This is a PSA to every man here.

All women engage in behaviors that test how in control and controllable you are.

Some women WANT to be slaves and get off on surrender. They expect you to be in control and singleminded at all times and will test you to validate this and base their security on yours. These women are rare, have few friends and are extremely needy and clingy. Their brains are not along for the ride. This is their libido talking and the moment you communicate an anti-control vector it will dissolve.

All women(ego/unconscious) want to be in control, in general they will will not bother trying to fuck you if they don't believe they can control you or predict your behavior and will test you to validate that you are functionable and will base their security on this.

Insecurity is something they can't control.
Abstract or independent intelligence(not defaulting to social norms) is something they can't control.
etc.

Eagerness, being entertaining, being stupid, being stereotypical in behavior = all dog-like behaviors they interpret as having utility for control.

If they talk to you about abstract reasoning or male emotions, it is purely curiosity about the life of a eunuch who they find interesting but have no true appetite for. Even if they mate with him, it is purely momentary entertainment and they will neither breed with nor commit to him. Any time spent in deep passionate interaction on these topics with a woman is a waste of effort and time.

This is not to say that women cannot appreciate art, music, science, or share a passion for these things which can work in a lovelife. Those are material pursuits which can be shared. But typically they do not emerge until after a relationship is formed and foundations need reinforcement with more distractions. Usually, few if any passions/variables are truly shared except alcohol, music, religion, and social interaction level tolerance.

>>513960640 (OP)
Okay so how do i use this information to benefit me and mine exactly?

>>513960640 (OP)
In my main post i glossed one major variable- culture.
Women come from a culture. a culture of bimboification, or tradition, or sluttiness, or nerdiness, these being modern cultures unlike traditional ones like the amish, the western housewife, the chinese tiger mom. All women inherit cultures which they express to conform to their female peer group and demonstrate status within it. They do not do this to attract you.

What a woman does to attract you is signal by her words and actions if she is available, if she is interested, and if she is friendly. It is easy to get her to be friendly, you'll only determine if she's available the moment you try to ask her out. It is a given that she is interested if she is friendly. Remaining in control and unphasable is the key to being attractive even when she is unavailable.

how to approach and talk to women: approaching women means signaling how available and committed you are in general and seeking the kind of woman in the kind of place who is likely to have the same level of committment. For LTR use social circles and build knowledge and awareness to both inform your choices and your candidates, the worst thing you can do is be an unknown untrusted- women default to imagining fault. For STR show up where women are desperate and act uncommitted and chaotic. Full rules still apply, but what these women want is a man who is so low on the social pole he'd never be able to use his social influence to threaten them later, and that's why they choose gutter trash for one night stands. Women love social toilets.

how to understand a womans mind: women think, communicate, are flexible, reach consent on emotional connections and support, generally have fixed personal worldviews, cant be reasoned with. Survive in the pack. Men are much the same, but work on a threat/competition basis to select actions, and live in an ontologically disentangled world where evidence can inform belief. Often alone.

>>513960640 (OP)
Some men are into that extreme shit too. They're just people who experienced some kind of traumatic event in their life, doesn't even have to be sexual. Could've been relentless bullying or something like that. So they learn to cope with humiliation and degradation by sexualising it. You're reading too much into it.

>Some women WANT to be slaves and get off on surrender.
It's not the surrender part. It's that you absolved them of any kind of accountability or responsibility that's what's attractive to them. Women don't give a shit about these abstract concepts. It's all about how you sell it to them. If they think it's good for them personally they'll do it. They're just women. That's why they go around being sluts because someone told them that's freedom, that's empowerment. If attitudes changed, if she was openly shamed for it, her behaviour would change. In another era the same women would be trying to show how virtuous they are in other ways, if everyone was Christian and serious about it then they would be eager to show what a good Christian they are, you'd see them join a choir or help out in a soup kitchen and so on if they thought it would benefit them (find themselves a good husband for example). The abstract thinking about morals just doesn't occur to them.

There's a similar thing with non-whites, they will get the urge to steal something or rape and the only thing stopping that urge is the negative consequences. If you're a white man you have an extra thing going on where you never do that shit because it's wrong, not because someone is going to catch you.

