Thread 518966246

>most millenials and zoomers aren't even having weddings and are just going down to the courthouse

Do they have no sense of romance?

>>518966246 (OP)
>do you really love your wife if you aren’t willing to go into debt for a ceremony?
Shut up wedding jew

big weddings cost thousands of dollars

My parents got a Vegas wedding, Dad jokes that he spent more on gas than the wedding, they are still together 40 years later. Sister spent somewhere around $40k for her wedding and during her divorce 5 years later the debt from that was one of the items they needed to split.

>>518966246 (OP)
It's too expensive

>>518966246 (OP)
no hymen no diamond

>>518966246 (OP)
??? this has been a thing forever

>>518966246 (OP)
Romance is a luxury these days

No wedding? Impossibru. I am agnostic and anti Christiana but fucking priest had to do his duty. Looked good.

>>518966246 (OP)
>>518966246 (OP)
Because zoomers and most millennials in the west are anxiety pussies and can't stand up to what they owe.
Like these two virgins
>>518966397
>>518966521

>>518966246 (OP)
Chadlenials once again make the consumerist jew seethe

>>518966246 (OP)
common law marriage doesnt require license from foreign private barguild courts
permission cucklets >>>/r9k/catalog

>>518967104
If had 300 cousins that would pay for my wedding I would say the same thing

>>518966246 (OP)
Why? Also marriage is horseshit anyway. I got married in my early 30s bc my girlfriend was bothering me about it and all our friends were getting married. Went to the courthouse, married in 20 min, off to honeymoon, then less than a year later back in the same court getting a divorce. I often forget I had been briefly married, now 10 years ago. Marriage without children is pointless anyway.

>Spend 100k on one night
>get 20k in envelopes
I wonder why

>>518966246 (OP)
what part of no money don't you understand?

>>518966246 (OP)
Lmao look at her gross long disgusting monkey toes

>>518966246 (OP)
Signing a contract to give away half your stuff is pretty romantic tbhdesu.

>>518966521
SPBP

My baby boomer parents first had three kids out of wedlock and then got married at the magistrate. This was in the early 90's

>>518967347
Never married, lived with three different girlfriends, first two for a couple years, third for 6 years. Been single for 9 years now, and when people ask me about it now, trying to figure out what’s wrong with me to make me single, I just tell them I am divorced and that usually shuts them up. It is strange, if you don’t currently have a wife once you get older people just assume you are weird and have always been alone, but then if you tell them you had a failed marriage they think you are normal.

>>518967288
Again that falls down to the absolute state of the westerners being cheap pussies. Of you had 300 cousins they wouldn't give an euro for your wedding, they are pussies as well.
Isolation, individualism... truly horrible.
Move to a village, find a trad wife, have small village wedding, have a good life Germanbro.

>>518966705
>divorce 5 years later
Who cheated first, she or him?

>>518966246 (OP)
>Do they have no sense of romance?
You dont need to spend $30K to prove you love somebody.

>>518967104
>Just go into tens of thousands of dollars of debt for a single day ceremony Goy!
No.

>>518966705
>divorce 5 years later
Who cheated first, she or him?

>>518967921
Expensive weddings aren’t about the love between those being wed, they are both families settling on a level of socioeconomic status to display to their peers.

>>518966246 (OP)
Weddings are the biggest waste of money ever.

>>518968081
>settling on a level of socioeconomic status to display to their peers.
Sounds gay and Jewish, hard pass.

>>518968077
a lot of it is that weddings are just too expensive. i have a friend who got married two years ago and it cost $4000. she said that she and her fianc were not able to save for a house or to even put money into their retirement for the rest of their lives.

>>518966705
I got married by a midget to a chinky that could barely speak broken English, total cost less than $1k including gasoline.
Decade later and I'm doing really well, best thing I did. Legit doing better than anyone I knew growing up, everyone is divorced or forever alone millennials.

>>518967828
>Move to a village, find a trad wife, have small village wedding, have a good life
I agree

Weddings are such a scam if you think about it
>wedding ring that costs thousands
>now I've seen younger people get jewed with a "promise ring" which is essentially a pre-wedding ring for some reason
>Wedding ceremony costs thousands, and the church also charges a lot of money to do the whole show
>throw a big party, have a bunch of family members you don't even frequent complain about something afterwards
All that money could be spent on furnishing a house or a honeymoon, but women have been brainwashed since children to want a huge wedding party. They want a wedding, but not marriage essentially.

>>518967823
Caught a bit of luck bc I did end up having a kid with a girlfriend four years after the divorce, and even offered marriage, but SHE turned it down and said she didn't believe in marriage. Saved my skin bx she walked out on me when the kid was 3 and would have divorce raped me for child support and alimony. Instead she's a fucking loser that lives with her mother and only sees our kid on weekends and I'm rocking the suburbs as a single dad.

