Thread 513510221

I’m 34 and I’ve never had a real relationship. Never held a girl’s hand in public, never gone shopping with her, never done the dumb little couple things. The only intimacy I’ve ever experienced was with prostitutes (mainly ex yugos immigrants), and that’s not even intimacy. Sex is maybe 10% of what a relationship is, the rest is the bond, the comfort, the moments you can’t buy. I’ll never know what that feels like.
I wasted my 20s trapped in some tradcath cult that told me touching women was a sin. Biggest mistake of my life. Those years are gone forever, and so is my chance. At 34 you’re invisible. No one wants a man who never lived life, who has no experience, who is broken.
It’s over. If you’re in your 20s, don’t fool yourself. Don’t waste your time like I did. Go out and talk to women, because if you don’t, you’ll end up like me. And once you’re me, there’s no going back.

beware of this blackpill / anti women psyop
the most jewish psyop

>>513510221 (OP)
Fucking loser.

>>513510221 (OP)
have you considered becoming a tranny?

>>513510221 (OP)
I’m 34 and have been married and had lots of sex and I mostly hate women and like being alone.

just keep fucking hookers

>>513510221 (OP)
You didn't miss much. Ever had a dog or a cat? There's more warmth and love in that relationship. You have gone beyond. People get girlfriends and wives because they can't afford prostitutes

>>513510221 (OP)
I'm 36 and have never even held hands with a girl/woman at any point in my life.

>>513510221 (OP)
I'm 31 and same. There's something fucked about me in a boring gay way. Women live in a completely different world

>>513510221 (OP)
>Sex is maybe 10% of what a relationship is
Sex is cause and effect of a healthy relationship. it's like the termometer of the relationship.

>>513510463
This. It's by far the most honest transaction.

Modern relationships with women = doing a bunch of favors for free while receiving nothing in return.

>>513510221 (OP)
>my 20s trapped in some tradcath cult that told me touching women was a sin
why didn't you marry with a church going young lass then?

>>513510221 (OP)
>>513510585
>>513510616

Try joining book clubs, gardening clubs or other hobbies where women gather and meeting someone, its not that hard just takes a bit of effort and making yourself uncomfortable with socializing

>>513510303
Don't kick a man while he's down retard
>>513510221 (OP)
That's me, 33, feel the exact same, quit my job over no pussy and lost my v-card recently to a whore.
I plan on living until my life goes to shit so bad I can't take it, until then it's going to be hedonism and nihilism.
Get yourself a good PC because it's as good as it gets for us.

>>513510221 (OP)
sounds like a "You" problem
Make a plan. Come back and ask "What in my plan is not working" or "how can I make this plan (state the plan) better."
No one owes you anything. And no one cares about you. But you keep being you.
I made a plan... it worked before I even got to the good parts.

>>513510221 (OP)
>At 34 you’re invisible
I´m 45 and still able to date 20+ yearold women, though most guys in their 40's don't look like I do.

>>513511035
See, you had to make a plan while your forefathers didn't.
Instead of fighting the hoeflation you gave in to the new standards, OP is a better man than you.

>>513510892
>E-tradcath
>Go to church
Lol
Do you think nick fuentes regularly go to church lol

>>513511055
That's birth rng for ya.
I look like a jeet but I'm not a jeet.
Even people from my race get shocked to learn we're the same race.
Oh and I have feminine features like wide hips, long eyelashes and girl thighs, no I am not trooning out.

>>513510221 (OP)
By not having ever been with a female you've actually dodged a bullet

Being with females is all hype, puffed up by a predatory (((corporate capitalist))) system that cultivates the lie of romantic chivalry to keep males selling their souls for money and working their fingers to the bone to keep the poisonous female gender never even satisfied

Being with a female is nothing but a challenge to see if you've amassed enough money and power and invulnerability so that you can keep one (or more) temporarily satisfied as an otherwise completely unrewarding trophy of your shallow tier of accomplishment in life

And so, place no romantic or spiritual value whatsoever on females or their approval. Getting and keeping a female is a purely cynical accomplishment and nothing to be especially proud of, I promise you

>>513510221 (OP)
eat shit spammer

>>513510221 (OP)

>holding a woman’s hand
Overrated, especially the whole anime fingers intertwined bullshit feels really uncomfortable

>kissing
Overrated

>sex
Never had it, and probably wouldn’t feel so great because parents mutilated my dick

OP you are asking for things woman can’t provide. See >>513510355. The women in my life have been so toxic (mainly family) I can’t understand why you’d want to be with them. My own mom lies to my face and gaslights me.

