Thread 514848760

I’m 21 and after living through my parent’s marriage and divorce and dealing with my mother’s BPD mental illness I am considering swearing off woman for life. Am I making the right call here? They are just all such shit. Are woman even capable of loving a man?

>>514848760 (OP)
>groids
>paying child support
KEK A DOODLE DOO

>>514848760 (OP)
You’re 21, focus on other shit

>>514848760 (OP)
>Are woman even capable of loving a man?
Maybe their sons. Maybe: Otherwise, it is either infatuation or fear.

>>514848760 (OP)
>Are woman even capable of loving a man?
No. Maybe if you marry a virgin, but from 16 to 36, they slut out and become sociopaths, unable to form human bonds.

>>514848817
My grandpa owned his own home and was married and had children when he was 21. Not even joking. That's actual reality.

>>514848760 (OP)
One thing for sure is do not marry. Western women are whores and WILL fuck you over. Just do what they do and "have fun" going to strip clubs etc.

I swore off everything, I should die. Not sure what the fuck Im doing day to day tbqh

>>514848941
Yeah my point is that women shouldn’t be a pain at any age, but at 21 the sky is the limit so make the most of that time

>>514848760 (OP)
If you’re really worried, consider that personality disorders present in both genders. Teach yourself about the personality disorders, learn to identify them, learn about partner selection criteria and apply what you know to both yourself and others. Having a bpd caretaker predisposes you to attracting bpd partners. You gotta get some life experience under your belt to identify a narcissistic, corporate psychopath, high functioning autist versus a bpd meltdown etc. people can mask up for about six months then the true personality comes out. So you gotta stay good friends with someone for half a year before they drop the mask and you see what they really are. Focus on your career and investing while you educate yourself then when you’re a bit older you’ll have developed the experience to identify personality types and make a more informed decision. Just remember that Hoes Mad.

>>514849078
You can know someone for years, but as soon as a relationship starts, things change fast.

>>514848992
>Believe all women
5 years ago
>oy vey all women are whores don't beleive a word they say
Now

We get it moshe, you want to cover up the pedophile and blackmail ring.
>oy vey do not listen to these victims
I probably won't but millions of your golem will, not my problem your greedy heart decided to profit from the worst of things.

Trump is acting like a fucking idiot but GL telling him.

>>514849140
Unfortunately, this is very true. I have answers on how to identify this happening. But it definitely happens.

>>514849412
I have no answers*

Hoes Mad still is the rule of thumb lol

>>514848760 (OP)
>your own mother
>BPD
I know it sounds hard, but your only option is to abandon your mother until she stops having this stupid-ass pseudo sickness of being an awful impulsive person who thinks cutting themselves excuses them from being so shit and retarded.

>>514848760 (OP)
I believe you can find love anon. I hope for the best for you, and others too.

>>514848760 (OP)
The proper approach is to realize this, develop yourself and pretty much ignore women until one really knocks you off your game.

>>514848760 (OP)
I'm in a similar boat. But I think you're over-correcting. You're a one-in-a-million type of man who needs a one-in-a-million type of woman. You're discouraged because the other 999,999 are terrible or at least unfit.

You need to stop letting your body be impressed by pretty women and start looking at them with a clinical mind. You don't want to turn into a hermit or a fuccboi when a truly good woman rolls around. You want to be ready and willing.

If you just avoid women, or carelessly bang sluts, then you won't be in the right mindset or spirit when the good woman comes.

And if she doesn't come, then, and only then, is it more noble to die alone.

>>514849796
Well said.

>>514848760 (OP)
not all women have BPD gang

>>514848992
You are an incel. Women are necessary for the continuation for the human race. Just cuz you can't understand them doesn't make them useless.

>>514848760 (OP)
Send her to France to be gangraped by some africans. Other than that find one that doesn't have six kids from different guys, obviously.

>>514850378
die in a fucking hole you simp

>>514848760 (OP)
>Are woman even capable of loving a man?
Only if they have fluffy tail.

