Am I a fool for wanting someone who shares my pain? - /r9k/ (#81469340) [Archived: 1098 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/12/2025, 11:46:34 AM No.81469340
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I have been dating my boyfriend for the past two months. There isn't really anything I could complain about him; he's handsome, has a nice personality, shares my interests and is in general a very honest and relatable person. However, I've been having this nagging feeling about him having friends and a n active social life. I grew up lonely and haven't been able to make real friends for a long while, and it pains me to see him have fun with his friends every once in a while. I wish he was a lonely loser like I am. I even get the urge to leave him sometimes. I know it's a horrible idea, I should be happy for his success. Am I retarded? If yes, how fucked am I?
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sage
6/12/2025, 11:54:09 AM No.81469394
>>its another foid cosplaying loneliness thread again
>>its going to get 100 replies
I hate you faggots
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 11:54:34 AM No.81469397
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>>81469340 (OP)
CEMENT
DAS CONK CREET BAYBEE
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:02:08 PM No.81469456
>>81469340 (OP)
>he's handsome
>him having friends and a n active social life
wtf were you expecting? no shit chad has friends. people like attractive men
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:02:51 PM No.81469459
>>81469340 (OP)
Im sorry, OP. Your problem is very complex and difficult, the only realistic solution i see is killing yourself for being a subhuman piece of trash whos jealous of their own partner success and happiness and wanting him to be equally miserable as you are instead of actually improving yourself and fixing the problem. Ive had plenty of women like you, the typical fatso who gets lucky and gets a fit guy to date her and she plays mindgames to make himself go off his tracks, get him to abandon everything and get him fat and depressed. I absolutely despise your kind
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:04:55 PM No.81469468
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>>81469340 (OP)
>dating my boyfriend
why do you have one in the first place?
Are you not a loner?
How could you even relationship someone you are not so close to?
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:05:12 PM No.81469471
You are fucked in the head OP and wrong you need to fix this about yourself. Men need friends and a social life if they make you their whole thing they will become beta. It happened to my ex he slowly just stopped hanging out with his friends over time and made me his only source of social life. It destroyed our relationship. I am schizoid and have no trouble having no friends but men need friends. If they don't have friends they start acting weird. You wouldn't like him if he didn't have friends so stop trying to be pissy about it.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:16:27 PM No.81469530
>>81469340 (OP)
>I wish he was a lonely loser like I am
You wouldn't have picked him if he was though, now would you...
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:18:45 PM No.81469542
>>81469468
I got lucky and met him over the internet, otherwise it would've been impossible.
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:21:48 PM No.81469561
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>>81469542
you didnt answer the last part
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:26:02 PM No.81469591
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>>81469340 (OP)
i get this feeling a lot sometimes
normalfags feel too happy to feel like i can truly have an emotional connection
and i need a girl who can handle my stupid shitposting
nobody wants to feel like they have to put on a mask around a lover
maybe we should get together op
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:28:07 PM No.81469603
>>81469591
Why do you think she'd pick you? That guy's handsome (women see very few men as handsome, he's probably top 10%). Are you?
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:32:34 PM No.81469624
>>81469603
almost every woman says their boyfriend is handsome, like how almost every man says their girlfriend is cute
stop doom baiting
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:33:23 PM No.81469626
chad whoere
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:36:41 PM No.81469649
>>81469624
but women only date chad (read up on hypergamy and 80/20 rules), so he's guaranteed to be top percentage
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:38:43 PM No.81469661
>>81469624
>almost every woman says their boyfriend is handsome
Young women don't fuck ugly men nowadays. And when they do date sub7s, they'll constantly insult them to keep their egos down. I promise you her bf is HTN at the very least
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:39:30 PM No.81469668
>>81469649
which the internet would never ever ever ever ever never lie about
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:42:04 PM No.81469688
>>81469661
im not even ugly though, i have friends who look worse than me that are in a relationship or married
im getting r9k brainrot fatigue, you will never be a TRUE incel unless you're genuinely just disabled have real autism (not the fake shit everyone says they have), or are irredemably ugly
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:49:56 PM No.81469730
>>81469688
>i have friends who look worse than me that are in a relationship
Male gaze + no one can self rate
>or married
Who gives a fuck about old people. I'm talking about late teens / early 20s
Regardless OP just has to post a lookalike of her bf to prove me wrong. She won't
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Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:52:52 PM No.81469747
>>81469394
Fpbp.
Unironically, I share your pain, Anon.
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:53:03 PM No.81469748
>>81469730
my friend married earlier this year at the age of 20, they both look pretty average
you are literally just bitter for the sake of being bitter
Anonymous
6/12/2025, 12:58:28 PM No.81469780
>>81469340 (OP)
you're jealous and possibly controlling. If you really like the guy, and you really dont want to be a piece of shit - try just being honest with yourself. Knowing your weaknesses and vices and being able to curb them is healthy and mature. Otherwise your apt to lose your cool and lash out.