>>513510221 (OP)
>I wasted my 20s trapped in some tradcath cult that told me touching women was a sin
They have groypers in Poland?

>>513510221 (OP)
>The only intimacy I’ve ever experienced was with prostitutes
That was your mistake. Thats where you lost. Thats not real intimacy. And now women can tell. You can get lucky with a girl who used to be a prostitute though. And is cooked the same way you are.

>>513510221 (OP)
polish bro , women are overrated. Take care of your sole. Look up gnosticism. Enjoy your freetime and prepare to be free after death

>>513511238
just take care of your mind and body to the best of your abilities. even if you don't get a girl you'll have something to feel good about and proud of.

I'm 43 and I am in the same position. Only now I am so jaded I no longer treat unkind people with any respect. I don't acknowledge people's autism, I shouldn't have to. Autismos have the responsibility to not act like a retard in public. They go to a mental home if they can't do that. Women actually notice me now because I straight up get in people's faces when they act aggressive and advise to follow up on all threats... They never do though even after I tell them it's okay - no one will miss me, but your coming with me. Yeah now women notice me but I don't give a fuck anymore, I don't look at them unless it is for work and I must look at them. Why would I want a person in my life that just calls police on me when I get angry at something... Fuck that, living alone is a lot more favorable. I can lose my shit all I want and don't have the extra stress of my significant other dogging me to the cops. The women in my own family drove my disgust for females past a point of no return.

>>513511638
The only one that is cooked is your nigger faggot mother. Everyone can tell

>>513510221 (OP)
Same but I'm 27. I don't care.

>>513511719
Nope, not going to be productive without returns.
I'm not going to put in any effort when my father and grandfather got free wife at 17.
Getting nothing is completely fine because I'm not entitled to anything, but if I don't get anything however you cannot expect me to contribute to anything, fuck off it's parasiting time.

>>513511238
stop chasing the top 30% woman in looks and just settle for a nice girl who will love and raise your kids. that's all. and in being in more circles of woman, you eventually meet, better woman.

reality is most good looking woman don't want to date a loser who's never talked to woman before. Example, back in highschool i took drama class. IDGAF about drama, just wanted an easy class to fuck off in. in that class, was majority 4/10 uggos. but by being around them and chatting, I eventually got to know and attract 7/10's, and was IN. and I could tell some of the 4/10's like me too.

basically hang out with girls, as cringe as it is, and once you grab one, you exit stage left. and if you need a rebound, you "catch up" with the group, spark convos of "what happened to you and tiffany", and go again. REAL easy, if you're not a creepy loser and dress decently anyways.

>>513511786
You paid a woman to have sex with her? And you are here asking why you can't get fucking laid? Are you serious? They can tell... you fucking faggot. They know are the type of guy that has to pay for it. Because of what you say and how you act.

>>513511896
>"what happened to you and tiffany"
>basically hang out with girls

Yeah bro just become a goy faggot. Lmao

>>513510221 (OP)
Non of that shit is important you were sold Disney shit by Jews to move product

Sex is actually 95% of the relationship. This only becomes clearer to me as I get older and have more of them. A woman’s role is that of someone who provides sex and homekeeping. Since women don’t do the latter, that just leaves sex. No, your girl won’t be your best friend. That’s just your addiction to the pussy talking. No, it’s not about female companionship, male friends and loneliness are just fine. No, it’s not as if she brings some other value to your life. She’ll actually be a net negative in every way. She’ll be more expensive, more of a pain, more emotionally problematic, the list goes on. There is one way in which she brings something of value to your life and that way is via sex. That’s it. Modern women aren’t even capable of love or loyalty. And you guys are out here thinking they bring companionship? Get real.

