Thread 518578162

Good evening anons, I have no friends only acquaintances, and I believe that you are the only with the that I can talk to from this.
Well, let me explain my situation: we are a stable couple, everything is fine on a day to day basis, I am 25 she is 28, we have been together for 7 years and in a short time we will be 8, last year we bought a house, with a view to getting married next year, we had even talked about having children after the wedding, but from one day to the next I notice her strange, and the next day she tells me that she has been feeling tied up for a long time and that she wants to open the relationship in case something comes up someday, she insists a lot that she is not looking for anything with anyone, I also have to say that she told me that there was a new partner at work that they got along very well.
What should I do? I am devastated anons.

>open relationship
It is over with her. Any man who stays with such a woman is a pathetic pussy and a loser. idk what kind of cohabitation laws are in spain, but separate as much of your shit from her as you can and get her out of your life ASAP.

>>518578928
This. I naively stayed with my ex-fiancée when she suggested an open relationship but in retrospect I should absolutely not have, it was clear she just wanted to ride the cock carousel before we settled down. We immediately stopped sleeping together and I found comfort in a girl who was crazy about me, and who I'm still with 7 years later.

My ex has a mudshark baby and keeps trying to reach out through mutual friends, it's hilarious. But the chances of something similar happening to you is probably pretty slim unless you have a backup bitch lined up, so just bail now before it gets any more painful bro.

>>518578162 (OP)
you were retarded to even date an older woman, now you wasted your entire youth

>"i want an open relationship"
or
>"let's just stay friends"

Always, always, 100000% means she found somebody more attractive, is around somebody more attractive for long hours (usually at her job), is already talking to them, wants to fuck them and wants to not feel repercussions from fucking them.

>>518578162 (OP)
>stable couple
>I am 25 she is 28, we have been together for 7 years
>last year we bought a house
>getting married next year
>we had even talked about having children after the wedding
>she wants to open the relationship
Stable couples have no need for "open relationship" (infidelity). You two are not a stable couple. You do not want to marry and have kids with someone if your relationship isn't stable. You consent to what you tolerate. If she wants an "open relationship", that means she wants to pursue other men. That means, you are not enough for her. She doesn't value you nor respect you. She wants to use you as a placeholder while she pursues "better" options.
>What should I do?
Dump her, uncompromisingly.
Don't try to hold onto something that no longer exists.
Chasing her, will only validate her.
Go out on top. Dump her.

>>518578162 (OP)
You're 25 and own a house and you on here fucking whining like a bitch.

I'm fucking 40 and have $200 dollars to my name. I'll be killing myself soon. You have zero reason to cry or complain about anything. You have youth and money.

>>518578162 (OP)
Are you White?

>>518578162 (OP)
No le hagas caso a estos incels vírgenes. Yo tengo una relación abierta con mi mujer y no me molesta en absoluto. Tenemos un par de reglas (no puede follar mis amigos, no puede traerlos a la casa, tiene que dormir en casa, >>518578162 (OP)
y tiene que usar condón) pero además de eso todo funciona perfecto.

>>518578162 (OP)
tell her to fuck you with a strapon, right in the pussy

>>518578162 (OP)
Ok so you are considering marrying a woman who openly has sex with men that aren't her husband? And she is having sex with guys at work who aren't you or her husband? And now you are experiencing some feelings? Who is the problem in this equation? Do you think you'll ever just admit you're a faggot so you can begin the process of becoming a human being? Pagan people pagan problems.

>>518578162 (OP)
You're a 25 years old man, make sure who's the home owner before the break up.
>>518580994
Go eat a bullet.

>>518578162 (OP)
Ha, that's great, didn't really read, but there's other boards for this type of shit you mongoloid imbecile

>>518578162 (OP)
Shes shittesting you, at the risk of sounding like a redditor leave that bitch

>>518578162 (OP)
>she wants to open the relationship in case something comes up someday
>she insists a lot that she is not looking for anything with anyone
These two statements contradict each other.

>I am 25 she is 28
Know that she's past her prime and will end up dying a slow death by being eaten by her cats. Get out of there now.
Or you could kys.

>>518578162 (OP)
Sucks bro, but you need to kick her out, and remove her from your life (like don't look her up on social media etc). I get it's easier said then done.

Your other option is to tell her no and then if she behaves in a way you dont like kick her ass out.

>>518580994
Swiftly kys por favor.

