>>513025532 (OP)
Itโs money and security, always has been, always will be.
Young guys just donโt have a lot of accumulated wealth and they are fucked if they want to spend it on travel and other shit.
Either you spend the money to get experience and hope for a good dice roll where youโll meet someone through it
Or be extremely conservative and save up money for your property but women your age will think youโre some sort of autist and will stay the fuck away from you until you build the castle
Iโm turning 39 soon and have not dated in a decade. Sometimes I look back at what the fuck Iโve done in my 30s and all I can remember was working, working and working some more. Even though it was boring and sometimes soul crushing but at least I have enough wealth saved up that I can easily pay off the mortgage should shit hit the fan and go do something else I enjoy.
Funny enough I used to think I was gonna marry and have kids. But nowadays I just want peace and quiet. I really canโt see myself in a wedding photo anymore.
I no longer want to travel and see the world or do extravagant things. Just want a simple life and think about God and be thankful for everything heโs given me.
Cherish what you have, young men. Because none of that relationship and marriage shit are worth the hassle.
The only relationship that matters is with you and Christ.