Thread 514858103

What is the value of modern marriage?

>>514858103 (OP)
to make you look not gay so you can get a promotion at work.

>>514858103 (OP)
outside of kids none

>>514858103 (OP)
Believe pessimists if you want. Truth is a family is what makes life worth living. There are good women out there. Many who can be commited partners. You can get fucked though. Are you gonna roll the dice and take a chance on love? Or are you gonna be alone forever? It's your choice.

>>514858103 (OP)
Fluffy tail, soft fur, long ears.

>>514858103 (OP)
having a partner is this cold hard loanly world is more valuable than anything I have ever bought. I love my wife

>>514858103 (OP)
Apparently, it is $3,600 per month for child support, and I gave her a house to fuck strangers while my kids sleep.

>>514858103 (OP)
having white kids

>>514859350
How many gallons of cum were pumped into that whore before she settled for (You)?
>She fucking hates you because you are a needy faggot.

>>514859365
Schrödinger’s feminism
women: “we’re strong and independent queens”
also women: “give me alimony, half your shit, and child support”

>>514858103 (OP)
Nothing to me, which is why I wouldn't consider it.

I rolled the dice and lost. The girl I've been with for 5 years doesn't want to settle down with me anymore. It's all been for nothing. >>514859001

>>514859411
haha youre divorced!

>>514859001
>>514859350
how do I find a woman who is at least mildly attractive and hasn't been ruined by casual relationships?
I'm 31 but I dont mind big age gaps

>>514858103 (OP)
To make you look not gay so nobody will suspect anything when you spend the night out with your boyfriend.

>>514859001
>There are good women out there
This is what women want you to believe so they may take advantage of you.
There are no good WOMEN.
There may be a few good GIRLS.
But if you live in a country where the age of consent is 18 you won't have any chance of getting those girls before they are already ruined. By the time they finish high school they are already turbo-whores and it's GG.

>>514858418
You do realise that you can have children without being married, right?
As in, it's biologically possible to impregnate a woman without a piece of paper saying the two of you are married.

>>514859001
That implies I even get that choice. Women where I'm from are completely unapproachable and all the good ones that I meet in the few social environments I find myself in are always taken already. I've been single my entire adult life. Late 20's now and I pretty much don't have any hope left that I'll meet someone

To cuntoids empowered by Government Tyranny and Judicial Theft Rings... About Cuntoid Profit at $65,991 on average (according to PERPLEXITY AI) but most times men lose $2.5 million or far more.

=== If you ask what divorced men PAY ===
=== Versus what WOMEN GAIN (parasite cuntoids) ===
=== The AI LIES WILL WILDLY VARY ===
THE AI CLAIMS WOMEN GAIN ONLY $66K
THE MEN LOSE MILLIONS.

A drop in wealth post-divorce can be substantial; older studies cite an average 77% decline in wealth overall, inclusive of ongoing dual household costs.

The mean value of divorce-related independently owned defined contribution retirement accounts is about $58,951 for divorced men, down from married men’s average of $84,874.

Legal fees can be a sizable expense, with average divorce lawyer fees around $270 per hour and overall representation costs averaging about $11,300, which reduce net assets.
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In summary, a typical divorced man in the USA may pay upwards of $70,000 to $120,000+ over time in direct divorce-related financial obligations including legal fees, alimony, and child support, along with asset losses and decreased standard of living.

Men who pay child support often have earnings garnished, further reducing their cash flow.

For some men, reported losses include hundreds of thousands in alimony, home equity, child support, and legal fees combined, though this varies widely by case.

About 10% of divorces result in alimony orders, and men are the primary payers in the majority of cases.

The average alimony amount men pay in U.S. divorces varies widely by state, marriage length, income difference, and other factors. A recent study found the median alimony payment overall is approximately $465 per month, but this can range from $0 up to $1,381 depending on the state.