>>518968496
>They want a wedding, but not marriage essentially.
Yup. Because marriage is about the other person and a wedding is about the woman.

>>518966246 (OP)
>romance
What you are describing is "keeping up appearances", not romance. It's like Cenk's nephew using his dog as a fashion accessory. All image, not substance.
>Your future wife will likely spend her 20s getting fucked constantly by Chad while you need to work to establish yourself, and she will only settle for you in her 30s after her sex drive has dried up
Wasteful ceremonies aren't going to magically make this romantic. The purpose of formal weddings was always political, it was about building connections between families etc. In todays hyper-individualistic world where families are not involved in people's dating lives they serve no purpose other than to make jews rich.

>>518966397
This guy gets it. Same thing as the
>Living with your parents is for LOSERS!
meme. All of this shit is an attempt to shame you into being dumb with your money, and the white people who fall for it are the white version of nigger rich, hood rich etc. The underlying mentality is the same. People valuing the image of success more than the substance.

Renting in order to avoid living with your parents is the white version of a minimum wage nigger blowing all their money on gucci etc. It doesn't make you "successful", it's just trashy. If you need to rent for a specialized career then sure, but if you are working at the McDonald's down the road from your parents house then not living with them is living beyond your means.

The concept of nigger rich applies to all races, it just manifests differently in different cultures. For white americans it's the
>you need to waste money on dumb shit otherwise you are an unsuccessful deadbeat loser who doesn't love your wife!
shame-marketing that jewish industries (renting, diamonds etc) love doing. This is how you sell the image of success to white americans without selling them the substance.

>Wasting 100k on a wedding when a house within 2 hour radius of a city with jobs is 400k starting

Boomers flabbergasted.

>>518968965
>Jewish shame
It's amazing how this is applied in so many things.
>You need the newest iphone not an Android phone or else you're a loser and a poorfag!
>you need a new car with overpriced touchscreen bullshit and proprietary parts you can't fix yourself goy
>you need 33 streaming services or women won't fuck your poor ass
>You need to update all your software every month for security reasons idk to the point it bloats your hardware
>you don't pay for premium? Fine here's 30 minutes of ads before you watch anything
>look at that guy, he doesn't like spending money so he's weird

>

>>518967823
Once you reach a certain age being single with no kids goes from a green flag to a red flag, all a divorce does is signal that you weren't single at one point.

>>518966397
I know a couple who went into debt for their wedding and they constantly talk about how much their debt in because of their wedding. Retarded

>>518966705
>Sister spent somewhere around $40k for her wedding and during her divorce 5 years later the debt from that was one of the items they needed to split.
Kek. Dumb bitch

>>518966246 (OP)
OP thinks you need to spend 10s of thousands of dollars or else your love is fake. OP must be a wedding planner or something to be this strangely butthurt

There is very clear and documented correlation between spending more on wedding and high divorce rates. Direct correlation. If you blow more on a wedding you're likely more materialistic, your reason for getting married is more likely to be "i want a fancy wedding" and you start your life with a pile of debt. The correlation is so clear the odds of divorce go up about one percentage point per $1000 spent. Anecdotally I got married young for €0. Been married for 15 years, have not had one argument with my wife, about anything ever. Didn't get her a ring because I was building our first house at the time. Got her one years later.

My sister married twice, €100.000 ceremony twice. Divorced within 36 months twice. Same guest list twice, for added cringe. Imagine what everyone was thinking... I hope kids continue this trend so companies scamming couples with €20.000 dresses and €5.000 cakes get the rope.

>>518966246 (OP)
>going to courthouse instead of church

>>518966246 (OP)
True love doesn't need flashy parties or ceremonial validation. Just raw sexual energy and children.

Also, expel all kikes and deport all browns to Israel.

>>518968496
They see the big weddings in movies and TV shows and online.

>>518966246 (OP)
It all comes down to being anti-social with anxiety disorders

>>518969948
I'm 40, single. Lived with a woman for 4 years, never married, broke up and she left. Not interested in marriage or kids. At this point in life it can get pretty lonely if you're a very social person.
>married friends especially if they have kids don't invite you to anything, and they never want to hang out anymore
>family members think you're either gay or weird
>people at work think you're either gay or weird
>that guy is single and has no kids so we can give him more work
>He's a loser
At some point you just stop giving a fuck.