>>514848760 (OP)
I dated an undiagnosed NPD devil for 5 years.
Run; cut your mother off, personality orders are incurable and worsen over time.

>>514850485
>You are an incel. Women are necessary for the continuation for the human race. Just cuz you can't understand them doesn't make them useless.
You're a faggot nigger.
Women are PURELY for fun.
They're subhumans without exception.

>>514850378
>carelessly bang sluts, then you won't be in the right mindset or spirit when the good woman comes.
There's no right woman you fucking nigger.

OP don't listen to this nigger.

>>514848760 (OP)
There are women worth marrying but they tend to be homely as shit. Men get caught up thinking with their dick, end up with some peacocking whore siren who sees men as toys/tools to use and abuse.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EqFVWzOfN8

>>514851330
You're wrong, the ugliest women are the worst in terms of mental illnesses.
The most attractive the worst in terms of being repugnantly ruined by sex.

There's no escape. Pick your poison.

>>514850485
>Fefails are human
Lmfao, retard!

>>514851363
Ugly women and pretty women are equally insane, you just don't see the imbalance because you're blinded by the halo effect.

>>514851552
so why are you making retarded claims like there are women worth marrying.

>>514851552
>Ugly women and pretty women are equally insane
Not quite, ugly women have insecurity issues.
Pretty women have overconfidence issues.

There's no in between, all mids think they're pretty but aren't sure they are so it's the worst of both worlds.

>>514848848
>Maybe their sons. Maybe
If women really loved their sons they would warn them about the true nature of women. But they don't because they don't want to reveal what they are and risk losing the perpetual attention their sons provide for them.

>>514848760 (OP)
not every women is like your mother.
a lot of women have the same experience like you

>>514848992
>do not marry
>posts degenerate whores and a heathen imbecile scum
Yeah kike 100% or worse kike mindspermed shabbous goy

>>514851777
>If women really loved their sons they would warn them about the true nature of
My mum did.
She also loved her father.

She told me, "You're a man, your left foot is worth more than any woman ever born".

>>514848848
I assure you they don't even love their sons

>>514851905
Incredibly based mom. I hope you know how lucky you are to have her.

>>514848760 (OP)
Why do you kike shills keep posting this useless d&c drivel? Don't you have a child to rape and kill?

>Fear, uncertainty, and doubt (often shortened to FUD) is a disinformation strategy used in sales, marketing, public relations, politics, cults, and propaganda. FUD is generally a strategy to influence perception by disseminating negative and dubious or false information and a manifestation of the appeal to fear.
These threads and articles are demoralizing propaganda. Don’t believe the kike lie.

If you don’t have friends or family, go join a church. The people in the church believe that IT’S THEIR JOB AS CHRISTIANS TO MAKE YOU PART OF THE COMMUNITY. They will go out of their way to fit you in. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have the social skills. Just be honest and they WILL take you in and teach you. At least a good church will, so if you don’t find it at one, then keep trying another. It’s God’s plan that you have a good mate and family.

>>514850485
>Criticize females in any way
>Incel!!1!
Shut your mouth faggit

>>514848817

This.

>>514851890
true

>>514851979
>Incredibly based mom. I hope you know how lucky you are to have her.
I know, and I realised over the course of being with so many women, that no woman will EVER love you the way your mother will love you.

>>514851999
>d&
Back to pleddit faggot nigger.
>JOB AS CHRISTIANS
This scam isn't going to work anymore you fucking faggot. If men are to be good Christians, so should women.
But women aren't good Christians. They don't obey their men. They think they're hot shit no matter what and only cry when you throw them to the gutter where they belong.
Kill yourself.
>Noooooo don't devalue women
Fuck you, have another bit of soft core.

i'm a hypocrite for saying no, never say never but...damn I went through the same thing with my mother and two older sisters. 3-4 hour of the fiercestangry screaming bickering and vituperation every fucking day esp at mealtime concluded with fits of silly giggling over a cup of tea. A cup of hot coffee in the face from the eldest sister at the breakfast table for no reason whatsoever. Just nasty and mean.
I don't go looking for it but once in a blue moon it comes looking for me. Go enroll at the Brigham Young Univ in Honolulu; Mormon girls are your last chance for a decent female companion in the English speaking world; and the can be very friendly and very good looking.
They're living fossils from a time long past...the 50's...The red blooded all American girls next door.

