Thread 513718421

A few days ago, I met a girl I really liked. She liked me too at first, we kissed, and she even told me how attractive I was.

But the next time we met, she looked me in the eye and said our ideas of love were completely different.

She said I care too deeply, love too intensely, and that she can’t handle the weight of it.

Then i cried being drunk the whole night .. She was so sweet .. i never received love and i got a little bit of affection from her and now i am literally destroyed and drunk again..

It s so fucking over having emotions and being romantic as a man

How old are you? You grow out of this by 25

>>513718666
27

>>513718421 (OP)
If, "love" as defined by men is unconditional, then can women really even love at all to start with? It's something to think about.

>>513718421 (OP)
you should quit drinking, you crybaby faggot

>>513718421 (OP)
Women aren't looking for love, they are looking for validation.

When a woman's social circle sees she has reeled in a winner, she will feel special, admired and validated. If you show her vulnerability or weakness before you have shown her that you are a winner, she will think you are a bitch boy that won't impress her family and friends, and hence she will not feel validated in giving herself to you.

This is consistent across all cultures and all income ranges everywhere in the world. The definition of "winner" is the only thing that is different, depending on where she is from.

>>513719008
my heart hurt so much.
all i want is love from when i was 12

>>513719055
don t care

>>513718421 (OP)

Porn has inflated expectations

>>513719548
she told me she is not able to love me as much as i want and that we think different

>>513719354
One woman. You are allowing one, single woman, among a pool of thousands more around you to hurt you so much. Relax your brain. I promise you, Anon, this isn't worth all that. Please come to your senses soon.

The only time you can experience love is during your teenage years. That's the only time it feels unconditional. Everything is transactional after that. I wish it wasn't this way. Especially because so many people missed out on it.

>>513719689
yes bro
because i have hundreds of options ?? lmao

>>513718421 (OP)
Love is for faggots meet whore put baby in her than keep side chicks you should never love a demon because a demon will never love you back

>>513720316
but i don t care about sex
all i care is affection..
i tested my test levels they are high

>>513718421 (OP)
ok dumbass females do whats called a shit test where they say something mean and see how you react. you failed. you have to laugh and say something mean back, or you are a weak beta in their eyes. society has taught you to be nice to them, but its the worst idea. boss them around, abuse them, yell at them.. they love it. it makes sense because imagine being a female back before society (was a shithole but it always has been honestly) and how there was war everywhere and mortal threats. what kind of man would they want you think? a strong one. otherwise their beta just get killed like cowards then the female gets invaded by their former mans killer. it was like that for untold many millenia. they are not just gonna change their stripes like that. my mother is a bpd cunt from hell but i learned to slap her around and thats how you do it. take no shit and treat them like shit. it works on every female and male too, and even animals lol. you bow, and you will keep bowing. never bow, never surrender. go get with a bpd for awhile and learn the ropes, everything that society teaches is lies.

>>513719354
It sounds like you didnt have very good male guidance growing up. Which is pretty normal these days. Reign in your emotions, approach life stoically, and never cry in front of your woman (even if she says it's ok and that she wants you to feel "safe"). You cannot rely on women to provide you any emotional support. Your idea of romance is not real nor lasting. At the very best you will have a fleeting 3 months to a year or so of the type of romantic life you hope to find if at all and then it dissipates. As a man you will never be able to lean on anyone for emotional support for very long because no one cares. Hang in there, it only gets worse...get a dog/cat and/or a hobby.

We need to destroy institutions that duel this lie of love.

>>513720648
but my life then doesn t have a point
if i can t be loved for the real me and i can t act natural what stop me to become a piece of shit to everyone

no point to live like that

that was my only reason to live, to find a loving woman

>>513720929
Are you drunk right now?

>>513718421 (OP)
Women want a dominant alpha to breed with, then castrate that alpha so he became her puppy

>>513720992
no
these are my real thoughts sober

like the only thing that keep me from dying/fucking up my life is the hope that a woman can love me

>>513721166
We all feel your pain. You just have to learn to live with it.

>>513718421 (OP)
KYS gypsy!
Real life is not bollywood.

Women are programmed to seek strength. Same as how men are programmed to seek and protect vulnerability. The most attractive thing for women is a man with an ironclad unshakeable belief system. Which is why they are attracted to Criminals, Communists, and rich white conservative men, but not the onions reddit style picrel (my GF sent this meme to me, it's apparently something women talk about among themselves making fun of men who do things just to appease women)

>>513721166
>the hope that a woman can love me
The closest you can get is a woman who loves what you give her, be that experiences, resources, attention or all of the above.
Sorry bro.