>>513511896
I'm not settling, society will only get something out of me on my terms.
If I don't get what I want, I'm not contributing to your retirement.

>>513510355
Based

>>513511638
that's not even true. I've fucked my fair share of hookers back in the 90's and never had a problem approaching women.

>>513511969
You have to pay for sex anyway. Some pay with their time some pay with money. What's the difference? Noone cares lmao nigger

And yes paying with money is much cheaper

>>513510911
It’s fucked how women talk today, they expect you to match their vibe and be some friend.
The men that come out the other side of this socializing shit make me ill, they basically have to turn gay.
There are all these shit tests or whatever basically knocking down any facade of masculinity you erect, society has trained to make women knock it down all because it’s boring or corny or some shit like that.

>>513510221 (OP)
>Don’t waste your time like I did. Go out and talk to women
Women are the surest pipeline to normiedom, they are the jew's greatest weapon over us.
By all means, if you can find a truly good one, marry her.
But don't pine for the worthless cunts we have today.
Take your solitude as an opportunity to become more than a mere mammal.

>>513512063
There is a difference. I'll tell you what the difference is. The reason is because you aren't working on attracting women. You think that you can just buy their pussy and thats all they care about. Like I said earlier in the thread you might get lucky with an ex-prostitute or something because she might understand you better.

>>513511896
>Just be fag hags bff and your in
Holy kek

>>513510778
Nah.

Statistically couples have more sex first year than the rest of the marriage. So by and large it can't be a reliable indicator of anything unless the point is almost all couples are unhealthy .

Moreover I can imagine there's plenty of very unhealthy couples that constantly rage fuck each other like lunatics, and then go back to fighting.

>>513511638
It's the opposite. Hookers make you vastly more confident with women and you will become way more adept at picking them up once you've wet your whistle a few times.

>>513512300
i agree i have been saying this for a long time , women are being used as a weapon

>>513511331
This

>>513511129
Or...hear me out...the game changes...and you either adapt and overcome or you get naturally selected out of the pool. That's how it has always been, for every species, for every time, since the start of the chain. Other people succeeded, there was no reason you couldn't either if you tried instead of bitching about the rules changing. The game is still going and you are whining to the referee instead of playing.

>>513511896
This implies an uglier person would be nicer. It's often the case the uglier person isn't nice at all and will cuck you, maybe even get back at you for the slight she got from an entirely different person (women are crazy/demons).

>>513511869
being a NEET is absolutely fine, I've been a NEET since 2018 when I became a landlord after inheriting some real estate. but why let yourself go? do it for yourself not for the cunts. trust me you'll feel better.

>>513512358
This is complete horse shit. Men are embarrassed about needing to pay for sex. I dare you to tell anyone that buying hookers made you better at getting dates.

>>513512348
>Moreover I can imagine there's plenty of very unhealthy couples that constantly rage fuck each other like lunatics, and then go back to fighting.
that's actually a good point, Urubro. the exception to the rule.

>>513512300
Accurate af

>>513510221 (OP)
>The only intimacy I’ve ever experienced was with prostitutes
You've condemned yourself to a life of loneliness, because any relationship from now on will be adultery to you according to Jesus.

>>513510221 (OP)
Sometimes life is like a lottery
God handed you these cards and you have to do what you can to form the highest path
All things are secondary to this including women, they show up along the path if you continue
No point in dwelling on the past, walk and look forward and never stop
If you don't seek God's Passage (whatever religion you are or relate to) there is nothing left

>>513510221 (OP)
A 34 year old grown ass man is crying on a pron forum
Woooow

>>513510221 (OP)
Join a monastery

the most fulfilling relationship i've ever had was a completely non sexual online relationship with a spergy girl who lived like a hermit in another country, this lasted for 2 years and was actually nice. if you want to go after normie girls, and i don't mean stacy i mean just average "normal" girls yeah all you're going to get is sex and you have to work harder for it than it's worth, and you're a fucking retard if you think that's really worth crying over as a 34 year old man. getting older hasn't made me "invisible" it has made me noticable, despite the fact that i'm still an odd looking autist, women like me more now than when i was in my early and even mid 20s. be somebody you would want to be around yourself, you won't ever find the fantasy girl you think about and you may never find the "love" you want but you can find people who make you really happy.

