i just overheard my mom say
>oh, anon? he won't get married i think, he's just... different.
>but i don't worry about that, he is happy that way and he will do just fine
i guess my act of pretending to be a happy 30 yo single guy is working... if only she knew how much i crave love.

>>81471949 (OP)
I'm sure she knows you're unhappy, there's just nothing that can be done.

>>81471949 (OP)
>is working
For now, but lies don't last. So, be prepared to make the proper changes for you to be happy for real.

>>81471949 (OP)
Could be worse really:
My father implicitely called me an incel on my face, not virgin an incel

>>81472098
Beat that nigga ass

>>81472098
remind him that if you can't get laid it is because of a combination of his shitty genes and his shitty parenting

>>81472140
His dad is probably trapped between being bluepilled and wanting to see his son succeed. He's probably learning he chose wrong. The damage is done though

>>81471949 (OP)
>my act of pretending to be a happy 30 yo single guy is working
Same except I'm not pretending. I'm now mature enough to know it's just my horny monkey brain wanting a relationship. But sex isn't the main part of a relationship and in order to get sex, I'd have to deal with so much bullshit that the whole thing looks like a very bad deal in the end. If you listen to normies talk about their relationships, the sacrifices you have to make become clear.

>>81472124
No but I stop talking to him for good and tell him that he should know his place since he was beaten by my mother.
>>81472166
Not really:
During lunch he asked if I knew that 80 percent of women chose 20 percent of men, I just said yes.
Then he talk about that netflix series adolescence and how genZ are the least productive and he was obviously talking about me since I never bring a girl home.

>>81472251
Why don't you hire a prostitute just to fuck with him

>>81471949 (OP)
Your mom sounds really sweet, to be fair, you have it way easier than a lot of people.

>>81472295
Why the fuck would I do that?
He's a fucking stupid old fuck who got his ass beaten by my mom and 2 days before while he was walking around the house naked at night (since he sleeps with no pants on) he fell because he steps on my skateboard which probably knock him down a peg.
I just have to succeed a bunch of exam to show him that despite being a virgin I'm in fact better than him, better than a "man" who was beaten by his wife.

>>81471949 (OP)
My mom still thinks that I'll meet someone one day. I keep telling her that I won't because I'm too ugly but she refuses to listen.

I can't wait to see the look on her face in 30 years when she is 85 and I'm 53. It'll be the biggest I told you so ever.

>>81472410
yeah but will you feel good at 53, never having a love?
When I was 23 I felt it was over, but I'm 26 now and I've had a few gfs and rose my body count from 0 to 12
its never too over bro. you don't gotta get married or anything but just try getting some pussy. life is to short not to bust a few nuts

>>81472433
>yeah but will you feel good at 53, never having a love?
Probably not but it's not my fault.
>When I was 23 I felt it was over, but I'm 26 now and I've had a few gfs and rose my body count from 0 to 12 its never too over bro.
Thanks for your concern but im fine. I'm not trying anymore.

>>81472354
lol your dad sucks how did he even catch your mom

>>81472354
he fell from your skateboard. ouch I bet that had to hurt. did you get in trouble for it?

>>81472507
No because I think he realized that I simply stop caring about him. I was more concerned about my skateboard anyway.

>>81472098
Based dad telling it like it is

Maybe move out. Paying rent sucks but if you don't get along with your parents, it's going to do damage too.

>>81472561
I cant right now I have a shitty part time job until end of August.
In spetember though I will definitely do that, I cant stand my father and my step mom anymore

>>81472470
>When I was 23 I felt it was over,

lol

I'm 30 (turning 31 in a few months) and still a touchless khv who never had a gf, 5'8", ugly, zero friends, dead parents, autistic monotone voice, pale as fuck, etc.

Even if you're a khv at 25, it's far from over.

Once it's the big 3, that's when it is truly over.

>>81471949 (OP)
Ask her for better genes lol

>>81472098
My mom called me an incel, but it was because she'd just learned about the term and thought it meant what it actually means without the weird connotations. So I had to explain to her that calling someone that carries quite a bit more than just what the surface layer description implies, and she agreed to not call me that. I do know that technically I am an incel, but I don't want any association with the label irl, because of how people could perceive it.