>>514848760 (OP)
Pussy vs Peace. It is an age old question that only you can make.

>>514848817
Don't listen to faggots like this one. The best time to get a woman is when you are young. The good ones don't stay single long (or are ever single).

>>514848817
Jesus i would kill to be 21 again. Id join a trade immediately and then start my own buisness after 6 years

>>514852282
So you choose pussy then. I am telling him to choose peace

>>514852282
>The best time to get a woman is when you are young. The good ones don't stay single long (or are ever single).
Good advice but its not as easy as you think. When you're young, if you're not exceptionally blessed with height, looks, status, you're not going to get a quality woman.

>>514848760 (OP)
Women are not worth the headache unless she's a virgin. Good luck finding one, you have a better chance finding a unicorn.

>>514848760 (OP)
Trash genes should not spread their bad genes, good decision.

>>514848760 (OP)
>. Are woman even capable of loving a man?
Yes. You just had too many bad experiences.
Women who had many bad experiences also question "Are men even capable of love?".
Maybe go "no contact" with mom and change every contact number you have and block her. Be more selective with women you date. Just because she looks pretty on the outside doesn't make her pretty on the inside. Find a woman with a good heart.

>>514848760 (OP)
You don't need a woman's love to make her birth your children. She only needs to obey you. That is the traditional way of handling women as livestock not as lovers.

>>514851905
I think this is the kind of trauma experienced from fake friends she's had. I know the type she's talking about. Not all women are like this, but if you want to know; she's talking about snakes, gossipers, sociopaths. She's never had any real female friends.

>>514853345
This is how to get divorced.

>>514852880
I'm so salty they were extinct before I was born. I'd marry the shit out of a unicorn.

>>514848760 (OP)
My mother swub my children on birth had them tested months later when she br9ke up my mother cane forward with DNA testing revealing it wasn't mine

>>514848760 (OP)
stop looking at women at people, start looking at women as mindless objects

>>514848760 (OP)
Always check the medicine cabinet.

>>514848760 (OP)
you are getting demoralized by all the shit people on the internet, people are not like this irl, you will find someone nice, do not give up

>>514853807
were not talking about ppl, this thread is about womyn

>>514848813
fake news

>>514848760 (OP)
women hate men you idiot, if this isnt obvious to you then youre lost.

>>514852426
I'm 21. Can I have some advice anon? What would you do exactly?

>>514852880
>>514853521
Unicorns do love being ridden by virgins.

>>514853753
Fucking THIS.

I cannot tell you how many times I have just to find out their on anti psychotics or mood stabilizers.

Google them too.

>>514852233
Same.

We need to normalize talking about how fucked up and abusive some people are.

t. Was in a burn cast for a week because """I didn't want sunscreen"""

>>514852233
Worst part about it.

>Sees boomer in church get scalding hot water dumped on her.
>Later that summer does a heckin child neglect I have to go to the hospital every day and get my bandage changed.
>Forced me to be in an acting course during that time.
>How have to do this in burn bandage.
>Miserable cunt of a woman walks up to me.
>Slaps me on the back as hard as she can.
>Zero consequences because of who her parents are.
>Get told I deserved it.

>>514848760 (OP)
>I am considering swearing off woman for life. Am I making the right call here?
You don't need to swear off them for life.
Just treat them like a pet, and if it tries to bite the hand that feeds then you put it in a sack and throw it off a bridge.

>>514848760 (OP)
The woes of dating a hot chick.
If you don't put a bun in the oven, someone else will.

>>514848760 (OP)
They collect men like men collect toys from their childhood or something. They can love a man, sure, the problem is, one is just never enough. Sometimes you will be kicked to the curb because you are the least interesting thing she has going on. Female empowerment. They know they can shit ALL over you, and you can't do a fucking thing but sit there and take it. The secret really is developing yourself, ideally financially, and then you can be the choosy one.