I dont know i dont care what women or men want

Women's minds immediately go into denial when apprehending male intelligence.
Three levels of denial:
There's no way he has it figured out.
Even if he has it figured out, there's no way he's aware of this.
Even if he's aware of this, he can't be sure.

Women will offhandedly say the most insecure, out of pocket, hilariously fucked shit and it's not even intentional- The female subconscious is a pocket of insecurity that continually tries to emit unthinking statements and acts that work on all three levels- threaten the control on the frame, the comprehension, and the confidence of the frame.

The greatest power god ever gave men is to ignore what women say and think. Learn to use it and to truly integrate it into your heart and mind or you will inherently fold into their frame as acknowledging any of the three gives them control and thus both weakens you and makes you undesirable.

They can't help it. they simply are testing their boundaries to maintain security.

>>513960640 (OP)
Reminds me of this movie.

>>513961977
correct, women have a collective ethical mindframe as their ontology has them at the center of all existence and its only how they relate to you as you being similar to them which builds their empathy.

Some women do have an abstract view on morality but it is generally where they are high priest and whatever they think or say is what god wants

>>513960640 (OP)
and men get fucked by horses to death for free because they love it so goddamn much
for women its money, attention, drugs or being abused
for men its always for pleasure

>>513961977
So what i should do is subtly shame bad behaviors and openly praise good ones? Especially in groups of male friends and only effective if we are attractive?
Im trying to understand how i use this information in my daily life. Basically how do do the opposite of tv media and social media?

>>513960640 (OP)
Hol up girl, lemme take a fat shit while you doin dat

>>513960640 (OP)
How does that information help me get a white nordic girlfriend?

>>513960640 (OP)
This reminds me of the girl licking the toilets during the start of COVID. God were those months hilarious.

>>513960640 (OP)
schnoz

>>513963035
if you read my replies, you'll find out.

women subconsciously want chad outlier genes for reproductions sake and dont gaf about how chad outlier genes behave but will make betas jump through hoops just for a whiff of pussy hopes this helps

>>513961202
I think about this comic at least once a week lol

>>513961202
wtf hes literally me!?!?

>>513964097
ok,i'm reading. brb

>>513964894
>ok,i'm reading. brb
Did you understand?

Why should I give a fuck what woman thinks or says? They never gave a fuck about me.

>>513962559
you don't care about it, but it cares about you.

>>513960640 (OP)
Women haven't been invented yet.

>>513960640 (OP)

>>513960640 (OP)
only closeted faggots kiss women on the mouth.

>>513962938
Well if your goal (with your group of male friends) is to actually find girlfriends, then no. I wouldn't recommend that.

If you're interacting with a woman in that sense, where she's trying to figure out if you're good for her and vice versa. Then you actually need to be completely non-judgemental. But that's for a different reason, when you're saying things like "Really?" and being open and not shaming, she will tell you more and more. You can find out if she's actually a complete mess and not worth your time. She will start to minimise, lie and obfuscate based on your reaction being negative. They're all like this, feminine men also do this, backpedal.

The simplest way I can describe it, is imagine you have a number between 0-30. Like not the 0-10 scale but actually three scales that are 0-10. Assume everyone is a normal distribution, which puts them roughly in the late 10s and early 20s. Now what you need to imagine is that the women rate themselves somewhere on that scale. So think of the three 10s as like low, mid and hot. You can have a "hot" mid woman if that makes sense. The reason I use this scale is that you and your buddies can now rate women more accurately. Think of your rating on that scale as moving up or down a little depending on how you're conducting yourself and how she's updating your score.

This score is tied to how they see your social standing. The easiest proxy for that is wealth because at some point the number is high enough that people just start doing things for you because you have the money to pay them. You might not care that much about this status game thing but women do, a lot. That's why they care a lot about what university or companies people work for, they're looking for clues. Are you elite or just lower on the totem pole.

That dance of getting a woman and keeping her is where she sees a difference in score is like 10 in your favour. That's basically it. They're retarded so it's actually not as hard as you think.