>>81472557
Retard-dad realizing he fucked up

>>81472786
He didn't fuck up, not his fault his son became a crybaby.

He's doing well pressuring him to have sex so he can stop throwing tantrums over nothing

>>81473216
>He didn't fuck up, not his fault his son became a crybaby
that's the problem though, he's getting older and older and I will never help him again after that.
To me he's just some highschool bully who calls other virgins and will die alone for that.

>>81471949 (OP)
Sorry to hear that. I'm 30+, and my mom does the same thing that just makes it worse
>Lots of guys aren't becoming husbands or dads, it's not a big deal.
>I'm so proud how happy you are without having too much.
>Dating a single mom is pretty common nowadays...
I did actually date plenty when I was younger and was with a girl for years, but it fell apart right when I turned 30. By the time I got myself back together, a bit late to get back into dating and succeed. It is what it is. Actually considering an hero'ing cause doing this for another 50ish years seem pointless.

>>81473216
Really hope you don't have kids.
Parents who unironically pressure their kids to be this or that in life are the worst.
They're usually too myopic to understand that their kid would be happier if they'd just lay off them, too.

>>81474590
Bro, get some hobbies or do some volunteering, there has to be something that brings you fulfillment.
If not that that, just go walk in nature, we're just stupid apes who become happy from a bit of fresh air and sun, after all.
Don't be a retard just because you're maidenless.
Oh, and get a job and apartment if you don't have one, don't live with your mom.

>>81472433
>When I was 23 I felt it was over, but I'm 26 now and I've had a few gfs and rose my body count from 0 to 12
When I was 23 I felt it was over, I'm 33 now and I've never had a gf and my body count is zero and I know it's over.

>>81475784
Same goes for you. Don't be a retard just because you're maidenless. Get some fresh air, a hobby, and a job if you don't have one.

>>81475855
>Get some fresh air, a hobby, and a job if you don't have one.
I have all of these things, what's your point?

>>81475881
Why are you saying it's over then? Either you're fulfilled with life or you're not.
Being unfulfilled just because of maidens is moronic.

>>81475952
>Why are you saying it's over then?
Because I don't have a girlfriend. Are you just playing dumb?

>>81475968
No, I'm saying that you're a moron for considering your life over just because you don't have a gf.
Or is that not what you meant?

>>81476009
So do you plan to ditch your gf and live a life of loneliness and die as an old man with no family, no children? No? Why not? Maybe because that's a horrific way to live and die, and nobody would do that if they could avoid it? No amount of hobbies makes up for that.

why are you guys mean :( i didnt want my thread to be like this

>>81473459
You are an incel, you can't even stand up for yourself to have the sex you cry so much about. Do you really think he's counting on you to step up and help him?

>>81475766
He's not pressuring him to anything. The poor guy keeps throwing tantrums about being a virgin, dad correctly tells him to stfu and go have sex.
If he was happy being a virgin instead of moaning so much about it I'm sure the dad wouldn't mind.

>>81476148
Why didn't dad raise his son properly? If your child turns out badly it's your fault, you raised it.

>>81471949 (OP)
>I guess my pretending I don't want love works!
>It works so well, that I don't have love!
Wow. Amazing.

>>81476020
It's possible to feel lonely with a gf too, anon. What do you have in common, really? It's horrific either way.

>>81476246
What do you gain from berating people who don't have a gf and want one? What do you hope to accomplish?

>>81476020
I don't have a gf to ditch, lmao. But yes, if I don't find one, I'm still gonna enjoy my life anyways. I'm not gonna sit around and cry about it.
That you find this 'horrific' says more about your mindset than mine. Get your head out of your ass and stop thinking that you MUST have a gf to enjoy your life.
When's the last time you enjoyed something in your life?

>>81476069
Sorry :( I'm just trying to get anons to understand that you can have a good life even if you don't have maidens.

>>81476148
Where did you get that this guy 'keeps throwing tantrums'? He just doesn't care about his dad, not surprising if the dad keeps being bitter about his own damn kid.
Don't raise a kid and then go 'no, not like that', ffs.

>>81476522
The anon you replied to is outta pocket, but by all accounts he's right about it being possible to feel lonely with a gf.
I'd rather have a good relationship than no relationship, but I'd rather have no relationship than a bad relationship.

