>>513503014 (OP)
>Did fathers just not teach their sons chivarly or do men just not care?
Well, let me use myself as an anecdotal example. I don't have a dad, my mom who raised me is mentally ill, and my grandfather who is my closest male relative was severely mentally ill and abusive.
I come from Hell and I never had help and I never had friends, the friends I had were other fucked up kids who all ended up screwing me over, so I learned how to do EVERYTHING all by myself, and if I couldn't figure it out, then I learned how to go without.
So I don't understand or have any tolerance for people who think they need me to wait on them hand and foot and do everything for them, even something as simple as wheeling around their own fucking luggage.
Who packed the luggage? Who picked out the suitcase? You can't operate your own fucking luggage that you picked out and packed, it's too hard for you? You can't open your own car door? You can't pull out your own chair? You can't pump your own gas? You don't know how to walk on whichever side of the sidewalk you want to be on?
I can't believe that a woman WANTS to be fucking worthless and helpless and dependent on the kindness of strangers for every little thing in her life, I can't understand why you think making yourself a burden on a man is seen as romantic.
That's my perspective. The only person more worthless than a worthless person is someone who wants to be completely dependent on worthless people to take care of her, and all she can do is complain about how they're not very dependable.
Like, when were you planning on growing the fuck up and taking care of yourself? You think I have nothing better to do than every single menial chore that pops up in your day-to-day life? You literally can't open a fucking car door for yourself?
Jesus fucking Christ, can you wipe your own ass?