Total estimated child support cost over 15 years (midpoint): 441×12×15=$79,380

>>514860626
You do realise that you can be married without a piece of paper, right?
As in, it's sociobiologically possible to marry a woman without a piece of paper saying the two of you are married.

>>514860626
he's talking about the tax deductions you get once you have children while being in a marriage.

>>514861071
>sociobiologically
retard moment.
also his criticism would also just apply to that, there was no point in you actually posting this, none what so ever.

>>514858103 (OP)
gentlemen, the only reason to get married is for your career.
if you ever start reaching in to the top tiers, you'll need to be married to show youre able to balance work and a wife.
everyone knows and understands the ultimate challenge a man faces is handling a woman in his life. especially one with a wife title.
outside of personal advancement, there is no reason what so ever to ever get married. do not do it.
i'm going through a divorce right now to a bitch i married for a year. she is trying to take half my income, my retirement, my apartment. she has demanded my car, and everything i own.
she's getting none of that because i have a lawyer.
also guys. never, ever go to court without a lawyer. even if its for a traffic offense. good luck boys. never get married. it isn't worth it.

>>514859001
>Truth is a family is what makes life worth living
But only if you are braindead animal

>>514861204
>if you ever start reaching in to the top tiers, you'll need to be married to show youre able to balance work and a wife.
lol retard moment
>i'm going through a divorce right now to a bitch i married for a year. she is trying to take half my income, my retirement, my apartment. she has demanded my car, and everything i own.
and you literally deserve it, I hope she takes everything from you and you're left with nothing and out on the street and hopefully by then you generate the will to kill yourself for being such a retard and marrying.

>>514861290
we all make mistakes, roofucker. all of us. live and learn.

>>514859001
>Truth is a family is what makes life worth living
>There are good women out there
>committed "partner"
What a load of shit.

>>514860381
>But if you live in a country where the age of consent is 18 you won't have any chance of getting those girls before they are already ruined. By the time they finish high school they are already turbo-whores and it's GG.
CORRECT, by the time they turn 18 it's already too late.

>>514861328
>>Truth is a family is what makes life worth living
he's right about this part, people without families are absolutely miserable and always will be.

>>514859411
We started dating in 2010, she was 19 and I was 21. She said I was her 3rd boyfriend and her 1st sexual partner. I could tell that was probably true from the first time as she seemed very eager but uneducated in the sex department.
From the moment we met I knew she was the one. It's true when people say that. I could just feel that she was going to be a good girlfriend. And she was. We dated for 7 years before I asked her to marry me. My parents had a nasty divorce and I wanted to be sure we had life experiences together before commitment
She has never failed me. Never made me question her love and loyalty. I have don't toxic shit like look through her phone or emails in times of weakness. and there has never been anything I thought even was suspicious. She dosnt really have girlfriends, or guy friends. We work at the same place and we have work associates we are friendly with but never go out with. She is just a dedicated mother and partner and the best woman I have ever known. I prayed to God for her for years. then I prayed to God that I was the right one for her. After 7 years I knew that there was no question that she loved me and wanted to stay with me forever too.
I know it sounds so gay but we have been together for 15 years now, and I don't want anyone else. There have been a few girls who outwardly let me know they wanted me through the years and I never indulged. Always told them thanks anyways but I'm happily married. You should see the face of a whore scorned like that.
Now we have kids and honestly, sometimes I leave the room and weep in the bathroom because my life has become so wholesome and my family is so fucking beautiful and perfect and I am so grateful and happy It makes me cry. That's what true love is and I hope all of you guys get to feel it and experience it and go through the rest of your life knowing that you have someone to lean on and live with and truly be happy. love you guys.

>>514858103 (OP)
>What is the value of modern marriage?
To destroy potentially self-realized men and turn them into slaves to the state via enforced alimony/child support/psychological torture of endless divorce and family court system.

If you marry a woman you marry the state, because she is already married to the state since birth.

