Thread 81480814

What happened to that girl who had a crush on you? Why didn't you pursue her

She wont reply to my messages

>>81480814 (OP)
>that girl who had a crush on you?
...anon...I...

jokes on you because i've confessed to every girl i've had feelings for

>>81480814 (OP)
She was a non-virgin, extremely liberal, taller than me, and despite being naturally very good-looking, she sabotaged herself with weird alt style choices (like unevenly chopped short hair, shaving her eyebrows, doing her makeup like Chappel Roan, etc.).

>>81480814 (OP)
>that girl who had a crush on you?

>>81480814 (OP)
A girl? Who had a crush on me? Come on now

>>81480814 (OP)
She was Jewish + I told her I would never date her in like the second time I spoke to her

>>81480996
You could just rape her

>>81480814 (OP)
I have never had a crush on anyone

>>81480999
trips of truth. women love being raped and im serious

>>81480814 (OP)
She became an insane environmentalist freak. Stopped wearing make-up, cut her hair short, got arrested for tying herself to a tree in a forest to stop logging. Not sure if she is still like that though, I stopped stalking her FB ages ago.

>>81480999
Lived in Israel and I was elsewhere + she also loved sharing herself online
Once threatened to flash me while on call to get me to stay up longer and talk to her more

>>81480814 (OP)
>was too autistic at the time but she was based
>second one was fat and gigareligious

>>81480814 (OP)
> Be Me in Highschool
> Giving tour of my highschool to some rich family
> Cute girl, white with black hair. She liked anime.
> My friend took over I left
> During school we where in art class
> Got close and laughed a lot
> Driving home for a Gas Station Hot Dog, she somehow gets my number and calls me. I tell her to call me back cuz gas station hot dog.
> She doesn't my other friend gets with her
> Through the year other friend hates me cuz she laughs at all my jokes and sits next to me
> We in computer class together, she takes my jacket, watches me do research, blah blah the like.
> End of year she breaks up with guy and goes with me.
> We have good time until there was this movie we went to go see with classmates where she basically gave me a handjob in front of everyone.
> Hella uncomfortable and Embarrassed.
> Break up cuz I am stupid
> Get close to new girl
> Ex tries telling everyone I hate her and want her dead blah blah blah
> End up dating new Girl which goes horribly cuz new Girls Friend is a mega bitch.
> I kind of go solo for a bit
> Ex occasionally text me about how she misses us together blah blah.
> I'm like "yeah". At this point I had some heavy research I was doing with a college and was too focused on that
> About to Graduate, she invites me to prom. I say maybe and nothing happens,
> Years later I hit her up since I felt like a jerk and wanted to apologize (idk why). She has had many car accidents, a boyfriend her dad does not approve of, and going into psychology or whatever. Also been cheated on multiple times.

Tbh bros, she's legitmately a 10/10 on body just her personality (not that she was a bitch just like she had ADHD or Autism or something idk). I feel like some days I majorly fucked up. We still in contact but like what can I do.

>>81480814 (OP)
i did pursue her nigga
we are married nigga

>>81481024
she honestly sounds awesome. she was standing up for the birds

>>81480814 (OP)
she took the bbc pill and never looked back. was a picture book perfect small blonde christian girl who grew up on a farm. she wanted to be roughened out and feel like her body was put to use while still good. i cannot provide this to her. she seems to be working at a strip club now. every other year posts some fucked up picture on her instagram. she looks like shit full of tattoos. hope one day i find her of and watch her get pounded by some bbc.

>>81480814 (OP)
Apparently she had a nervous break down, blocked everyone, deleted all of her socials, and moved back home with her parents. She also had a lot of other issues I wanted nothing to do with.
A different girl years before that became somewhat of a stalker but I moved across the country away from her.

>>81480814 (OP)
>What happened to that girl who had a crush on you?
I've had several. I don't know what happened to them because I don't have social media and don't care to look them up.
>Why didn't you pursue her
Most of them were too ugly and also had a lot of personality flaws. The only one who was hot was also pursuing two other dudes at the same time and had already been fucked by two dudes at 19. The 2nd hottest one (overall a 6/10) had horrible breath and busted teeth. The one who is into me now is different in that she's kind and wholesome, but ugly and with signs of past or present mental disorders.

>>81480814 (OP)
I didn't know she had a crush on me until after she was long gone

>>81480814 (OP)
She was sort of ugly, I was young and naive. After puberty hit us; I became uglier and more desperate and she got better looking. However, at that time we were living in different cities.
In junior year we again lived in the same city and went to the same highschool. She however was dating someone, and was never single. She is now happily married with children. I meanwhile am postig here and planning to kill myself

I can use some copes. She woud have left me anyways, or cheated on me. She did have stronger crushes on other boys in school. I was just the more accesible one.
A lot of the guys she dated were abuse chads. She sort of had a thing for alpha dark triads. A low-t beta like me wouldn't be enough for her. She would hve cheated on me.

>>81480814 (OP)
>What happened to that girl who had a crush on you? Why didn't you pursue her
They never fucking tell me.