>>81471949 (OP)
I'M PRETTY SURE MY PARENTS KNOW I'M GOING TO BE DEAD VERY SOON. I THINK IT'S PART OF WHY THEY DON'T WANT ME GETTING MORE GUNS. THEY CANNOT STOP ME, UNFORTUNATELY.

>>81476610
Why not be more creative? Why not just go on a drug/hedonistic fueled binge through Hong Kong Tijuana?

>>81471949 (OP)
I pity you OP but not for the reason you think.

You successfully avoided the relationship trap and instead of celebrating instead of waking up each day overjoyed that your life is yours to enjoy you pine for slavery.

You need to get some married friends and hang out with them enough to see what the typical family man life is like. Trust me, your rose tinted glasses will fall off quicker than you think.

You are like a man who has won a mountain of gold by dumb luck but is sad he didn't win the $3 goldfish in a bowl instead. Count your blessings OP. Sticking your cock in a warm hole and cumming might be nice for the short amount of time it lasts, but there is a value in having your own free time, your own peace of mind, your own quiet moments to yourself that is hard to fathom until you lose it.

>>81476545
If you can stop being needlessly hostile for a minute, please tell me, how do I stop wanting a gf? I would very much prefer if I did not want one because it would make life much more bearable.

>>81476622
>You need to get some married friends and hang out with them enough to see what the typical family man life is like. Trust me, your rose tinted glasses will fall off quicker than you think.
This isn't the middle ages, dude. If they were actually unhappy being together they'd get a divorce.

>>81476610
Don't be a moron.
Same advice as above: get a job and apartment, take a walk on the reg, get hobbies/friends.
Don't let your life revolve around maidens.

>>81476649
Why do you keep calling women maidens?

>>81476642
In this economy? Bro this isn't fucking sesame street there are couples who absolutely hate each other but stay together for the kids and because they'd be screwed after the divorce. Why do you think cheating is so rampant among normies?

>>81472433
Colossally retarded mong. U were a failed normalfaggot that ascended to normalfaggot. Congratulations, if it were as simple as a change in outlook none of us would be here because you NORMALFAGGOTS wouldn't have anyone to say retarded shit to.

>>81475855
I can't believe this niggar actually said "get some fresh air." Where do you people come from

>>81475881
you're saying things like body count and it's over as a grown man yet you claim to not be a retard. maybe the first thing you should consider is trying to GROW THE FUCK UP

>>81476716
Who pissed in your cornflakes today?

>>81476621
CREATIVE ABOUT WHAT
>>81476649
THE WAY YOU KEEP SAYING "MAIDENS" MAKES YUO SOUND LIKE THE BIGGEST HOMO ON THE PLANET I SHOULD ANNIHILATE YOU WITH A KAMEHAMEHA WAVE

Life it's beautiful, once you come across a big tragedy in your life you will realize how all of this worries we robots have are pointless and stupid.

I'm 28 and my spine is collapsing, in a few years I will most likely end up in a wheelchair, now I see how pointless all my previous worries were, worrying about girls, and being lonely. Now that I now my end is near, being able to go out for a walk and breathing fresh air feels so amazing, every day that I wake up without lots of pain feels like a blessing, I regret not having this perspective when I was healthy, instead I spent my youth worrying about women, and stupid stuff, now I see, but it's too late.

Threads like these make me glad I'm a volcel. It's one thing to be pussyless because it's out of your control. But it's another thing entirely to be pussyless out of personal choice and to have actually had women proposition you and turn them down anyway. I am logically consistent in my beliefs and superior to both sex havers and incels. Bow down to me you worthless cretins. For you are nothing but sex crazed insignificant worms driven only by your biological urges. While I am an ascended master above the trivial concerns of the flesh.

>>81476772
You should probably just hurry up and kill yourself since you're a massive faggot anyways.

>>81476781
LOL who else but 4chan!
*cue theme music*
Yeah you tell that person with the tragic illness how it is
*tips fedora*

>>81476791
It's simple just don't a be a gigantic cocksucking faggot. Kill yourself.

>>81476623
Sorry, it's not that I'm trying to be hostile, I just get frustrated when anons say they're gonna an hero just because they don't have maidens.
I'll try to work on the tone.