>>514861323
But you're bottom of the barrel, you're live your life on the basis of pure reactionary, you had your whole childhood and teenage years to use your anecdotal experience in combination with pattern recognition to identify backstabbers, whores and lowlifes.
You failed badly and you also failed in many other respects of life and you dug your own grave by walking through life with pink rose hollywood glasses.

Legal and Court Fees: Average total attorney fees and legal costs for divorce are around $11,300, with filing fees and other court costs adding several hundred more.

Asset Losses: Men typically lose a substantial portion of marital assets due to equitable division—commonly experiencing a decline of 10% to 40% in standard of living and large reductions in home equity, retirement funds, and savings.

Alimony Payments: Median alimony men pay is approximately $465 per month, lasting often 3 or more years, totaling potentially $16,000+ depending on duration.

Child Support Payments: Median child support paid by divorced fathers is about $441 per month, typically continuing until the child reaches adulthood (about 12-18 years), which amounts to a baseline cost of roughly $63,000 to $95,000 over that period.

Total Financial Impact Over Time: Over years, the combined financial obligations of alimony, child support, and ongoing living expenses post-divorce create a significant financial strain, often exceeding six figures in total costs depending on the case specifics and duration.

In summary, a typical divorced man in the USA may pay upwards of $70,000 to $120,000+ over time in direct divorce-related financial obligations including legal fees, alimony, and child support, along with asset losses and decreased standard of living. This baseline cost reflects the ongoing financial commitment required for supporting children and former spouses post-divorce, as well as the financial decline many men endure from asset division and legal processes.

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Is there any financial gain for a married man versus an unmarried man?

Higher Earnings: Married men tend to earn between 10% and 24% more than comparable unmarried men.

Married men often accumulate 3 times the assets of unmarried men of similar age— for example, about $167,000 vs. $49,000.

The only payout for men is POSSIBLY his biological children and WHOREDEATH life insurance payouts if she dies before divorce.

>>514858103 (OP)
I enjoy listening to my girlfriend talk about all the new clothes she wants to buy. It's so interesting.

>>514858103 (OP)
Booba

>>514858103 (OP)
Lol lmao even

>>514858103 (OP)
Family is literally a basic biological need of a human being. Asking about value of family is like asking about value of eating food or sleeping. Pointless question.

>>514860381
True, women start to wall at 25yo and are impossible to form any lasting bonds with, she's become stuck in her old ways and will only get worse every year until she divorces you out of boredom.

There are only 2 types of women.

1 Happy Woman

2 Unhappy Woman


One will ruin your life.

>>514858103 (OP)
To raise good kids among a loving healthy family.
Just find a good wife and be good to her and the kids then your doing the right thing.

I WRITE LIKE A RETARD

1. I feel this is reddit
2. I use reddit formatting or something

I am a goof
>That's you

>>514858103 (OP)
Ahahahahahha, you will never have this.
Ahahahahahhah

>value of modern marriage
having the half of everything you own taken away from you and still being obliged to pay for someone else's lifestyle under a threat of life injail

>>514858103 (OP)
To women, or to men?

>>514860145
I'm not sure man. I'm sorry I don't have advice for you. I found mine like this.
>>My friend and I smoking weed in our dorm room. I stand up to blow my hit through the fan in the window and I see a car outing into the lot. We're on the second floor so I am looking down.
I see a healthy thick blonde get out of the car. she has long blonde strait hair that's down. She has a Texas Rangers jersey on. She has large breast's. I tell Steve to come check it out. When he looks I say confidently, "Steve, that's gun a be my girlfriend"
He laughed and said "alright buddy hope so" One day I get off work and come home and she is in my dorm room. She actually ended up working sith Steve and he invited her over without letting me know. I asked her to leave so I could shower and get ready, but to please come back in 30 mins or so. She did. we watched movies had a few drinks and talked all night till like 5am.
The rest of the week we hung out everyday and just talked. forever. about everything. And within 2 weeks I had asked her if she wanted to date me.
The first 2 time she stayed over in my room, not the common area, I didn't sex with her, just kissed and cuddled and slept. I think that was what really did it. I didn't attack the first night like I wanted to.
The best thing that has gotten me pussy 12x before I met her was to play the 20 questions or interview game with women. they love talking about themselves and if you ask enough questions and act interested in what they're saying, you'll get the puss

>>514861204
you're just a fucktard who married a bitchcto fast with no actual foundational relationship

>>514858103 (OP)
>What is the value of modern marriage?
to a woman -
a free house and a decade of half his income.