>>518970154
the slaves deserve it for shit like this >>518969948

can u actually imagine we live in a society so cucked that if you dont have proven presence with a women u are looked at side eyed. even though its silly its necessary because the next generation of wage slaves wont be produced without this

>>518970523
>At some point you just stop giving a fuck
Yep. I stopped caring

>>518966246 (OP)
Weddings cost a lot you dumb ape

>>518966246 (OP)
We got married at the courthouse with our parents and witnesses and then had a big party for extended family and friends after.

>>518966246 (OP)
A traditional wedding costs about 40k and constant planning over a year to put together even if your choices aren't lavish and you have 100 guests.

>>518970872
>arranged marriages
Lol

>>518966705
your sister fell for the meme
having a daughter is a mistake

>>518966246 (OP)
It’s because they are children of divorce and mom and dads new families don’t socialize because mom was a cheating whore

>>518966246 (OP)
No they just have no money
And boomer parents that will never fund a fucking wedding ever.

>>518966246 (OP)
Wife and I did this and had a honeymoon instead. One of the best decisions I ever made. Fuck a big wedding, fuck forking thousands of dollars over for a single day, fuck dealing with a bunch of boomers at your own wedding

>>518970523
you can be in a relationship and still feel alone
people who cannot handle being alone are not going to make it in life

>>518966246 (OP)
weddings were originally meant to be a ceremonial ritual, not only to ensure a happy marriage, but get blessings from a spirit/deity for your offspring.
but the church has lost any sense of mysticism and the wedding parties is just nomie gathering in modern times.
instead it would be way better and cheaper to hire some schizo shaman, or eat shrooms together and have your wedding innawoods with fairies. the latter can be dangerous though if you have no knowledge about schizo arts

>>518967393
It's not 100k, here seat for one guest with unlimited alcohol and food costs 35-50 euros. Music is usually 2k euros. The rest you spend on clothes and other shit. You will usually make money from the guests unless your family is jewish.

>>518966246 (OP)
Whites should normalize not wasting money on weddings. No more vacuums and tea kettles on registries! Normalize just giving newlyweds cash money to afford a house.

>>518966705
>Sister spent somewhere around $40k for her wedding and during her divorce 5 years later the debt from that was one of the items they needed to split.

Yikes!

>>518970961
This whole one pajeet campaign is really getting out of hand when even you third world shitskins think that you are superior because of it. Typical jewish campaign to belittle white people by accusing them of behaving like shitskins. Lmao, today even a pajeet called me pajeet.

>>518966246 (OP)
Spend $30,000 minimum to have a mediocre event in a barn or church with some food and drink with a shitty DJ and selfie mirror? Naw I’m good. Some photographer straight out of high school that smells like weed or some woman who’s fat af and jealous? I’m good nigger. $100 and I’m done and I use the money for a starter home.

>>518968965
Best post I read on /pol/ in 13 years. I do wonder what happens to the economy when more people see through this. Look recent stats in spain/italy/greece young people stay in their parents home saving up for 10 years and buying their home cash. Its beautiful. Landlords GET THE ROPE. Banks GET THE ROPE. Wedding ceremony kikes GET THE ROPE. But will the economy survive more people not getting netflix or disney+ not consuming $20 drinks in bars, not getting $1.000/month car loans and not wageslaving for a landlord?

Or will the economy be fine because most will continue being good little consumers crushed by debt cradle to grave.

>>518971348
I rented a local canteen, complete with a buffet, for the party. It was under $3,000, under the table. But that was 15 years ago.

>>518971378
anon, they are all economic units especially women and in a matriarchy, they will always be slaves. i am remote with lower cost of living and not a single subscription and its wonderful and we need these slaves to enslave themselves so they can continue serving us coffee and goyslop

>>518969948
when i see an unmarried guy or woman above the age of 40 i assume there is something wrong with them. They come across as weird and almost creepy

>>518971123
redpill me on having a succesful shroom wedding, i might actually be up for this

>>518966246 (OP)
They or their parents don't have five-figure sums burning a hole in their pockets to cater to a bunch of relatives.

>>518969948
>>518970523
>>518972368
considering how things are going in the west, being 40 and unmarried will be entirely normal in 10-20 years

>>518967735
My boomer parents got married at the municipal office the very next day after they heard some announcement that the governments cash bonus for newlyweds, introduced by the Socialists during the 70s when they had a supermajority was about to be abolished by the newly elected Conservatives because same Socialists, true to form, had also badly mismanaged the nationalized heavy industry and the country was basically about to go bankrupt due to that. They are still married now 41 years later and all their flashy church wedding friends and relatives are triple divorced fatally embittered geriatrics just like the normgroid playbook dictates. Make of that what you will.

My GF is talking me down from a larger wedding, as I have a bigger family than hers. Is she based bros? I want to party it up with my family and friends and dance with an open bar, and I know I don't have to spend much. So I might just do a cheap wedding, but do a reception party.