>>513967302
>difference in score is like 10 in your favour.
So basically if you cant be rich you want to appear like someone who mostly gets favors from others or helps them? or at least the status of that? basically upper middle to just top of whatever social group clubs or scenes you are in? even if they are the smaller tight nit ones?
But how does that work with a group of guys? I dont want to look better than my friend for one or two nights then have his woman try to swap up thats dogshit

>>513960640 (OP)
I'll never let a woman be in control of anything.

Sex is about power and control. You have to be in your own frame to fuck a woman. You have to feel like she is yours and you can do whatever you want. Women actually want this but they will test you to make sure its true that you're "above" her.

>>513960640 (OP)
You’re sort of in the right path. It’s very simple though. Women find needy, clingy, lovey men, repulsive. These are the “creeps”, the losers”. The personification of “ick”.

Why? Because women are desired in socIety. All their lives guys are eyeing them, wanting to fuck. You look like a pack of drooling retards in their eyes. Most men are seen as garbage by women, which is why they are so cruel to you (us). This is what pushes women towards “bad boys”, or the CEO and other guys that get girls, because they wont be overly clingy to them. This is attractive to women, not simplords. Not chivalrous faggots.

The woman then doesn’t feel like an “object of lust” (you know how they always complain about this shit while a guy is literally bending over backwards to give her everything she wants), a princess, but like just a person, not a worshipped creature. Basically, she has found an equal (or better, someone to look up to).

And thus comes the shit tests. She will try to make you into one of the many simp tards (and if she suceeds she will leave you, because she doesn’t find you attractive anymore. You’ve been conquered). That’s all there is to it.

Want women to like you? Be indifferent, be detached. Tease her. Tell her to fuck off when she gets to demandy. Rough her up in bed. Then kiss her tenderly, before fucking off about your day. Don’t chase her. And when you feel her pulling away, nudge her back with some genuine affection, before returning to detachment. This will leave her in a loop, creating a lasting relationship.

>>513970281
This sounds extremely tiresome while offering very little in return.

>>513960640 (OP)
>All women engage in behaviors that test how in control and controllable you are.
women make rules for oofy doofies and break rules for chads

>>513960640 (OP)
troon hands typed this

you are correct op its called a shit test. even animals do it to be fair. its a battle of wills between two living entities to see who is the more dominant. i am the most dominant. but only with lots of practice. thats how i know this. call her a dirty slut and laugh at whatever she says and she will love it, but only because its a challenge it will keep escalating until one of you truly wins. ask me how i know this lol. even if you do win, be nice for awhile and it will start over again. rinse and repeat. unless you are full asshole always it will be like this. if you are full asshole then they will conspire against you, if you wreck them at that they will be quiet for awhile but it will come back as they scheme about how to break you. it never ends. either you are a bitch or an alpha but you have to prove it either way regularly. its like the savannah are you the predator or the prey? lets find out. such is life. i learned this from strugggggle. lots of it. you should listen to me, but feel free not to. cheers.

>>513970508
Bro. You literally just don’t kiss her ass. Instead of long texts, it’s short. Instead of “baby, I really love you. Let’s stay together forever.” Just shrug, and tell her, “you’re pretty hot, I guess.” She’ll slap your arm or pout or something.

You know you have a girl in your finger when she’s curling her hair, pouting her lips and giving you puppy dog eyes. Not long before she starts deferring to you for decisions.

>>513960640 (OP)
Don't listen to women
Don't talk to women
Don't look at women
Don't interact with women
Don't pay any attention to women
Don't help women
And most definitely DO NOT EVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES allow yourself to be left in a place where you're 1 on 1 with a woman in any context whatsoever, not even on an empty street, turn around and find a way to go around her, just don't let her get you in a spot with no male witnesses who can retell your entire interaction with her as it happened (or lack of interaction, preferrably)
Women only get pleasure from seeing men suffer, and it's their most important goal to achieve this along with extracting as much of your resources as she can
Seeing you reduced to nothing as she saps your money, assets and will to live is the ultimate orgasm you can give her
You've been warned, do with this information what you will

>>513960640 (OP)
Wait I remember this image pre-covid. I'm dead serious.
Aka whoever OP is a glownigger.

>>513962921
Woman do this on the daily