>>514231639 (OP)
it was important to me when i was a virgin myself. much of it stemmed from insecurity. i hated the idea of being compared to someone else who might have been better than me. but after losing my virginity, getting some experience and fucking some virgins myself along the way, I can safely say that the idea stopped bugging me.
actually, i found myself even thinking the opposite. having sex with a virgin isn't worth it unless you somehow value chastity and/or the thought of her having fucked someone else lives rent free in your head and drives you crazy.
to give some context, sex is like a sport to me. it's fun making women tremble with pleasure for as long as their stamina allows.
the thing with virgins is that my idea of fun and my dick being thicker than average don't really mix well together. even after extensive foreplay + lube + going very slowly, it usually takes multiple times until it's enjoyable to the girl - and in turn - to me.
the chance of that happening is way lower with a non-virgin, though it still happens occasionally (regardless of age range or nationality/body count of the girl.)
that being said, virgins are undesirable for me. plus, if the girl's first experience is a competitive guy like myself, chances are that the next guy is held to the same standards, kind of creating the situation i was scared of when i was a virgin way back when. it's a complicated feeling.
virgins should sleep with virgins and have a mutually bad first experience.