Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:20:27 AM No.81478664
Why do you want a girlfriend so bad? Do you think it would somehow fix you?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:21:01 AM No.81478666
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:23:29 AM No.81478676
>>81478664 (OP)
all the protagonists in fiction who are literally me either have one or want one
all the protagonists in fiction who are literally me either have one or want one
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:24:32 AM No.81478682
>>81478664 (OP)
I don't want a girlfriend I want a sex slave
I don't want a girlfriend I want a sex slave
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:26:03 AM No.81478690
>>81478664 (OP)
It literally did fix me.
They're having some promising results medicating autists with oxytocin. Guess what your body is full of when you start dating someone?
It literally did fix me.
They're having some promising results medicating autists with oxytocin. Guess what your body is full of when you start dating someone?
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:29:33 AM No.81478700
>>81478664 (OP)
I need not a girlfriend but a wife , for it's needed to create and raise children. A family must be built. And if i discern correctly, i will have a small but complete society. A society that isn't in civil war.
I need not a girlfriend but a wife , for it's needed to create and raise children. A family must be built. And if i discern correctly, i will have a small but complete society. A society that isn't in civil war.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:31:53 AM No.81478708
>>81478700
People like you actually exist, which really surprises me
People like you actually exist, which really surprises me
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:07:34 AM No.81478905
>>81478664 (OP)
It brightens both my highs and lows. It's even closer than a best friend. Sex is great, but the connection between myself and a partner is even better. If she becomes a wife, it's a step towards the best possible future. Why wouldn't I want that? I've been close several times and I know it's still the ideal, even if I keep winding up with BPD girls lately.
It brightens both my highs and lows. It's even closer than a best friend. Sex is great, but the connection between myself and a partner is even better. If she becomes a wife, it's a step towards the best possible future. Why wouldn't I want that? I've been close several times and I know it's still the ideal, even if I keep winding up with BPD girls lately.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:11:24 AM No.81478915
It was really fun while it lasted but when I became single again I realized having more time to myself is also quite nice. I don't know if I want another gf but if it happens then it happens.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:12:25 AM No.81478927
>>81478708
I feel that way too. I hate the beginning of the relationship when you don't know each other and you have to impress them and shit. I wish I could materialize a wife I know well into existence and have some kids. I'm too old to give a shit about the honeymoon phase.
I feel that way too. I hate the beginning of the relationship when you don't know each other and you have to impress them and shit. I wish I could materialize a wife I know well into existence and have some kids. I'm too old to give a shit about the honeymoon phase.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:12:51 AM No.81478931
>>81478664 (OP)
If I wanted a stupid gf I would have stayed at the XVIII century, where are the hoes, where is fun?
If I wanted a stupid gf I would have stayed at the XVIII century, where are the hoes, where is fun?
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:48:39 AM No.81479078
>>81478664 (OP)
>Do you think it would somehow fix you?
No, but I know it would improve my self-esteem, mood, and drive.
This obviously only applies to a loving girlfriend, and it would just be her mere presence, I'm not asking for a therapist or anything like that, I just need to be loved and accepted.
>Do you think it would somehow fix you?
No, but I know it would improve my self-esteem, mood, and drive.
This obviously only applies to a loving girlfriend, and it would just be her mere presence, I'm not asking for a therapist or anything like that, I just need to be loved and accepted.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:51:53 AM No.81479088
>>81478664 (OP)
I love pretty white girls so much. Unlucky that I look like an ugly bastard from a hentai
I love pretty white girls so much. Unlucky that I look like an ugly bastard from a hentai
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:56:15 AM No.81479106
>>81478664 (OP)
>Why do you want a girlfriend so bad?
Because I'm a human and humans have an innate desire to find a partner. If you don't, you are defective.
>Why do you want a girlfriend so bad?