>>518578162 (OP)
Kendrick Lamar should kiss every woman

>>518578162 (OP)
>she has been feeling tied up for a long time and that she wants to open the relationship in case something comes up someday
It’s over bro. I’ve been there. If you don’t allow an open relationship, she’s going to feel trapped (“tied up”) and cheat on you out of spite. If you do allow an open relationship, she’ll replace you with somebody she meets with more status/money. (“something comes up someday”). You can probably keep your relationship intact for another couple years if you make a lot of sacrifices, but no matter what you do it’s gonna end soon anyway. Like most of the others said, end it on your terms before she does it on hers.

>>518583912
Is as easy as staying here talking about anything

>>518578162 (OP)
>I am 25
I am fucking 35
Eat the pain faggot

>>518578162 (OP)
its over

>>518578162 (OP)

let me explain your fuck up to you anon yes it is your fault. we are cavemen. if you are with a woman for EIGHT FUCKING YEARS her biology tells her that YOU are STERILE. are you fucking retarded???? talked about having children in what the year five thousand holy fuck KILL YOURSELF

>>518584212
truke

>>518578162 (OP)
Hate to say it but you have to be strong and cut the bitch loose. Was married to an impossible to please bitch, got divorced at 29, found a 22 year old and have been happy ever since. Started out thinking my life was over then realized it had only just begun. Good luck anon.

>>518578162 (OP)
Women just want have sex with chads, most of them have no value, and female promiscuity is leading to the collapse of western society

>>518578162 (OP)
Side note. Make it a point to find a woman who is fun to hang out with. You can only spend so muck time fucking... bonus points if she can cook

>>518578162 (OP)
you didn’t get her pregnant in time nigger it’s over

women have monke brain when they’re with a guy that long if they didn’t get pregnant and assume subconsciously that you are infertile, it’s a secret ick that grows the longer they aren’t pregnant

TLDR: bros you get 5 years tops, I’ve been married for 16 years and have two teenage children and a very happy wife, shit or get off the pot

>>518578162 (OP)
Accept it or dump her. She’d already eyeing someone and probably even fucked someone behind your back. Now she just wants permission to do it openly. If you are talking about marriage and she’s already complaining about being tied up, you fucking run retard. But more importantly stop making up NTR fiction on the internet lad. It’s not good for your mental wellbeing

stupid cope

>>518578162 (OP)
Start putting everything in your moms name

She never wanted to get married to you, and she never will. You're darn right you have no friends.

Time to figure out how much more of a cuck bitch you want to be. Alternatively, be good to people if you want to find someone who is going to be good to you.

Sounds like you will have to stop lying to yourself about some things. Many such cases. Sad! Oh well, never too late to stop fucking up.

>>518578162 (OP)
>>open relationship
Get the fuck out of dodge friend. Harden your heart and make the right call.

P.S. Welcome to the gym.

>>518578162 (OP)
Hello fren. I have no friends and no acquaintances. I go to a job and say forced things there. I find it physically painful to sit with a lunch group and participate. I get along with almost nobody. When I'm not at job I'm exhausted and do nothing expect scroll /pol, play bad chess, think about what I *will do but never do it. I'm flagging, running down, getting old, tired, can't read anymore, too tiresome. Nobody I see eye to e eye with. I'll die a small, ignorant man.

>>518578162 (OP)
Kek /pol/ falls for stupid fake shit every single time.

PS. Dump her. Take no wishy washy bitches. Find a qt younger than you. You're 25. Get a qt 22yo. Whatever you do don't be dictated to by that cunt. Cut that bitch loose. Hold your head up. You've got the bulk of your life ahead of you.

>>518578162 (OP)
>open relationship
Start fucking trannies

>>518578162 (OP)
She's cheating on you. Get a private investigator to prove it and a lawyer to protect your assets. Definitely don't marry or have kids with this whore. Also...do something about the asshole vulturing on your woman. He shouldn't be permitted to get away with this. As a man, he knows better.

>>518578162 (OP)
1pbtid monologue slop

>>518578162 (OP)
If real: You're just the banking machine now bro. Sorry, but you're woman wants other cocks and their cum. She may want women though so if that is something you like then maybe you can fuck other pussy too but odds are slim...

But cheating is cheating so if you want pure monogamy then I'd preempt her and break it off and royally fuck her over. Time to sell the house and go your separate ways. Seriously, this relationship is over. She may not have fucked anyone YET, but she will...guaranteed! Also, go get STD tested just to be safe on your end and do not fuck her again or you have to go get tested once more and it's not fun for a guy, they shove a q-tip way down your pee hole, dry.

>>518578162 (OP)
>Visits 4chan to get anti-suicide support
Big mistake Juan