>>514858526
Men need to stop loving women. It’s really the bane of our existence.

>GETS MARRIED BEFORE 25YO

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>>514858844
oh shut the fuck up lowIQ virgin

In my 38 years I couldn't name you a single successful happy marriage once you scratch just a tiny bit above the surface.
That alone makes me not bothered, if all these great men can't manage it, then I sure as fuck won't.

>>514848760 (OP)
Nice 1pbtid post, faggot. All fields

>>514852880
Personally I'm more of a fox/dog/wolf/feline person myself.

>>514858944
>foid attack vectors

Play the same games as women, with no attachment and looking at the other sex as sub-human. Cum and dump, try to take the kids if you can, cheat all you want. The zeitgeist must change.

>>514848760 (OP)
Avoid the fuck out of BPD. It almost destroyed my life a few months ago. I would be ruined.

Holy shit that was a close one.

dude I'm going to be honest here, been married have 1 child, but knowing what women are like these days, I can understand why you feel this way, seeing any woman who is going through some mental illness stuff make you really want to step away, but dude you are young, you can find decent women out there, not all are crazy (mind you 95% prob are lol), but they got so many fishes in the sea and you will be surprised when you find a decent one, just when you do, both agree not to screw it up and talk and laugh together no lie, just be cool and stuff. have at least 1 kid, just to get the feel of it, and when it makes you happy (trust me it will) try to have some more, raise them right, you can do it, my wife passed before we could have move, I have cool now, but yeah, you gotta experience life to the fullest my man, you will be ok.

>>514851777
my mom tried to blackpill me. she was right to some extent but too pessimistic

>>514848760 (OP)
You're american, and you are very weird. The only thing you have to do is DON'T GET FUCKING MARRIED. That's it. And check you're not in a state with common law "marriage". Then just use protection and never trust a women who says she's on the pill. With this you are safe and only have to worry about being falsely accused of rape.

>>514848941
The world your grandparents grew up in and the world today are not the same.

Don’t waste time trying to follow in their footsteps pave your own path and adapt to the current world.

>>514849140
Partially because quite a few women have it in their head 'we're in a relationship now, which means we must do x,y,z, and have this certain dynamic and presentation to others!', rather than just enjoying it as a new level, or continuation, of being friends as you were but with more commitment. They all don't do this, but when they have, it has genuinely bummed me out to get along with someone so well, and watch them 180 when a relationship starts (even if it wasn't in a crazy or completely negative way, but just seeing things change so drastically and so fast, it doesn't give you a good feeling).

>>514859782
you're never out of the woods with a BPD ex

>>514848760 (OP)
Women love me but I'm very handsome and charming.

>>514848760 (OP)
You're too fucking young to swear off anything in life yet.

>>514848760 (OP)
I loved my boyfriend so so much, wanted to marry him, we was together since I was 14, we had 3 children and lots of good sex but porn corrupted his brain and he kept cheating because he wanted to do disgusting things like stick wine bottles up people and fuck them with cucumbers and he didn’t want to do that to the mother of his children

>Depends if you can be a good man yourself

>>514860607
Mine too, croatanon, but mine didn't do it until I asked questions as a child after noticing how much women liberally use their sex appeal to get what they want. I don't know if I was just around a bunch of degens at the time or what, but I noticed that shit scarily early, looking back.

>>514848760 (OP)
Then you wonder why population is dropping this fast. No rules and laws for woman but man has to pay everything.

yea definitely cut your dick off and chase women away with it in your hand as a club or a sap if you arent big.
throw it at them and yell "BEHOLD! I AM AMONG YOU"

>I just wanted to drop into this /pol/ thread to say that ALL of you are incel SHITLORDS and that women at large NEVER do ANYTHING wrong!!!
Why are feminists like this? Why show up to /pol/ to defend feminism?
It makes no sense.