Because I'm a human and humans have an innate desire to find a partner. If you don't, you are defective.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:51:23 AM No.81479363
>>81478664 (OP)
even if it didn't last, I think the self-esteem boost from having the knowledge that at least one girl thinks I'm appealing enough to give me a chance would go a long way. Always being attracted but never attracting to anyone at all ever, at nearly 30 years old KHHV, it just hurts. Why am I not good enough?
even if it didn't last, I think the self-esteem boost from having the knowledge that at least one girl thinks I'm appealing enough to give me a chance would go a long way. Always being attracted but never attracting to anyone at all ever, at nearly 30 years old KHHV, it just hurts. Why am I not good enough?
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:19:26 AM No.81479500
>>81478708
Well , there must be someone who assure the next generation , but this i can't do alone. I also cherish the deeper intimacy between husband and wife , but you know , procreation and union are not too far from one another.
Well , there must be someone who assure the next generation , but this i can't do alone. I also cherish the deeper intimacy between husband and wife , but you know , procreation and union are not too far from one another.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:28:26 AM No.81479525
>>81478664 (OP)
I had girlfriends throughout almost my entire twenties. Once I was about 28, I was so sick and tired of other people's bullshit. It's not worth living with someone! Which means it's definitely not worth getting married, and it's not worth having a girlfriend. But I am absolutely addicted to sex. So starting in beginning of 2016, I started getting into sex dolls. I would hang them in the closet and put a space heater in there, heat it up for about 6 hours to make sure it was heated to it's very core, and the best lubricant is Astroglide liquid. And the dolls have been getting better every year. I usually go through three of them every 2 years. I end up fucking these toys around five times a day. But the companionship wasn't there. After all, it's a sex toy. I never once called it a her, always an it because it is simply a fancy masturbation tool that is designed to simulate real sex. But for companionship, I always have two German Shepherds now. One of my boys died last year. Picked up a new one this year. My other Shepherd that is 11 years old, will live longer because he was a well-bred dog. And with all of this, I no longer have any interest in getting a girlfriend. And I also don't have to deal with weird discharges or smells.
I had girlfriends throughout almost my entire twenties. Once I was about 28, I was so sick and tired of other people's bullshit. It's not worth living with someone! Which means it's definitely not worth getting married, and it's not worth having a girlfriend. But I am absolutely addicted to sex. So starting in beginning of 2016, I started getting into sex dolls. I would hang them in the closet and put a space heater in there, heat it up for about 6 hours to make sure it was heated to it's very core, and the best lubricant is Astroglide liquid. And the dolls have been getting better every year. I usually go through three of them every 2 years. I end up fucking these toys around five times a day. But the companionship wasn't there. After all, it's a sex toy. I never once called it a her, always an it because it is simply a fancy masturbation tool that is designed to simulate real sex. But for companionship, I always have two German Shepherds now. One of my boys died last year. Picked up a new one this year. My other Shepherd that is 11 years old, will live longer because he was a well-bred dog. And with all of this, I no longer have any interest in getting a girlfriend. And I also don't have to deal with weird discharges or smells.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 1:46:54 PM No.81480166
>>81478664 (OP)
Fixing is a big word, but the few times I shortly dated a girl it made me feel so much better. Even though most were long distance and I never met the girl. Like I was actually looking forward to the future and feeling happy in general.
I have a place to live, a job, a car, hobbies. But in the end what's the point if you can't share experiences with someone. When my parents are gone I'll feel completely alone
Fixing is a big word, but the few times I shortly dated a girl it made me feel so much better. Even though most were long distance and I never met the girl. Like I was actually looking forward to the future and feeling happy in general.
I have a place to live, a job, a car, hobbies. But in the end what's the point if you can't share experiences with someone. When my parents are gone I'll feel completely alone
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 1:52:17 PM No.81480203
>>81478708
Scratch a cynic, find a disappointed idealist
Scratch a cynic, find a disappointed idealist
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 1:57:59 PM No.81480245
>>81478664 (OP)
I cannot love myself. I do not feel anything unless it is projected at me.