>be me
>NEET
>autistic
>32 years old
>never worked
>live with parents
>socially inept (can barely hold eye contact)
>weak chin
>was never interested in losing my virginity (volcel)
>meet a mid-20s woman at the mall
>somehow I manage to hold a conversation with her
>she becomes my first gf, but I dump her a week after during a spergout
>meet another woman at a coffee shop
>lose my virginity to her, she becomes my second gf

It’s insane how many lonely women there are out there. At this point I’m absolutely convinced that the reason incels exist is because they hide in the deepest darkest recesses of their grandmothers’ basements. Literally all they need to do is walk outside.

>>513510221 (OP)
>>513510293
this, fpbp. Faggot OP gave up already, topkek. More women for all of us. All he had to do is learn basics like diet, exercise, hygiene, speech. Maybe actually get some decent job so he could drive around even in an old car and pay for dates or fun things to do. But nah. Would rather do nothing. So he will get nothing. Pathetic.
>Don’t waste your time like I did.
only a loser would still get no pussy- in the time of the most slutty generation of women. Amazing work there bro. I can see why niggers and jeets are trying to get theirs today.

>>513511515
Why are you bringing in family when his talking about a partner relationship you fucking weirod?

>>513512480
I agree, fuck the pool, I'm not going to reproduce for the sake of it, and at the same time, if I don't have what I want I also won't contribute.
>>513512549
Fair argument, but the idea of becoming attractive not because of me but because I worked towards it disgusts me.
I'd rather not surround myself with people that only started gathering around me at my best because they'll fuck off at my worst.

New women bad, muh hypergamy, bla bla bla...
Just admit you gave up and your strategy is trash!
Why do (you) only try to date the wrong one? CHOOSE BETTER!
How would (you) meet the right woman if you live like a hermit and only do activities with other men?
Why do you complain about them not being attracted if (you) take no effort in your looks?(good perfume,haircut,skin,clothes,...)
Nah, it's always their fault, never yours.

>>513512809
>All things are secondary to this including women
No they fucking aren't. God literally said in the beginning of creation that man SHOULD NOT be alone. Fucking prelest-filled retards who talk out of their ass, no different than that kike ad saying how goyim will own nothing and be happy.

>>513513167
that look of utter malice makes me hard

>>513513250
God comes first, since he created man and woman
Glory to God first then the material reaps

>>513511869
this is the part so many either won't, or can't, understand.

>you're not ENTITLED to anything
>ok.mp4
>why arent YOU WORKING!?
>you're not entitled to my labor
>REEEEEEEEEEEEE

it's not rocket science. carrot and stick requires a carrot, carrot is gone, so donkey no move.

>>513513333
And after a while you're desensitized to the stick or you're not worth the stick, so the farmer just leaves you alone, and you're free, completely and permanently alone, but also completely free.

>>513510221 (OP)
>Sex is maybe 10% of what a relationship is, the rest is the bond, the comfort, the moments you can’t buy. I’ll never know what that feels like.
yes, but the reality is very few experience such a real fulfilling relationship, so you are not alone. But the advice to seek it out in your 20s as job1 is good, too many fuck around in their 20s not knowing what the real priority is at that age

>>513513326
God created women to be subservient and companionate to man, it's not a material matter.

>>513510293
>>513510303
Don't be assholes to your fellow man.

>>513513221
if you really wanted to be alone it'd be fine but the fact you sound so pissed about it tells me something inside of you is letting you know you need to get your shit toghether, don't fix your shit for the foids, like I said before, do it for yourself. buy a good bike and ride it in a national park daily. what's the point of having plenty of free time as a NEET if you plan to waste it torturing yourself as a basement dweller?

>>513512625
Only a total sperg would admit something like that IRL. You don't tell anyone, you just do it. It makes you way more confident afterwards when you realize women aren't special and there's nothing to fear. The rest develops from there.