>>81480814 (OP)
1) was too socially retarded and didn't even know what pursuing meant
2) pushed her away because I didn't want her to find out how much of a dysfunctional manchild I was

>>81480814 (OP)
I don't know what happened to her. I haven't seen her in 14 years. She likely hung with the wrong people because the school we were in back then was really bad and she seemed to be extroverted. So I dunno. She could be dead, she could be a mother or she could be in prison. Or maybe none of that at all.
>Why didn't you pursue her
Because I'm mentally crippled and I can't socialize. Sad thing is I liked her too. But some shit happened and I dropped out of school and never got the chance to try and talk to her again. Avoiding her is one of my deepest regrets.

>>81480814 (OP)
why?

Let me tell you how fucked my life is.

No one persued me in high school, im a short loser and people weren't interested in me. I hung out with similar losers and we enjoyed peak hobbies like video games and dice rpg's (to this day i love the lore of the RIFTS universe and Battletech/mechwarrior)

Except one girl, and get ready for this:
The only girl that EVER asked me to sadie hawkins was a down syndrome retard who literally was functionally retarded.

I hate my fucking life.

>>81480814 (OP)
Which one? For all of them, well, I didnt see anything in common with them. My one absolute need in a woman is that she is a gamer. For some reason I only attracted normies and some stacies. I need a gamer girlfriend that only leaves the house to go out with me somewhere.

>>81480814 (OP)
i had (still do) avpd, and low self esteem. i was mad that someone else could find a subhuman like me interesting so i distanced myself

>>81480814 (OP)
as far as I know no one ever had a crush on me

>>81480814 (OP)
She got put in an institution.

op doesn't know how fickle females emotions are. A "crush" means nothing to them. It's just a momentary interest which will evaporate for the slightest most retarded reason imaginable.

>>81482187
Ooof yeah that sounds familiar. I was convinced at like 14-15 that I was bad news and unlovable to anyone. Never really got over it and it's been decades. Who can save you? Feminism killed the idea that women and society have to build boys into men. I basically needed the GFE to believe in myself which never came. How can you ever repair yourself later?

no girl has ever been attracted to me

>>81482280
yeah its about thinking you deserve good things, id probably need therapy or some bullshit to level up mentally
not really doing it though, its out of my comfort zone and i just dont think it would help

>>81482280
>Its womens responsibility to build boys into men and not men and fathers themselves
What?

>>81480814 (OP)
I fucked it up by being an autistic retard if you could even call it that. idk what it was but I would be married to her rn if I didnt fuck up in that one moment.

>>81482295
Therapy won't work
You'll need years of evidence to the contrary. Years of girls loving you. Or at least months of a single girl actually showing that she loves you, regardless of the walls you put up. A girl who actually loves you would try to get you out of your shell. But in my case at least, even with no walls visible no girl is interested.
Without actual evidence, you wont become an optimist

>>81482353
i get what you mean, lifes too hard desu

>>81480814 (OP)
No. 1 was off-and-on and I ended things
No. 2 was ugly
No. 3, yeah, I really fumbled that one
No. 4, gave me her number and then proceeded to answer my texts on a 6 hour delay so I didn't bother
Women are awful at dating lmao

>>81482377
Life isn't hard. Women just make it hard.

>>81480814 (OP)
I thought she was annoying.

>>81480814 (OP)
I did pursue her, we were talking and it was going really well. She ghosted me for a week. Next time I talked to her, her whole family had converted to Jehovah's Witnesses and she had a Jehovah's Witness boyfriend.

Sometimes you just have to laugh man

>>81482353
be careful. believing in the wrong one will destroy your ability to believe forever

>>81480814 (OP)
No one's ever had a crush on me. And the only girls I had a crush on were already taken and barely looked at me anyway (not like I had the balls to get closer regardless).

>>81480814 (OP)
A girl has never had a crush on me as far as I know.
If one did I don't think I would be incelposting here in the first place.

It makes me really sad that I'm so undesireable.

>>81480814 (OP)
>Why didn't you pursue her
I did, what I didn't do is keep masking after having her become my gf, so she left my ass after 3 days.
I stopped pursuing women after that, If I can never truly be myself, then there's no point in trying to build a future with someone knowing it's founded on a giant lie.
All I can do is wait until I drop dead, and reincarnate into someone neurotypical enough to be worthy of love.

>>81480814 (OP)
kill yourself, projecting hole

>>81480814 (OP)
I realized they liked me for shitty superfluous reasons they could easily later just get woo'ed by a chad for and ignored them

>>81480814 (OP)
When I was in school, a girl got assigned to sit with me. She caused a whole scene and left the class. Trust me anon, no-one wanted me

>>81480814 (OP)
I'm a big very fat hairy guy and I've been 99% male spaces exclusively up until I was 23 and also a lazy, insecure, anti-social loser, that girl did not exist.
I've improved a lot since then, still fat but more confident, work out, good job lined up etc and I had a gf, but I asked her out myself and she broke up with me when I tried to go from regular kissing to making out 3 months in.
There is not a single woman who has ever had a crush on me.