Like anons have said, GEE WIZ LE WOMENS AND LE NPCS REAPOND TO LE VIOLENCE!

>>513720929
I don't have a good answer for you. It is just the most likely reality that you have to come to terms with. I'm not saying the most ideal scenario doesn't exist (that you find this wonderful human being that treats you how you want to be treated). I'm saying that it is very very unlikely. Especially in this modern era where we don't have the social norms from before. People are selfish and are seeking out what is best for them, not what is best for you. Sadly nothing I say will resonate with you in a way that is beneficial to you, you won't change your perspective...but time and life will do it for you regardless and only after you have been repeatedly hurt.

Also
>listening to what women say

the words that women say is completely irrelevant. The only relevant thing is the tone in which they say it. In your case, she's basically saying you should have ripped her clothes off and ravished her, and she's unimpressed by your personality.

So is being gay or getting a dog the only option for love?

>>513721430
I actually enjoy photography and modern camera tech but I have never and will never pick up a hobby for a woman.
Not like it matters. You can do anything and if a woman likes you enough, she'll still suck your dick, even if you have "unattractive" hobbies.

>>513718421 (OP)
she smelled the weakness and desperation on you.
I've always treated women like they're a mild annoyance getting in my way. This seems to work well. Never get lovey-dovey, it makes them lose respect for you. Never show weakness, you look like a cunt in their eyes.

t. married 22 years

>>513718421 (OP)
>She said I care too deeply, love too intensely, and that she can’t handle the weight of it
that's womanspeak, it translates to "you are a nice guy, and I only want a quick fuck right now"

>>513721748
This. You want to see how things are? Just turn on a Mr beast video. See how everyone (scripted or not) talks a big game and fucks people over, that’s life, so get used to it. Being violent and to the point like anons have stated >>513720463 >>513720648
Makes sense because you’re less likely to get your shit packed in. Hence more attractive. So OP get it out of your head that love exists, it’s just chemicals you fucking faggot, smoke grass

>>513721970
women will only give their love to a man who they see can exist without it. Like they say with getting women, don't chase women like a jeet PUA, build yourself a lifestyle where you have excess resources and they will naturally start to chase you instead.

>>513718421 (OP)
Fuck that sucks man! same here for the most part. Women don't like guys like us most of the time because they prefer nonchalant dudes who don't give a fuck about them because they're too important yada yada...makes them feel like they're inferior to these types of guys and need to earn them by putting out.
Also, women in your country are fine af.

>>513718421 (OP)
>Retard gave it all away
> Retard thinks romantic stuff is for women and not for men
Kek the judeomatriarchy takes another nice guy

>>513718421 (OP)
Don't let some skank whore who grew cold being with so many partners or due to some trauma tell you how you should be.

>>513722726
Next time dont give away your love until atleast 3 months before that dont get attached to her, its a simply darwinnian test

Women dont want love to feel like the weighted clothing that goku and piccolo wear to condition themselves they want it to feel like riding the flying nimbus

>>513718421 (OP)
>demoralization thread
>Fear, uncertainty, and doubt (often shortened to FUD) is a disinformation strategy used in sales, marketing, public relations, politics, cults, and propaganda. FUD is generally a strategy to influence perception by disseminating negative and dubious or false information and a manifestation of the appeal to fear. These threads and articles are demoralizing propaganda. Don’t believe the kike lie.

If you don’t have friends or family, go join a church. The people in the church believe that IT’S THEIR JOB AS CHRISTIANS TO MAKE YOU PART OF THE COMMUNITY. They will go out of their way to fit you in. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have strong social skills. Just be honest and they WILL take you in and teach you. At least a good church will, so if you don’t find it at one, then keep trying until you find a good one. It’s God’s plan that you have a good mate and family and be supported by a strong community.

It’s amusing that there’s a fat tranny shill like you being paid 10 cents per post that barely makes enough money to pay for your dilating supplies. But your time here will be over soon when you kill yourself for not being a real woman.

>>513719626
what she really meant is you are too clingy nigger and she wants a companion not dependent

>>513722984
holy boomerpost

>>513718421 (OP)
>It s so fucking over having emotions and being romantic as a man
Men aren't supposed to have emotions, bro.
I am guessing you are young.
Society will teach you that emotions are not permissible in men. It's part of growing up and conforming to social standards.

