>>518534129 (OP)
My parents spent their youth trying to get out of Soviet Union, finally managing to flee in 1990 (it was kinda easy and safe then), and they take it as personal betrayal of the worst order that I returned right back to Moscow 20 years after they got me out. I do maintain polite level of communication with them, showing them the grand kids and visiting for holidays every couple years, but for all intensive purposes, they are already dead to me, especially after their "hate speech" following the SMO. I mean I know that phrase gets thrown around a lot, but I don't know how else to call the level of venom dripping from their every word when they speak about the country of me, my wife and their grandkids. It's like they hate nothing in the whole world more than the country of their birth.
Nothing will change for me when they die except I have to go to the EU to attend the funeral and deal with the inheritance (obviously I won't get anything, it all goes to my liberal sisters who liver with them). They are already dead in my soul.