>>518972984
hopefully ubi comes out too after the big war so we are all comfy too

>>518973345
u should ask her other boyfriend or a second opinion

>>518966246 (OP)
cheaper
life is too expensive now

>>518968455
>chinky that could barely speak broken English

>>518966246 (OP)
You basically spent a shitload of money to invite your relatives that you don't like and mostly even don't know. It is how does it looks.

Marriage is a religious institution. Beyond a serious religious ceremony, there is no reason for a wedding. It’s insane what levels men will stoop to just to give wifey some Instagram photos.

>>518966246 (OP)
I’m surprised they are even getting married at all

>>518972368
When I see a German I assume they have payed a Turkish prostitute to piss on them.

>>518966246 (OP)
>Everyone in the picture is brown
American moment

>>518966246 (OP)
Why blow 10k-80k on a whore wedding when you know the cunt is going to tgrow you over board and take half your shit in 7-14 years anyway? What a waste. The modern whore isnt worth that. She is worth $180 admin fee.

>>518975138
...cont

And you guys want to know the next step in relationships. Stealth Marriage. You wont even tell your friends and family youre married to spare yourself the embarrassment.

>>518967823
I hate goyim cattle so much it's unreal.

>>518972403
well, you need to scout out a good location deep in nature that is untouched by humans. research local myths, because not all forest spirits are good. then you need to plan your ceremony during an auspicious time: special moons like "pink moons" or others are great, but at the very least Friday during Venus hours to get the planetary boost.
and before you do your ceremony, a few weeks before that go to the place you have chosen and ask permission first and offer some small gifts (after you ask try to listen to your intution: if you get bad feeling find another place, if you get a good feeling its good).
at this point you can just yolo and ask the highest spirit in the place or even of the forest (the leader/king of faires, nymphs, etc.) to conduct the ceremony according to their tradition and ask them to bless your wedding and offspring, or structure the wedding yourself. but thats a bit more complicated.
generally I would recommend if you find a lake deep in the forest to do it there, since nymphs are generally more friendly to humans than other nature spirits, and their otherworldly music will be an unforgetable expierence.

but researching local myths/spirits is key here, and then you plan from there

>>518966521
Try tens of thousands. Its a scam and a waste of money in the current year.

>>518972403
forgot to mention, but when you scout a location, it should obviously be safe and suitable for the ceremony.
and on the day of wedding, you bring drinks, food, and everything else you need, like blankets to sit, lights, etc (not just when you ask for permission - essentially like throwing a normal wedding, but you will of course need to spend much less, since a bottle alone if sufficient for all the spirits at your wedding).

>>518975719
>>518976256
sounds fun
where do i read up on stuff like this?

>>518966246 (OP)
No thanks. I don't even want a gf anymore. Not after the last one. I need 12 years of celibacy in to be considered an official monk and I know I can do it. Let some other sucker get hitched/divorced raped not me.

>>518966246 (OP)
>no, you have to spend tens of thousands on a ceremony for a marriage that won't make it to the first anniversary because...romance!

>>518966246 (OP)
they have no money! honestly though making the couple pay for wedding instead of the family/tribe was just a Jewish population control scheme.

>>518976647
>I need 12 years of celibacy in to be considered an official monk
Is that when they have you brew beer and teach you the secret martial arts?

>>518966849
Not all hymen worth it

>>518966246 (OP)
>1pbtid
(You) don't give a single fuck OP. Participate in your thread you huge faggot.

>>518966246 (OP)
It's not about romance, it's about signaling to your family/friends.

>>518968833
>a wedding is about the woman.
Yes, a woman's vanity truly has no limits and they really want their fairytale fuck day.

>>518976446
its something I came up with. I never done it myself, but I did something similar when I wanted to be initiated to become magician by forest spirits.
its just if you have some knowledge and expierence on ceremonial magic, you can create ceremonies easily yourself as long as you keep the most important basic structures in mind.
so I cant give you some book specific to that. but there are some books that talk about having a romantic/sexual relationship with various types of spirits (ignore new-age and wicca books on it).

I can't imagine living with a woman for 40 years.
I don't think this is natural.

>>518966246 (OP)
>are just going down to the courthouse
Marriage starts and ends in a courthouse. It's not like you go to church for a divorce. Modern marriage is a government contract that we sometimes pretend to have church influence.

no weddindg, because woman cant take half of my computer

>spend $30,000 for a one-day party with friends and family I hate because “muh tradition” and “that’s just what you do”

Marriage is financially retarded, weddings are even more retarded

let me get it straight: men, who do worse than women in college and jobs and wealth, should be the ones dishing out thousands of dollars for a ceremony that entraps him into financial slavery on breakup?