Now what ways in the current JEWDEMON-ICAL SYSTEM (with no significant changes) can we VASTLY improve the health and wealth of a married man?

Simple.
KILL ALL WOMEN WHEN THEY REACH AGE 28.
(The LOGANS RUN clonefarm system)

FERTILITY — Women lose significant fertility and egg quality past age 28. With no breeding opportunities of a 29 year old woman, you get youthful pretty girls IN ABUNDANCE with high sex drives. All the old hags? Dead forever.

OLD WHORE COSTS — If all women are dead at age 28, then she doesn't have any financial incentives for huge divorce payouts because she'll be dead. Likewise, you don't have old hags sabotaging the voting system for 42+ years trying to gain STATE EXTORTION WEALTH TRANSFER payments. Plus a wife no longer has her "I've got a headache" decades of lazy infertility to exploit.

OLD WOMEN HEATH ISSUES — Old hags are very expensive and contribute absolutely zero to society financially. Breast cancer, makeup to fool younger men, a endless stream of dresses jewelry shoes (ALL WORN ONCE THEN THROWN AWAY) to feed and clothe infertile bitter feminist hags. Literally trillions down a sinkhole of burning female ego wastes for 42+ years. Dead at 28? None of those costs exists at all anymore as individuals or for society.

Think about it.
It can happen.
Very easily if we all focus on achieving this goal.

>>514859001
>died before experiencing love
>died before having family
>died before anything happened
>died before his time
RIP Chuddie

Worthless. Women are trash. God's biggest mistake was creating women. Adam didn't need a woman, God was enough. Women have been nothing but evil nagging satanic cunts since the beginning of time. Their best usage is as fuckmeat and for everything else a man can do better.

Now, if we go on the
FOUNDATIONAL IMPROVEMENT
Of society by WOMAN AGE 28 = DEAD...

Let's rethink marriage under that society.
If we keep sex ages at 16 to 28, that's 12 breeding years. If you were traditionally married, had children, then when the whore is terminated at 28, even if she was awarded custody at age 16, she only gets 12 years of child support and the father gets the kids back for 6 years.

So CHILD CUSTODY... obviously there's little point in EXCLUSIONARY SOLE CUSTODY. In fact, unless she's remarried, her assets should legally revert to the first husband any way.

There you now understand why "CHRISTIAN" Marriage is idiotic and obsolete with DEAD AT 28 FEMALES.

Let's subdivide marriage into the component values:

EXCLUSIVITY CONTRACT ("One-it-is", for purposes of disease limitation and DNA accuracy of fatherhood). Both contracts have been broken by GOVERNMENT BETRAYAL USELESSNESS by voiding the punishment for Adultery and the punishment for Paternity Fraud.

SEX CONTRACT (implied promise of having regular sex for fun and procreation, was voided if the hag wife was playing "hard to want" by MARRIAGE ANNULMENT for frigidity and the criminalization of "Marriage Rape")

BREEDING CONTRACT (you get offspring which should match both your DNA profiles).

DOMESTIC SERVITUDE CONTRACT (exchanging the two above contracts for FREE FOOD, FREE HOUSING, AN ALLOWANCE INCOME, and PHYSICAL PROTECTION AGAINST HARM by her male spouse... All that gain at the cost of simple household chores like good cooking, friendliness, childcare, attractiveness, cleanliness, and social politeness). Subtract the CHORE WORTH, and you get a shitty roommate that eats your food and doesn't clean up after themselves).

===

We will next cover them all in a DEAD WHORE BY 28 society.