>>513513608
That covenant has been broken by satan through his kike minions, most women do not serve their men anymore and use them as a hoist for whatever narcissistic desire they have
That being said I would get married if it was truly God given

>>513510221 (OP)
...If this isn't bait you're just obsessing on your lost youth.

Get over it. You have now. Want to be cute with a girl? Go be cute with a girl.

>Never held a girl’s hand in public, never gone shopping with her, never done the dumb little couple things
Read this to yourself again. This is you wanting to show off in public that there is nothing wrong with you.

Is there something wrong with you?

>>513513221
just find a wholesome hobbie like being a photographer or learn to play an instrument. sometimes when I'm down I play my guitar and I feel better afterwards. it doesn't even have to be related to maintaining your phisique.

>>513511004
Same. We're not alone. Love.

>>513513697
Here we fucking go with the cult people selling their doctrines to desperate men.
You're not any better than the Jehovah witnesses, shoo shoo!

>>513513333
It doesn't matter, we are surrounded on all sides of the political spectrum by retards who believe in embracing this absurd grindcore race to the bottom.

>>513513167
>>513513252
I also enjoy a woman who's a bit cunty

>>513513333
checked

>>513510892
There's a lack of young women in church. The tradcath meme is incel cope.

>>513510221 (OP)
Hey youre not missing much all that lovey dovey shit from disney and all these other families. The reality is they live in nature, and in nature women are not like men. They dont have honor, or loyalty. Nature demands they seek the strongest. A woman is just another challenger. A mental one. She is there to test your inner strength. For people will disrespect you as long as you allow them. You think you are getting disney princess. But they are wicked witches. Enchanters. True love and unicorns are very rare for the select few. 34 is still young though, just get in shape you can look good into your 70s if you take care of your body

>>513513843
What part of that is cultish? It's common sense that women should serve men, and even more obvious how kiked out any institution brainwashing women is
What I am saying is walk God's path, the least you can do is have some semblance of hope
Sometimes it does seem like some are completely muted to anything but physical life

>>513513789
Don't have talents, I'm not someone curious, I only develop skills I need to keep playing games.
One day my laptop broke and I learned computer hardware trying to fix it, managed to with a toothpick and made a career out of it, got myself an appartement with my last job and got fired on purpose for goodbye bux that I used to completely repay the mortgage.
I am fully aware of being a very low value man, however, I was born into this world, blame my parents.
>>513513620
I hate putting effort into anything at a fundamental level, I completely agree that someone like me getting laid would be a catastrophy, however if I don't get laid I'm also not returning to the workforce, those are my terms.

“If you’re in your 20s, don’t fool yourself. Don’t waste your time like I did. Go out and talk to women, because if you don’t, you’ll end up like me. And once you’re me, there’s no going back.”


I’m in my 20

I try to talk with women on instagram and it mostly failed

Try in real life? Mm, maybe I try

>>513512261
I think women are scared and want to see a guy interacting regularly in public so they can see his mannerisms and if hes a crazy psycho or not. Harder to fake if hes at some club regularly for hour long sessions

>>513513333
check yourself

“ At 34 you’re invisible. No one wants a man who never lived life, who has no experience, who is broken.”


It not too late, dude


Holy fuck what I mind of loser

>>513510463
why lmao

>>513514069
you clearly have a self esteem problem, probably justified for having to live in clownworld, though. but you can snap out of it and good things happen out of a mix of effort and chance, eventually. maybe effort is not the right word, you must add entropy to your life because randomness leads to opportunities, eventually. if you vegetate all day is not likely that opportunities will arrive to you by chance. also if you don't develop any ability even if the opportunity arrives you will not know how to exploit it in your benefit.

>>513514439
It's a childhood thing, I don't do things, even cleaning up or taking a bath feel weird and take me effort to mentally process and then start.
And yet, in spite of that, my terms are final, no pussy? no work.

>>513510221 (OP)
You're still making excuses for why you didn't talk to girls when you were younger. It wasn't "muh church". Thats fucking cope. It was you and its always been you. You still refuse to take accountability for your own actions. You chose to be a pussy and not better yourself when you were younger so you could get some tight femtwink ass. Man up, dude. Quit feeling sorry for yourself.

>>513512823
And you're crying over his "crying" kek