>>518966246 (OP)
They don’t have big weddings because they’ve all cut off themselves from their families.

>>518978207
dont let em do it nigger

Most women haven't believed in marriage in 50+ years. They just want to get married so they can have THEIR wedding. THEIR. Wedding. That's it. If they could just have weddings 24/7/365 they would, it's literally THAT logically retarded. Women are THAT logically retarded. Men are THAT desperate for pussy, they will trade half of all their current and future assets for the speculation of pussystocks.

I tried to explain this to my coworker today who just got married and he tries to tell me how much pussy his wife gives him. Like, okay? You SHOULD be getting as much pussy as you want. And she should want to give you it as much as you want. That's the fucking bare minimum, moron. Men are FUCKED. The problem becomes 1000x worse when hundreds of Shitskins begins to orbit a White whale.

That's like bragging that my car starts every time I turn the key. I just told him, "forget about it" and he had a disappointing look on his face. I think he could tell I was mad at his retardation.

>>518975719
thanks

>>518979005
np. would be interesting if you could share your expierences on /x/ afterwards

>>518966521
The venue alone is tens of thousands, more if you want catering and a bar. Even retards that think doing it at home, only to pay for catering, rentals, and a giga tent costs more than a venue. This isn't even factoring in the rings, dresses and suits.

My wife and I spent $25K on our wedding that we booked near the end of the pandemic. Saved a lot of money since venues were desperate for business. Ending up being a fucking blast. I've been to 3 weddings since and they sucked ASS. Shit food, shit music, no after party at the hotel. We ordered food and did cocaine at 3am after my reception with all the bridesmaids and groomesmen. Now 2 of my friends are marrying their longtime partners at a courthouse, or eloping on vacation with some random priest. And that's it.

If you can't bring yourself to give your wife ONE fucking day to feel enshrined...a day that she can look back and feel emotional, then you are a failure of a man. Both financially and morally.

>>518978976
unfortunately the way women see marridge is correct because ultimately non chads have nothing to offer them because in today's dating world, what is the oofy doofy's commitment worth in an age where women having 100s, 1000s of options at the touch of a button? absolutly nothing so marridge isnt a bonding ritual, it really is just a public act of ultimate submission to the women signed in writing to the government because only tangible assets are considered in divorce which the man will 99% have more of than the hole because chads really dont have to get married. the women has no skin in the game and can contiue doing whatever she wants even after the contract is signed. the idea was that there would be shame on the women if the contract is broken but infact the guy is always blamed in that case too

>>518979660
>I got lucky and pulled the ladder up
>be a man and climb up without it

>>518966246 (OP)
It's because everyone is a degenerate and fucking broke..
And all you mother fuckers with money need to stop having destination weddings and making me fly to all these fuck holes.
I'm not even a brokefag but I'm not interested in blowing any money on a wedding of my own or anyone else's for that matter.
It's just legal BS

>>518968081
Retarded concept for braindead idiots - why would you think that anyone at all gives a fuck.

>>518979748
I didn't get lucky. We got engaged and saw an opportunity to get married sooner instead of planning for 2 years like faggots.

Even $15K can get you plenty in 2025 if you aren't inviting 100 people. But there are too many retards incapable of accepting that approach to planning...anything.

>My wife and I spent $25K on our wedding that we booked near the end of the pandemic. Saved a lot of money since venues were desperate for business. Ending up being a fucking blast. I've been to 3 weddings since and they sucked ASS. Shit food, shit music, no after party at the hotel. We ordered food and did cocaine at 3am after my reception with all the bridesmaids and groomesmen. Now 2 of my friends are marrying their longtime partners at a courthouse, or eloping on vacation with some random priest. And that's it.
>If you can't bring yourself to give your wife ONE fucking day to feel enshrined...a day that she can look back and feel emotional, then you are a failure of a man. Both financially and morally.

>>518979660
>then you are a failure of a man. Both financially and morally.
>and did cocaine at 3am

you are the problem

>>518979958
nigger why are you angry? we need these bug men to go through all these humilation rituals to keep society going

>>518966246 (OP)
>Do they have no sense of romance?
It will end in divorce anyway.

>>518966246 (OP)
> Do they have no sense of romance?

We live in an economic opportunity zone for jews to feed on goyim in. Everything is transactional, genuine love doesn’t exist here as money is God to the globohomo jew. As a result, why should anyone go above and beyond for a Goyslop fed roastie who is going to be divorcing in 5 years anyway?

>>518979660
>bragging about wasting 25k marrying a coke whore
lmao

>>518979934
> Even $15K can get you plenty in 2025

No one can even save anything like this. What kind of retarded Globohomo remoralization post is this?