I cannot love myself. I do not feel anything unless it is projected at me.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 2:03:48 PM No.81480284
>>81478664 (OP)
Obviously won't fix me at all but being able to care about someone and get along with them and have them genuinely care back is fulfilling. So far the only people I've managed to date are immature as fuck. They're either stupid or very easy/have no real loyalty (theyre in it for the thrill of the chase and/or sex and leave once it gets "boring" or easy).
I know it's not a good look criticizing the women I've dated, it's not like I don't have a lot to work on myself. None of that really matters however because I'm never finding actual love and it's because of who I am. I can get sex with a horny temporary gf, or robotic transactional companionship by being a provider, but never anything real
Obviously won't fix me at all but being able to care about someone and get along with them and have them genuinely care back is fulfilling. So far the only people I've managed to date are immature as fuck. They're either stupid or very easy/have no real loyalty (theyre in it for the thrill of the chase and/or sex and leave once it gets "boring" or easy).
I know it's not a good look criticizing the women I've dated, it's not like I don't have a lot to work on myself. None of that really matters however because I'm never finding actual love and it's because of who I am. I can get sex with a horny temporary gf, or robotic transactional companionship by being a provider, but never anything real
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 2:13:42 PM No.81480356
>>81478664 (OP)
>Do you think having a girlfriend would improve your self-esteem, and boost overall inner morale thus pushing you to become better so you can create a family one day?
Yes.
Will it "fix" the asperger's, literal scars and actual trauma from getting stabbed when I was young hoodlum?
Obviously not.
Will it help with getting me off my ass to perform and consider doing some things I wouldn't have otherwise, purely for her and our future children?
Obviously yes.
What kind of question are you even asking? (A fuckin' retarded one, that's for sure. This is coming from the spergy btw.)
>Why do you want a girlfriend so bad?
Is that even a legitimate question?
Surely it cant be. I'm not even gonna bother answering it.
>Do you think having a girlfriend would improve your self-esteem, and boost overall inner morale thus pushing you to become better so you can create a family one day?
Yes.
Will it "fix" the asperger's, literal scars and actual trauma from getting stabbed when I was young hoodlum?
Obviously not.
Will it help with getting me off my ass to perform and consider doing some things I wouldn't have otherwise, purely for her and our future children?
Obviously yes.
What kind of question are you even asking? (A fuckin' retarded one, that's for sure. This is coming from the spergy btw.)
>Why do you want a girlfriend so bad?
Is that even a legitimate question?
Surely it cant be. I'm not even gonna bother answering it.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 3:04:06 PM No.81480723
>>81478664 (OP)
I've had a gf before and it was really nice, kissing, hugging, going on dates, having someone who likes you, it just feels great.
Also, I don't need to be fixed, I'm better then most people already.
I've had a gf before and it was really nice, kissing, hugging, going on dates, having someone who likes you, it just feels great.
Also, I don't need to be fixed, I'm better then most people already.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 3:12:14 PM No.81480784
>>81478664 (OP)
because a girlfriend would mean I made it, it would prove I am not going to spend my life as a social outcast
people literally hate you if you are not normal like them, it affects every aspect of your life, let's face it. you hate us, when you hear we have never had a gf that taints your view of us, you don't want to be friends, even if we work together and it is strictly business, we won't be part of your little office clique, you will grant your friend a promotion over us and constantly downplay our performance to your superiors, sometimes if we are a customer you will refuse to do your job properly, or you will go "ugh" and refer to us as "that" and subtle ways to remind everyone you hate us
this is like 90% of interactions for us, dead eyed normies acting like you're a stinking piece of shit they want to throw out
getting a gf seems so easy to many, you see fat slobs who live in trailers getting a gf, yet it is so elusive, everyone instantly hates us, a gf to us is not an "entitlement" as reddit feminists will lie and claim, it is sign that we have finally managed to fit in, that we are accepted, that someone loves us, someone realizes we are not bad people and everyone else was wrong about us, if we found someone like this we would love them back, most relationships are formed around sex and petty bullshit, of course we are human so we like sex, but we are acclimatized to porn and we could hire an escort any time, it is not about that fundamentally
