>>519260200 (OP)
As a man, you have plenty of options to make yourself attractive. Looks are the easiest one if you looked out, but you can also become powerful, rich, famous and so on.
For women, it's mostly looks. If they are ugly, it's more or less over and they cannot really compensate for it. They are incredibly bad at coping with it, too. Where a guy might go
>Well, guess I am doomed to a shit life
and then just lives it for the next 60 years in the full knowledge that it won't improve, a woman will instead convince herself that she's actually a 9/10 and her prince on a white horse merely hasn't become aware of her existence yet.
And the harder they try to gaslight themselves into believing that this is true, the more unhingedly violent they become at any implication that this might not be true, such as their looksmatch approaching them.