>>518972368
Single anon over 35 here - we don't care what you think. Your weird assumptions are not my problem

>>518980394
Based. Have a rockin day anon

>>518979660
You sound like a massive, insufferable faggot and I sincerely hope you and your wife both experience financial hardship that makes you regret blowing 25k on something so objectively retarded.

>>518980210
This.
10 years ago I was married in the courthouse.
Now I am divorced after jail I a exceeding happy with my decision.

>>518966246 (OP)
Why did you have to post two ugly browns ffs. I hate seeing browns smiling. They're supposed to feel insecure because they look like shrek

>>518980394
I am 32 and don't want to be married to have children. Not with these modern women. The world doesn't need another divorcee key child like I was myself.

Marriage? I just live with my gf of 13 years. We are both stem autists and have a paid off house.
We did think about just getting a legal document at the courthouse when she was pregnant just so kid stuff would be less of a legal annoyance, but then she had a 2nd trimester miscarriage so we didn't bother.

>>518979687
It's just a silly idea nowadays. I haven't met any woman in my entire life I would have wanted to marry

>>518981064
Best advice I can give is to separate from any woman that mentions either marriage or kids immediately after she does so. Been down that road and even if you're clear about what you do/don't want, they'll try to change your opinion about it over time and will make you the object of their resentment if you stay with them long term.

>>518981327
I am not into relationships either. I don't date, I just irregularly go to prostitutes.

>>518966246 (OP)
Weddings are expensive, especially if it isnt your first rodeo.

>>518981064
I meant to say that I don't want children.

>>518966246 (OP)
This thread is false information. Millenials and zoomers can't even find girlfriends so how are they getting married? Are there any benefits to getting married for men because there are tons of benefits for women to get married?

>>518966246 (OP)
Fun fact
the whole wedding craze and buying diamond rings were pushed by Jewish people. Most people who had weddings before 1920's had quiet family only weddings and it was much more a legal consession than a romantic fun adult party. it was also much cheaper and the resources went to providing the newly weds with what they need to make a family.

>>518981488
same, unless youre chad the modern women will not treat you like a human being without some sort of transaction and ur just lowering that transaction price to the lowest possible value through prostitution and its fun

Thats pretty much always been the case.

>>518967823
If people think you are weird or if they think you are normal, either way they are thinking about you too much, why are you telling these people anything? Why do you have anything to do with them at all?

You want to know what is the best impression you can make on other people? None at all. Zero. Don't look at them, don't talk to them, don't be near them. If you have to be near, stay as far as you can, look at the floor, say nothing. If anyone speaks to you, use brief, one word answers and end the conversation as soon as possible. If they try to converse again, simply ignore them. If they try to speak to you, just turn around and pretend to look at the wall, pretend you are very interested in some spot in the corner.

>>518981660
Remember dowries when fathers would pay you a chunk of money to take their daughter away forever? When and how did that cease as the norm?

>>518981660
it doesnt matter you fucking nigger because if women are so out of touch that this is their minimum expectation then they are just as complicit

>>518966246 (OP)
Based. I'm not having a wedding, we're just going to the courthouse.

Wedding ceremonies are a jewish invention.

>>518966397
fpbt
>>518966246 (OP)
>get legally attached to a roastie goy
no.

>>518966246 (OP)
>do what the woman wants
No.
At least in this respect the society is becoming less feminist.

>>518966246 (OP)
>1pbtid

>>518969448
Shame no longer works on me.

>>518981660
This, the big expensive wedding ceremonies, wedding attire industry, and especially the diamond ring industry was all mainstreamed by jews to build up said industries to make more money. The fact people have been normalized to think bankrupting yourself just to have a wedding is just utterly ridiculous.

>>518982085
if I could I would walk to the deli naked every morning. I'm very proud of my skin color

>>518966246 (OP)
>Spending tens of thousands of dollars for a marriage you aren't even sure is going to last
Modern day bitches aren't worth shit. Happened to one of my sister's bitch friends who LOOVVESS to flaunt. It was an expensive wedding, with a huge hall where the exterior looks like a Victorian mansion. The marriage didn't last 3 years, and the bitch one day decided marriage and baby life wasn't for her, and did the equivalent of going out for milk and disappeared for a month to go cheat.

You're out of your mind if you think I'm giving a future wife a wedding. You love me enough; we should be fine without it.

>>518982155
they make the real guap on divorce and family courts, which they of course own. end to end profit, its a better investment than selling dope almost.

