>>514046372
They can't see that it's because they tell people how to think.
And the worst part is that they can't even see they do it.
I know this because I had been on that side for a while. I didn't see it until I took a step back and people started doing it to me as well.
People don't like to be told how to think. They don't end up going along - they understand they they are being manipulated and they resent it. They don't want to be told this innocent thing they've been doing all their lives is acktually racist because someone decided it should be ten years ago and they don't want to be told that they have to accept men who chop off their dicks and take hormones are acktually women and they don't want to be told that the hispanic gang that gives them the side eye every time they go to the corner market is actually here legally despite having skipped the line.
People know when they're being gaslit. They don't like it. It just makes them mad.