>men are so terrified of coming off as creepy or rapey that they claim to have fetishes for older women, femdom, and muscle girls to establish themselves as submissive as possible instead of just saying they wanna fuck a girl thats hot

>I do all of this
>This is YOU

>>81476147 (OP)
Well, then they get vilified for that too.
>you just want a woman to do all the work!
Really, men need to realize that there's no winning that thing and they're better off just liking what they like and ignoring the hysterical shrieking of feminists.

>>81476147 (OP)
i do have a femdom fetish thoughbeit i wish i didnt because even if i were to ever have normal sex with a foid i wouldnt enjoy it because its not retarded and degrading enough for me to feel aroused and even asking them to peg me or humiliate me would be embarrassing as shit and they would either reluctantly accept or turn me down because 98% of foids are disgusted by femdom and i dont blame them at all

>>81476182
I've got the same problem. Regular sex feels good, though too, I'd bet. It's different in person, and viagra exists for a reason. It sucks, but unless you get the 1/251 kinky woman, it's just not going to happen for free or without self-destructing the relationship, though I've never had the chance to ask. And paying for sex is not a good habit to get into, especially if it's anal.

I, personally, am caught between trying to be gay and trying trans women and simply not worrying about it anymore and shooting my shot for women even if it's not ideal. I'm 25, and this shit is mainly why I'm still a khhv. Women are too hot, but I'm too gay, but also not fucking gay enough. It's awful, but at least it doesn't hurt anyone except for myself, you know?