because a girlfriend would mean I made it, it would prove I am not going to spend my life as a social outcast
people literally hate you if you are not normal like them, it affects every aspect of your life, let's face it. you hate us, when you hear we have never had a gf that taints your view of us, you don't want to be friends, even if we work together and it is strictly business, we won't be part of your little office clique, you will grant your friend a promotion over us and constantly downplay our performance to your superiors, sometimes if we are a customer you will refuse to do your job properly, or you will go "ugh" and refer to us as "that" and subtle ways to remind everyone you hate us
this is like 90% of interactions for us, dead eyed normies acting like you're a stinking piece of shit they want to throw out
getting a gf seems so easy to many, you see fat slobs who live in trailers getting a gf, yet it is so elusive, everyone instantly hates us, a gf to us is not an "entitlement" as reddit feminists will lie and claim, it is sign that we have finally managed to fit in, that we are accepted, that someone loves us, someone realizes we are not bad people and everyone else was wrong about us, if we found someone like this we would love them back, most relationships are formed around sex and petty bullshit, of course we are human so we like sex, but we are acclimatized to porn and we could hire an escort any time, it is not about that fundamentally
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 3:31:19 PM No.81480929
>>81478664 (OP)
It would 100% fix me and every other men.
Women can and should stop being hypergamic whores.
I'm tired of people gaslighting
It would 100% fix me and every other men.
Women can and should stop being hypergamic whores.
I'm tired of people gaslighting
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:26:42 PM No.81481681
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:43:10 PM No.81481794
>>81478664 (OP)
I would like to eventually have a wife and family, although at this point I think I'd have better odds buying lottery tickets.
I would like to eventually have a wife and family, although at this point I think I'd have better odds buying lottery tickets.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:53:30 PM No.81481885
>>81478682
Based. /thread as fuck
Based. /thread as fuck
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:59:28 PM No.81481939
>>81478664 (OP)
I don't. If you have a crush on a girl just imagine her farting and pooping and that should fix it. Absolutely vile creatures.
I don't. If you have a crush on a girl just imagine her farting and pooping and that should fix it. Absolutely vile creatures.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:01:33 PM No.81481964
>>81478664 (OP)
I don't. I just want sex and physical validation.
I don't. I just want sex and physical validation.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:27:14 PM No.81482162
>>81478664 (OP)
It's funny how people want money, want a good life and nobody say shit, but the moment you want a girlfriend/wife they say that you need to "fix" yourself
Why wanting something means that you've something to "fix"?
It's funny how people want money, want a good life and nobody say shit, but the moment you want a girlfriend/wife they say that you need to "fix" yourself
Why wanting something means that you've something to "fix"?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:33:34 PM No.81482210
>>81482162
The love of money is the root of all evil though and the average normie's idea of a "good life" these days is largely conceived of and promoted by degenerate jews. It should have never been normalized to have to have two parents work to support a family.
The love of money is the root of all evil though and the average normie's idea of a "good life" these days is largely conceived of and promoted by degenerate jews. It should have never been normalized to have to have two parents work to support a family.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:39:01 PM No.81482236
>>81478664 (OP)
Real talk a woman looking at me like this would annoy me more than anything. Lovey dovey shit in general just feels like a compensation for genuine companionship.
I could go a whole relationship without fucking. Literally just be a close friend to me. That's all I want.
Real talk a woman looking at me like this would annoy me more than anything. Lovey dovey shit in general just feels like a compensation for genuine companionship.
I could go a whole relationship without fucking. Literally just be a close friend to me. That's all I want.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:59:14 PM No.81482360
>>81478664 (OP)
> Do you think it would somehow fix you?
I know it would, even my last therapist agreed with me.
I just need a good woman to tell me that she loves me, that my life has value, that she wants to spend her life with me...and everything will be ok.
> Do you think it would somehow fix you?
I know it would, even my last therapist agreed with me.
