Thread 513907266

w proper granddads and grandmas
all the trimmings. you know.
family stability is the single greatest predictor of how well you do in life overall

>>513907266 (OP)
Looks like a troon in the middle

>>513907266 (OP)
My parents got divorced when I was five. But they both were heavily involved in my life as was both their moms and my mom’s dad. However my dad’s second wife (unironically ashkenazi) molested and raped me for three years when I was 6-9 alongside her ashkenazi “lesbian” friend. Really fucked me up. Made me hate Jews before I even knew about the Nazis. I have a nice family of my own though. Wife and three sons.

I'm from a fucked up family of high IQ poors/addicts. My patrilineal line is all proto-4channers, my father and his father before him have essentially 0 need for human contact despite being very empathetic and socially perceptive people.

I'm very blessed to have a set of good parents who went through thick and thin and despite their gripes were never selfish enough to divorce because it would make me and my sister's lives miserable.
I wish I could find a good woman to be the mother of my kids too

>>513907266 (OP)
Divorced parents, all grandparents and great grandparents dead or living abroad. No cousins living in my country. I have a single brother.

Like >>513908126 said, I'm blessed that my mom was strong enough to get us through the worst times, we're at a better point than we've ever been now. It's just been very lonely from a social standpoint, I don't relate at all to people with "big families", or the concept of visiting relatives.

>>513908319
Ah well for the extended family I have a good relationship too, thing is that there's a lot of distance between me and them and they don't have the same good morals as me and my parents/sister have

>>513908004
Sometimes I think we become this empathic because we don't have to deal with people.

>>513908562
You can be empathetic and still have to deal with people everyday.
The thing is that I at least am very picky with who I am empathetic with

>>513907266 (OP)
I came from a fairly well to do, well known family in a small town. My parents had a good marriage for 40+ years. I have three older sisters, two of which are very respectable members of the community with successful husbands, families and businesses. I have a nice wife, three sons, and a good business.

....But, one sister is literally the spawn of satan. The most unpleasant narcissistic bpd whore you can imagine. She ruined her marriage to a really successful guy, got pregnant by a crackhead, had a retarded crack baby, and wound up moving back into my parents house at 40 yeara old, with the retard kid. My mom wouldn't kick her out and my dad couldn't take it, so he left, after almost 50 years of marriage. He has a new Asian wife half his age now. He's doing good, built a big new house and travels a lot. My mom is still stuck with my crazy ass sister and her retarded kid, by retarded I mean can't speak, shitting in a diaper and smearing it on the wall at 12 years old.

I don't get it. We all had a nice stable childhood. Three out of us four siblings have really above average nice lives, but that bitch is insane living a life of hell, and she's drug my mother down along with her.

>>513908879
Sadly thats the case with lots of families, every now and then there's always a chance of spawning a complete and total fuckup.

>>513907266 (OP)
Dad a decent but weak man. Mom if she can be called that is a evil demonic cunt.

>>513907266 (OP)
My dad bailed when I was two, but my maternal grandparents were amazing. I spent my summers working with my grandfather, so I had that patriarchal guidance that young men need. I don't even want to think about how I would have turned out without him.

>>513907266 (OP)
White trash checking in