>>513718421 (OP)
you gave her an ick.

>>513720046
>The only time you can experience love is during your teenage years. That's the only time it feels unconditional. Everything is transactional after that. I wish it wasn't this way. Especially because so many people missed out on it.
This is absolutely right. Romantic love is "puppy love," or early, adolescent love. Mature love is transactional and practical.
If you want unconditional love, which is totally understandable, then seriously, adopt a dog. They love you unconditionally in a way even your mother never couldn't.

>>513718421 (OP)
You met a girl once and cried when you couldn’t keep her?

You are a fucking mess.

>>513719548
What

>>513718421 (OP)
90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.
Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.
Take care of your health and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time wasted together flows differently.

>>513720463
Women who do this aren't worth the effort. It never stops
You're just dealing with an entitled brat
This is not universal, plenty are actually sane

>She said I care too deeply, love too intensely, and that she can’t handle the weight of it.
I'm jealous of you. To have this capacity of love, I envy you. And to even show it to a woman! You are lucky.

>>513718421 (OP)
Grab woman, stick peenor in vaginor.

Make happy.

Easy.

Understand.

>>513718421 (OP)
It is hard to get that type of love, it is harder to get it from older women because with time and bigger number of partners their inherit materialistic base nature starts to show more

>>513720929
OP I need you to remember that the fuckers on /pol/ aren't real and they're all liars on top of being stupid
Don't take anything here as fact

>>513718421 (OP)
Women want what they don`t have, but when they get that, they want another thing and another
and another
and another
They are me, my self and i creatures driven by emotions, not logic or reason, which is why they are such whores as well
They will find flaws in any man, even if they by some miracle could find one that ticked all their boxes, their ever changing emotions would tell them that this is not right, this is too perfect, there must be something wrong here and they would manufacture flaws, start fights over trivial things that men could care less about,provoke and then run away from any counter arguments which is designed to make us mad, thus proven them right in their flawed assumption.
You dodged a bullet bro, be happy about it

Women's thoughts and feelings change like the wind, what is true one day isn't the next.
They can be all for something then completely back peddle on it.
If you try to make sense or apply logic to that it will drive you insane.

>But the next time we met,
oh and she also got railed by other men in the meantime, you were just another talking head by the time you met again.

>>513723226
You have some growing up to do yourself anon

Women do, cel saga ass nigga.

>>513721970
you have dear friend to love

>>513724364
>Women who do this aren't worth the effort. It never stops
It's true. A lot of women who shit test you will do it over, and over, and over. A juice not worth the squeeze

>>513718421 (OP)
it’s okay anon. she’ll end up trying out the psychopath scumbags for a while who will kick the shit out of her, then end up settling for someone like you when they hit 35 (25 with drugs/alcohol). take solace in the fact that she lives a hollow life and that hell is already being experienced. she will smile and say she’s happy, but deep down there is nothing there.

>>513718421 (OP)
Who are these people who think they can do whatever the fuck they want to me? Whoever it is youre a piece of shit and i bet you arent doing it to the kikes if you arent a kike youre just doing it to others till you meet a kike and then you bow to him. You should have better bowed to me you dumbass. Dont you see your little crusade against me was for meaningless shit while im trying to fix the world you useless selfish idiot? How am i gonna best the best if you snivelling rats always come to attack me? Dont come test me with your stupid trauma based minitests justs to get a little bit higher in the pecking order. Dont you understand youre a meaningless shit? Dont you understand youre the reason its not working out for me?

>>513723531
But I can't have sex with my dog, I'm not Canadian.

>>513724582
pfft. this place is right about women and jews, thats for sure.

>>513724810
Nothing I said was false. Becoming as unfeeling as humanly possible is the best way to go through life, at least as regards other human beings.

>>513718421 (OP)
nice spacing, now go back

>>513725289
No one actually needs sex. There is a biological drive to have sex, but it dissipates by age 35 or 40 for normal people. Still, sex in young people is not an actual need, just a desire. You can live without it and focus on better things with more impact on your life.

>>513718421 (OP)
She wanted the dick, you likely refused. Or started being stupid clingy if you did break it off. Or you were lackluster in bed and she's had loads better.

That is the usual reasons for what you said without knowing more.

>>513718666
Hi Satan. It took me until my 30s. But you do grow out of it.

>>513720046
This is why romantic visual novels and anime exist and also why the control freak psychos are so hell bent on attacking them and trying to ban them.