>>514865816
Kill yourself JustPassingThrough.
KILL YOUR FUCKING SELF.
https://derpibooru.org/2174468

>>514860626
Lol only REAL slags will agree to this, Nigel.

>>514858103 (OP)
>What is the value of modern marriage?
about tree fiddy at the pawnshop

>>514858103 (OP)
For men? Exactly zero. Nada, nothing. None.

>>514859001
Still shouldn’t get married.

>>514858103 (OP)
What's the value of anything? All I have is family, I'm miserable and don't have any friends. Getting married and having children is probably my last chance at happiness

>>514859377
having kids is pointless

>>514859001
>tfw rolled the dice and won
>happily married with 2 kids and maybe a third on the way

Life's good friends. It was worth it.

Not all of it is a dice roll. You too have to tend the fires of the relationship

>>514859365
take that sex haver, who is the "loser" now?

>>514866254
Where do I find these exotic faces?

>>514867313
Kill yourself JustPassingThrough.
KILL YOUR FUCKING SELF.
https://www.deviantart.com/noikincade67/art/Bubble-Pipe-MLP-Style-984463780

>>514858103 (OP)
Strong familial support system, lifelong bonds, continuity of beliefs and customs, transfer of knowledge, and really, the most important of all: fulfilling life's most important and rewarding goal, being a parent. I believe that is the most special gift and job that the good Lord has bestowed upon us. And so there is no ambiguity, by good Lord, I mean the most high Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Blessed be his Holy name!

>>514861521
married men accumulate more assets because these nagging cunts are programmed to want more and more shit. houses, cars, renovations, house and contents, a shed of tools because shes too fucking useless to do anything herself, more shit because she wants another kid, it never ends.

>>514867359
Israel

>>514861646
thanks you fucking brainlet

>>514858103 (OP)
I like my wife

>>514861794
that sounds like an episode of friends you fucking gay cunt

>>514862114
women are crazy horny and their sex drive peaks at 40 something. lots of women getting pregnant in their early 40s too. youre a fucking dumb cunt.

>>514858325
>>514858418
fp and sp bp

>>514859001
>Are you gonna roll the dice
if a guy offered you a business partnership structured like modern marriage
you'd punch him for insulting your intelligence
and trying to pull one over you

I forget but I think married couples get tax breaks or some shit. I bet there's all kindsa legal stuff married folk can do, so I'm pretty sympathetic to folk getting married for NOT love. HOWEVER, blah blah blah, what about the faggots who cant get married, etc.

>>514858103 (OP)
Feminine manlet kek

>>514859001
im gona ride my motorcycle across the world forever, yes

>>514867938
calm

>>514859001
No, in christian marriage it doesn't matter if the woman is good, sooner or later divorce or "taking your kids" will be used as a threat point. That's the way it's set up.


Curiously, muslims are not affected by divorce to even close to the same degree as the womans entire family will disown and slut shame her. Jews made destroying the christian family a century long crusade, they were fairly successful.

>>514871336
NO, FUCK YOU AND DIE

>>514871336
AND EAT SHIT

And before you fags start implying,
it's a gif, and if you load it and wait long enough, pic related appears.
Or if you open it in Photoshop, GIMP, Preview, EZGif, etc. it can show both frames immediately

https://ezgif.com/split/ezgif-5c9576d4b2870.gif

>>514858103 (OP)
Having a partner on the same page as you that enjoys sex as much as you with just you so you can be happy physically and emotionally until the day you die. Bonus points for shared expenses like housing which makes living cheaper.

>>514858325
Also this. I've started disregarding people that are my age and unmarried for job interviews. If you can't even manage a committed relationship, what hope do you have for a job that's honestly much easier?

>>514861461
Mega based post that probably sent that blackpilled retard to buy rope. Happy for you anon.

>>514858103 (OP)
that

>>514871900
You can't ask people if they're married in interviews you stupid faggot. I hope you get sued and then have to kys.