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For men it is too. Men spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to talk to women, impress them and building up a life that can attract them. When men see other men who acquire women easily they either #1 envy it #2 respect it or #3 want to learn from them.
In life we are a key and a lock. Women are locks. If you can open a lock with any key it is not secure and will get you robbed easily, it is a worthless lock (a pussy that opens for anyone). A master key that can open any lock is very useful and gives you power to access any place you want usually only given to those who have proven they deserve the responsibility at a place. (Guy who can get many girls)
Guys want to be a master key and girls respect master keys because they see value in them since so many people want to interact with them and want them. That guy is a status symbol for them and creates a feeling of FOMO since they need to behave well to get him and keep him hence he has power