>>518979660
that sounds like a dream and your wife is lucky as fuck. i never wanted to have a child out of wedlock but there were tax issues so we never got married. 10+ years together and now we have a kid and probably will never have the experience you described. dancing with my cousins at other weddings are some of my best memories, but afterparty at the hotel tops even those. god bless. hope you have many white children.

>>518981794
All the money now goes into the big fun overpriced adult party.

>>518968965
>>518971378
There's a marked difference in grown men, especially over 30, who never left mommy and daddy's embrace. Zero life skills, zero people skills, can't cook, just comfort the entire way.

At a certain point it stunts your growth. At least try once. Experience roommates, experience life beyond the security blanket that is your parents. I can tell by your doughy bodies that you're close to suicide. You should go through with it, and give your parents a break. They don't like seeing a living representation of their failure. Give them peace for once.

You're not an Indian, you're a white man, you're a leader. So lead.

>>518981803
Both men and women are a pale image of what they were before the first world war. Neither gender shows the grace that was known before.

>>518981137
i can relate. with the relationship stuff you said, not the miscarriage. sorry for your loss. i hope you try again, it sounds like the kid would have solid parents.

Marriage in a church used to be free. The pastor or priest wouldn't charge anything because that was his fucking job and if you were a church member then the church was for you. You could just do a potluck feast for nothing because food was cheap, everyone knew how to cook and was proud to show off their skills, and was willing to contribute. You just rented a suit and wedding dress from the local boutique or your parents handed down theirs. Weddings rings were simple gold bands.

>>518981672
I don't know, I am not unattractive, 1.94m tall even but modern women are just insufferable. My mother was awful too and I was a divorce child with a key necklace. My entire childhood is a collection of trauma, no need to put another soul through that ringer just so some toastie can say she had a big wedding and I later lose half my net worth.

>>518982448
you can have a lot of people skills while living with mom and dad, because you can just run around and act like a dumbass all day. watching normalfags from the outside is a great way to start being able to manipulate them but it takes time. a 9 to 5 wont teach you to be a scam artist you learn to be tolerated and accepted. true leaders are good liars and know how to get in people's heads
>T. former master sergeant now NEETing with my aunt.

A cheap wedding can cost you $30,000 easily.

>>518966246 (OP)
Most marriages are performative at this point or solely about having kids. These people don’t love eachother. I think people have finally stopped spending all their money on the performance. Marriage is so obviously fake now even the simps have stopped bankrupting themselves over it.

>>518968965
>in her 30s after her sex drive has dried up
hi dork, did you know that it is men who's sex drive dries up as they get older, but women come into their sexual prime at 30? no, obviously you didnt know that, so stop preaching like you know something because you are spreading your disease of dorkism.

>>518966246 (OP)
I have romance. What I don't have is enough money to waste on a day to make other people happy. Fuck you asshole

>>518969948
>>518970597
People will literally come after you for it. I got charged for beating a boomer in a fight because I talked shit about marriage after he talked shit at ME for being single. Motherfucker had to go get dentures a few years early.

>>518970597
Best I can explain is that people see it the same way they see white men who stay away from nonwhites.

Just no money. Or an actual woman worth marrying

>>518972368
There are gonna be a lot of unmarried people above the age of 40 in a few years. I wonder how the social perception will change especially when a giant number of women are old and unmarried.

>>518983347
I would predict a lot of duis and people hating women

>>518980394
>>518972368
Eventually, one of the simps attacks you for being unmarried, and if you kick his ass, ZOG shows up to get you. It’s all so slave-like and cucked. If you can leave the west, do so soon.

>>518983628
white knighting is a young man's game. It's already becoming unfashionable

>>518983628
already have my dude, everyone assumes ur just a tourist so its chill. i agree though, gtfo cause theyre all just economic units and cucks

>>518983628
Most simps that I know only are able to get women who hit the wall and theyre too busy yapping about fertility treatments and inflation

>>518983347
Most people will be unmarried, fertility rate will be sub 1 here in my generation.

idk about yall but IN THIS COUNTRY weddings have become a fucking industry where you go bankrupt if you throw a normal-sized reception

>>518983019
>but women come into their sexual prime at 30
I will never find out because I will never go to a hooker who looks over 30

>>518966246 (OP)
I got married with my wife at the courthouse, only had 8 people there to celebrate. Saved a fuckton of money. We had a nicer honeymoon than we would have for a few weeks. I'm fine with not having a large wedding, at most I wanted to make my wife happy but she didn't want to waste money. So what's the fucking point then?

>>518968965
Very good post

>>518967104
>>518967828
No one cares what some faggot Bosnian thinks about wasting money you will never have in the first place

>>518966246 (OP)
It can be romantic to go down to the courthouse and elope, bonnie and clyde type shit. A lot of women have it impressed on them what a wedding must be to fill a social obligation. not saying it can't be romantic, but there are multiple sides to it

>>518984117
it is a big, sterile industry here too. meh.