I just need a good woman to tell me that she loves me, that my life has value, that she wants to spend her life with me...and everything will be ok.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 7:12:49 PM No.81482449
>>81482210
Benchod Saapiro
Benchod Saapiro
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 7:24:35 PM No.81482552
>>81478664 (OP)
I got everything else in life sorted so honestly why not take it further and start thinking about growing the family? Also i have so many ideas that i want to try in bed.
I got everything else in life sorted so honestly why not take it further and start thinking about growing the family? Also i have so many ideas that i want to try in bed.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 7:32:49 PM No.81482612
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 7:35:35 PM No.81482629
>>81478708
They're faggot slaves. They exist to be cattle.
They're faggot slaves. They exist to be cattle.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:25:02 PM No.81482934
>>81478664 (OP)
Depending on your issue it does fix you, but if you break up it can fuck you up even more. I have a friend who was a depressed mess and complete fucking loser and he turned his life around once he got a gf, because having a gf actually gives you insane motivation to fix your life. Women have so much power over men, it's insane.
Depending on your issue it does fix you, but if you break up it can fuck you up even more. I have a friend who was a depressed mess and complete fucking loser and he turned his life around once he got a gf, because having a gf actually gives you insane motivation to fix your life. Women have so much power over men, it's insane.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:41:15 PM No.81483027
>>81478676
>all the protagonists in fiction who are literally me either don't have one (whoring) or don't want one to begin with (volcel)
The most fucked up thing about modern society is that there is no one around to tell me to stop being a degenerate, man up, and get married.
>all the protagonists in fiction who are literally me either don't have one (whoring) or don't want one to begin with (volcel)
The most fucked up thing about modern society is that there is no one around to tell me to stop being a degenerate, man up, and get married.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:09:08 PM No.81483204
>>81480784
Agreed with most of this.
I don't think the bitterness will ever go away. Even after I have done so much progress towards "fitting in" my hatred for them grows greater. I cannot forgive really. Every time I am reminded how much they (would) hate me (if I behaved how I wanted) I want to do something violent to them and scream that they will either treat me as a human being or I will fucking end them.
It's not even that "fitting in" is that difficult anymore, or that it makes me feel uncomfortable. It's just these comments or reactions that remind me that if I stopped doing the dance even for a day they would go back to treating me like a subhuman.
I don't believe having a gf would fix much. I just know that I will keep coming back to this board, even if only once a month, to find the only people who know it is. And seeing posts like yours will always remind me where I really belong.
Agreed with most of this.
I don't think the bitterness will ever go away. Even after I have done so much progress towards "fitting in" my hatred for them grows greater. I cannot forgive really. Every time I am reminded how much they (would) hate me (if I behaved how I wanted) I want to do something violent to them and scream that they will either treat me as a human being or I will fucking end them.
It's not even that "fitting in" is that difficult anymore, or that it makes me feel uncomfortable. It's just these comments or reactions that remind me that if I stopped doing the dance even for a day they would go back to treating me like a subhuman.
I don't believe having a gf would fix much. I just know that I will keep coming back to this board, even if only once a month, to find the only people who know it is. And seeing posts like yours will always remind me where I really belong.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:53:36 PM No.81483991
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:58:06 AM No.81485216
>>81478664 (OP)
I never had a gf, so I don't know if it would fix me. It is certainly worth a try because there are not many other things left to try.
I never had a gf, so I don't know if it would fix me. It is certainly worth a try because there are not many other things left to try.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:06:51 AM No.81486000
>>81478664 (OP)
gf is an opiod.
gf is an opiod.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:11:24 AM No.81486025
>>81478664 (OP)
It wouldn't make me stop being autistic but it would mean I was GOOD ENOUGH for once. I don't care about meaningless sex, I'd only do it if it was with a girl who really showed me that she loved me.
It wouldn't make me stop being autistic but it would mean I was GOOD ENOUGH for once. I don't care about meaningless sex, I'd only do it if it was with a girl who really showed me that she loved me.
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:12:57 AM No.81486033
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:07:09 AM No.81486351