>>512727792
What constitutes public to you?
>>512728036
While that's decent general advice, it often doesn't apply these days when the only hobbies people have are video games and looking at their phones, and other hobbies are becoming more prohibitive or atomized.

>>512728178
Nobody is recommending that though. A woman who is open to meeting a man will very quickly have many men interested, and she can pick from a selection of available men very easily.

>>512728682
then they are not the real people for you.
you need to find a someone who is really compatible, or you wont open to him.
there is a reason for your social state so you have to adjust it or you will become very unhappy

>>512730067
How do you go about doing that?

>>512727406 (OP)
Here's how my sister found a bf once:
>learn how to play Magic: The Gathering
>go to a local game store for a Friday Night games
>see if there's anyone that looks interesting
>lose horribly, drop from the tournament
>"Are you planning to stay for the whole thing?"

>>512732651
Go out to a bar, see a dude you think is good looking and ask if he is single. Same shit guys have to do.

Hell, just go to target and shop around. Shoot a wink at a dude and watch him come running. So fucking easy for a decent looking girl.

Oh tall are you and what weight?

>>512733503
*How

>>512733446
>play MTG
Lol personally I'd rather fucking kill myself than associate with anyone who even thinks about those card games. I don't blame anyone for not wanting to do as you suggest.

>>512732651
Be somewhere that men are. A cafe barista, waitress, or just dress nicely and sit at a bar. Guys will come talk to you.

Find someone that wants to get married and ideally also wants the same future as you.
Dont be scared of spooking people away since that is tge point, to know who is who and reveal good people from whoremongers

>>512733503
>>512734499
>go to a BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR
What if you don't want to go to a bar, let alone interact with the types of people (e.g. niggers) who go to "bars"? For example, where I live, there aren't even any of those, at least not in the traditional sense, unless you guys are talking about restaurants. Who the fuck talks to strangers at a restaurant? I've never seen that happen.
>How tall are you and what weight?
This is purely a hypothetical question, anon. Who I am is not relevant.

>>512735060
kys immediately

>>512727406 (OP)
>If there was a woman, kissless virgin, not a dude/no cock, not fat, how would they even go about finding a guy?
You would want to save your virginity for marriage because it makes you ultra high value in the dating market.

As a 6/6/6 chad, I would rather marry a 4/0 virgin than a 10/10 high body count slut.

The best place to find a quality man that will wait for sex until marriage is at church. You don't even need to do anything other than show up and be friendly. The women in the church will find available men for you to date and you choose the one you like. He'll propose within a few months because he wants sex. This is the best way for a woman to marry a chad.

Telling a man that you want to wait until marriage for sex will drive away any that are just looking for sex, which will be 80% of them but that's just clearing the field for the marriage minded men.


t. unironically tall, well paid chad, holding out for a virgin wife.

>>512727779
>The guys I see around me are generally either already in relationships or total human trash (i.e. fat, stupid, indian, etc.).
>Maybe I'm too old
You're not too old if you're a kissless virgin. You're a unicorn. Just hold on to that virginity until marriage and you will be able to land a high status quality husband.

Just let people know that you are a virgin and will stay that way until your wedding night and you will have good men lining up to for dates. Only good marriage minded men will be in that line though. The guys who are just looking for sex (80%) will ignore you.

Church is a good place to find men who want marraige.

>>512735595
>>512735595
What options are there if you aren't a christoid? Not to mention, the last time I was in a church, it was entirely full of old married people and their little kids. The demographics of church-goers tend to be not-so-great either.
That said, probably the first reasonable suggestion ITT, although not a high bar given the other ones are "go to a bar" and "play MTG" lmao

>>512728682
>the only hobbies people have are video games and looking at their phones, and other hobbies are becoming more prohibitive or atomized.
Most people find partners through their married friends, or at work, church, or school.

You need to join a community of some kind where you can interact with groups of people. Volunteer groups, hobbies, political action groups, etc.

There are a million good men out there who are lonely and would want you as a wife and mother. You just have to find one.

>>512727406 (OP)
>hire a whore to make a family and raise children together
WTF are you fucking talking about, woman?

>>512727406 (OP)
Literally walk up to any random guy in the street and tell him, exact words: "I want you to put your penis inside me". That's it. You'll have luck by like the 5th guy at most.

>>512727406 (OP)
Have you even tried going outside?

>>512736069
>What options are there if you aren't a christoid? Not to mention, the last time I was in a church, it was entirely full of old married people and their little kids. The demographics of church-goers tend to be not-so-great either.
A church with a lot of little kids is actually a good sign. It means there are lots of young families which means the church is healthy and not dying. The wives will have social networks inside and outside the church with lots of single men. What you see on Sunday morning is only a fraction of the church community. And the wives want to find you a husband. It's part of community building.

A church without kids is usually full of old people and is dying through attrition.

You don't have to be a christoid to go to church. Being part of a wholesome and welcoming community is valuable even if you don't believe in the doctrine. If asked about your beliefs, just tell people that you are searching for the truth. You will be warmly welcomed by everyone, no matter what you believe.

Humans are designed to live in communities and get support from the members while also giving support. We aren't meant to live life in this isolated modern society.

>how would they even go about finding a guy?
2/3 of men aged 18-29 are single. Go to a grocery store in the evening, when these men are coming off of work, approach one at random and ask "Excuse me, do you have a girlfriend?" If they say no, ask "How would you like to go on a coffee date?" If they show interest, exchange contact info and find a time when you can both meet.

That simple.

> What kind of church do you recommend?
You’ll need to shop around in your area to find one you like. Different denominations have different cultures. Find a church that feels warm and inviting to you.

Mid size and families with young children is a sign of good health. I’d start there.

Big churches can be ok and have lots of services and options for interaction.

Small churches with only old people are usually dying for some reason. Often it’s due to a political split. Stay away.

These are good middle of the road Protestant denominations: Baptist, Covenant, Presbyterian.
Catholic or Orthodox is fine but a bit too formalized for my taste.

NOT Christian: Mormon, Jehovah's Witness, Unitarian.

Go sit in a service Sunday morning and see how it feels. Anyone is always welcome in any church anywhere in the world. Talk to people around you if you want. Or not, it’s up to you.

Basic Christian doctrine is to welcome people into the church. They all want you there.

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>>512737215
I laughed