>>518966246 (OP)
It's because they will get divorced later so they are just getting aware of what the courtroom will look like before coming back 20 years later.

>>518984999
dont worry little bro youll get the next baillout, trust me, just keep polishing your guns in the meantime

>>518966246 (OP)
I've had two cousins drop >$15k on weddings just to get divorced within 5 years. An uncle took money from a jointly ran family business (without telling others) to help pay for one of his daughter's.

Why would I spend that kind of money to feed some extended family members I only see at funerals and weddings anyway?

>>518966246 (OP)
"Romance" is male slavery.
If you want love, marry a fox.

>>518968455
>chinky
>your own wife
Fuck ya anon, I call mine monkey, she hates it. Now she calls our kid monkey.

>>518966246 (OP)
>Spend the afternoon at the courthouse with handful of closest friends
>Go out to a restaurant and have a nice afternoon
>Say goodbyes, go home and carry your bride over the threshold
>Sex and then a nap
>Wake up with 8 hours of your wedding day left to spend together

Everyone is happy, whole thing cost about 400 bucks.
You don't need more than that if you're actually in love and looking to start a real life together.

Buy land, not diamonds and a lame party for 300 retards

>>518986634
You forgot the part of her being past wall and it being a humiliation ritual, followed by the divorce.

I will never do it.

>>518966246 (OP)
anyone with a brain knows big weddings are a scam and waste of money

>>518972295
This.
The lesser serves the Greater, which is why NPCs are on package delivery and tendies duty.

>>518966397
based

>>518972368
First off, how the fuck would you know? Because he looks happy?
You're a fefail, of course you destroy all that is Good and True and 'Beautiful in the world.
Anyway, this is why we're avoiding you.

>>518966246 (OP)
Weddings are a scam
Marriage is a scam

>>518966246 (OP)
>Saves that money for a down payment on a house instead

Tell me in a non-jewy way why thats bad

>>518975719
Why not marry the spirit then?

>>518966246 (OP)
Marriage is a business contract in America. That's their culture. American culture is run like a corporation. It makes more sense to be married in a courthouse than in a church/temple/synagogue.

>>518987055
Yeah that's fair enough, if those are the options, stay single.

>>518977895
I read about pic related for reasons.
The book I found was Chinese so it was incredibly banal and materialistic... like, if I can summon a fox woman I'm not asking for money or looks or help loving someone else.

>>518982448
So is this the new eglin troon approach?
>Just comp yourself boyim!

>>518968081
You're such a jewish, effeminate midwit it's unreal. who gives a shit about any of that?

>>518966246 (OP)
>Kids these days have no sense with money, they’ll just blow out on stupid crap
>No! You have to blow hundreds of thousands of dollars on a vanity ceremony to prove you love someone!
Millennials can’t win so fuck you you boomer cunt

Weddings are gay. The whole thing is gay.
>you may kiss the bride
Somebody just shoot me in the head pls

>>518971123
This man is based

>>518981794
Some people I know who are getting married in two weeks we’re talking about their already married friends and how much money they got at their weddings like it was a competition and claim that they don’t care how much they get at theirs, but I know that’s false because they’re narcissists and they just didn’t want to seem like greedy pieces of shit. I’m sure they’ll throw a bitch fit if they get less than $10,000 because they know rich people and the guy is probably only marrying his girl because her dad owns a trucking business. People are fucking trash, especially (((married))) people

>>518966246 (OP)
>Brother meets girl in law school
>He's in pre-med
>They date for a year, get engaged
>She wants to have this massive wedding, big church, fireworks, the works
>He obliges, goes into debt to pay for it
>Just one year later, she divorces him
Flash forward ten years
>Talking to brother
>Now married to new a girl, has two kids
>Talks about how he "finally paid that bullshit off."
>Find out he JUST finished paying off the debt for first wedding
>He got stuck with most of it cause it was under his name and she (unsurprisingly) had good lawyer friends so he had zero chance of getting any money back
It's a fucking scam. It should be a litmus test for a trash woman. If they want anything larger than a small get-together with family and your closet friends to celebrate a basic ceremony, then run away
No one should go into debt for that shit and people like my dumbass brother is the reason people avoid it like the plague

>>518966246 (OP)
My girl is autistic and lost all her identity papers so we can’t officially get married.

>>518966246 (OP)
I didn't even do that, I just filed everything online. The fuck would I care about some asshole pronouncing us married?

>>518966397
>Shut up wedding jew
fpbp.
fucking starve these jews out of everything