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You haven't dealt with many jews. They don't need kid gloves, they want kid gloves.
The jew responds to his own ruin. Only when his plans fail and he has to face himself will he reconsider his own impunity. That's why Jesus told the story of the prodical son. The jews have had their inheritance and squandered it. They need to wind up living out the consequences of their sin until they wind up tending the metaphoricql pigs, and THEN, they will desire to repent and reconcile with God.
If you give them help, and tell them thatnit's everyone else's fault, and assure them that they aren't so bad, then what you're doing is undermining the punishment of God which is visited on rebellious unrepentent sinners. God punishes the jews and non-jews with troubles to grind away their pride, and bring them low so that they will admit their own sin, and ask forgiveness.
If the prodical son came to you, covered in pig filth, and told you his story, would you tell him it wasn't so bad, and that his boss was mean for not letting him have a better position, and that he didn't really smell bad? Would you side with him and say that his brother was not really obedient, and that really, he the pig filth covered brother was the worthy one?
If you did make excuses for him and pretend he was just fine, do you think that would encourage him to repent, or strengthen his pride?
Because that's what using 'kid gloves' does.