As for your question, you need to have things in your life that you care about or that bring you fulfillment. Friends, hobbies, volunteering, whatever.

Basically, if you're a hiki who spends all day on 4chan, or even if you're not a hiki but everyone around you has a bf/gf or your parents are pressuring you, it's no wonder that you'll get fixated on your maidenless status, and you'll end up thinking that this is the source of all your life's problems.
However, if you have other things in your life that give you a fulfilled feeling, you'll automatically care less about not having a gf, because you'll already be fulfilled and happy in other ways. It's not that you wouldn't want a gf, but you wouldn't be fixated on it as much if you had other fulfilling things filling up your time.

So basically, it's a bit of a mindset change. It's not necessarily the case that you should stop wanting a gf (in fact, I'm not saying it's bad to want one!), but you should also find other ways to be fulfilled in life, rather than just complaining that it's over bc you don't have a gf.

I'm going to bed soon (nearly 4am here in yurop, yikes), so I can't guarantee I'll reply anymore, but I really hope my post helps you. I'm not posting in this thread to be an asshole, I'm posting because I want people to understand that there's more to life than having a gf or not.

>>81476661
Just for fun, lol. Maiden is an extremely old-fashioned way to say 'unmarried woman'.
I don't actually call women maidens in real life, LOL

>>81476733
Why are you fixated on homo's? Also, learn to spell before judging my language use, lol

>>81476772
There's this one guy in a wheelchair on Plebbit (I know, ugh, Plebbit) and this guy is truly the most positive mofo to ever roll on this earth. This guy is truly just out there living his best life, despite his disability. I aspire to have half the positive mindset he has.

>>81477031
BECAUSE YUO TALK LIKE A MASSIVE FAGGOT. YUO ARE UNIRONICALLY SAYING MAIDENS AND IT MAKES YOU SOUND LIKE THE BIGGEST WHITE KNIGHT ON THE FACE OF THE PLANET.

YUO CANNOT STOP WHAT'S COMING NEXT NOBODY CAN

>>81477031
I think the problem here is that you're starting from the assumption that desire for a girlfriend comes from boredom, and that if a person's mind is occupied with other things, then they won't think about it. That is not how it works. Rather, desire for a girlfriend keeps overriding the things I want to focus on. If I'm busy at work, that doesn't stop me from wanting a girlfriend. If I'm sitting there trying to focus on programming work on the video game I'm making, I keep getting distracted by feelings of loneliness and frustration over lack of a gf.

And of course I'm regularly reminded of it by the presence of couples in public or the fact that pretty much everyone in my social circle have girlfriends or wives and talk about them regularly.

So. Your post isn't helpful at all. I have a lot going on in my life and I'm constantly distracted from it by feelings of loneliness and isolation regardless. And then you come along and shit on me for wanting a gf as though it's a choice I've made, and imply that just filling my life with stuff, which I've already done, will make me no longer think about it, which it hasn't, and tell me to "pull my head out of my ass". You're a really unpleasant person.

>>81477057
Why are you so preoccupied with how faggots talk? Is that what you like?

>>81477070
It's not so much about keeping your mind occupied, but about being fulfilled. I think those are two separate things.

Lots of people distract their minds with e.g. video games, but this doesn't necessarily mean that those things are ultimately fulfilling for them.

As for your job, we all need to eat, not all of us are lucky to be fulfilled by our work. No easy way around that one.
As for your friends, maybe you could try mentioning that you find it difficult if they keep talking about their gfs/wives, and that you'd rather talk about different topics?
Ultimately, your friendships should be fulfilling to you, hopefully you have good friends who can understand that it's a difficult topic for you.

And if you really feel like you've tried it all, but the loneliness is just too all-encompassing, then it might just be a case of depression. In that case, it might be worth visiting a psychologist. Our society can be depressing, sometimes we can use some help, it's not a shameful thing.

Sorry you find me unpleasant. We all get our heads stuck in our asses sometimes, but maybe I got frustrated and said it in a wrong way. I really wish the best for everyone on this forsaken site, though.

>>81476610
gokunon cn i have ur disc ive been looking for someone to watch OG DB w/

verif not req

>>81471949 (OP)
is the yeti immortal?

>>81471949 (OP)
Aww, I'll marry you anon