>>81480814 (OP)
>What happened to that girl who had a crush on you?
Nothing.
No girl had crush on me.
I think it's that simple to end as incel.
You didn't have gril crush on you.

>>81482527
But this is right not wrong.

>>81480814 (OP)
>the one in middle school is now one of those shaved head too many tattoos and piercings type women
>the shy, jew nosed one flat out rejected me when I asked her out for valentine's day senior year
>the italian girl was greasy and cringy, she never stopped being cringy, and probably hasn't stopped being greasy
>the really fat one died of a drug overdose years ago
>the really really fat one is married with children

>>81480814 (OP)
>he thinks me (or half the anons here) have ever had a woman be interested in them
i admire your optimism.

>>81483848
Normalfags live in the different world.

>>81480814 (OP)
>that girl who had a crush on you
That has never happened.

I had three that I know of and still wound up an incel because I'm a robot.
1. Fat ugly black girl.
2. A cunny when I was around 14 and I have no interest in cunnies
3. A girl that liked me and I liked her back but I was too chicken shit to ask her out. She's married now and probably happier than she would've been with me.

>>81480814 (OP)
im retarded as shit man, idk what to tell u, plus i'd heavily doubt anyone crushin on me, id think it's like some set up for whatever shenanigans is schemin around

>>81480814 (OP)
She was bi/a hoe and I never asked for her phone number in the first place but this was back in my teen years.
Maybe now she's a hooker, addicted to crack and live in the street.

>>81480814 (OP)
1. We dated
2. We kissed
3. We cuddled a few times I think she used me for her own enjoyment desu
4. I didn't know until she didn't like me anymore anyway
5. Asked me out I rejected her because I liked 2 more

these are very out of order and also cross over each other in the timeline at points

>>81480814 (OP)
she didn't exist, anon.

I'm not sure if any have. I'm autistic so it doesn't matter anyway since I can't read social signals and I'm not going to roll the dice and get thrown in jail for giving a woman the ick.

>>81482123
At least you had your share of fun. Imagine having no friends during high school.

>>81482634
Welcome to the club

>>81480814 (OP)
She was a secret attention whore and strung along like three other dudes til I found out. Then she became a giga cold bitch and acted like I was the asshole.
Now clue what she's up to now, graduated 15 years ago and have been off social media for over 12 years

>>81480814 (OP)
im sorry but her face is fucking trashed. can you imagine having a son with a face like that?

>>81486449
when i went to high school everyone had a group of friends of one sort or another, if you were a retard you hung out with retards, if you were a nerd you hung out with nerds, chad you hung out with chads etc. it was all very hierarchical but no one was totally left out.

you can guess what group i was a part of based on my post.

>>81480814 (OP)
Too young. Too pretty to be wasted on a freak loser

guys do you like fem armpits

>>81480814 (OP)
Looked her up on LinkedIn recently. She's a libtard lawyer now and I'm an alcoholic gooner

>>81480814 (OP)
She married a fat English teacher and got fat herself for a few years but then lost the weight. Then she found out she couldnt have kids. Thats the last I heard of her. I didnt pursue her because Im very fucked in the head and selfish and cant share my life with another person.

ok the fuck with this fucking shit

>>81480814 (OP)
Because I was a very dumb and retarded beta back then.. back then, the girl who liked me was a sweet ugly nerd blonde girl with glasses, and at that time she was considered unattractive and low status.. so like a sheep, I followed that herd mentality. I ignored her every time she looked my way for attention, mainly because I was a ball less autist too.
Now that exact type of girl is r9k preciated, myself included.
Every time I'm made to think about this, it makes me feel like a fucking loser.

I bet she gained even more weight

>>81480814 (OP)
>i dont have a crush on you
Your bf is gonna get the beating of a life time

>>81480814 (OP)
I already had a gf at the time. Two different girls, same gf. I was very flattered though.

>>81481151
You should totally try to get with anon it's not too late man, you totally got it man.

>>81480814 (OP)
Which one? The first one, the last one, or some in between?

>>81480814 (OP)
Because i was leaving for college and we wouldnt get to see each other often. I still think of her sometimes. She added me on facebook a while back, she has a black baby now. I never accepted her request. I could have saved her but i let her go because im too weak willed for a long distance relationship.

>>81480814 (OP)
She looks like shit

>>81480814 (OP)
She was a weird chick with wild hair and inch thick eyeliner and possibly retarded to a light degree.

>>81488002
>she looks better than you
I make her look like a steak hoagie with extra cheese

>>81488015
>hoagie
Motherfucker ima a mutherfuckij filet mignon beter not fuvk with me im bad as hell

>>81480814 (OP)
she got hit by a car and died

>>81488031
Alright you nigger im fuciin st least a salami samdwich and all the mayo and shit like im the best sandwich and shit fuckin you dont even put pretzels on your shit

>>81488042
I make ,y own pretzels ame y I u cant e b en grt th b shit i do

i was about to but then she mustve picked up on that vibe and gave me the ew face, so she must not have had a crush on me

>>81480814 (OP)
She got me blackout drunk at her place, and had sex with me while she was completely sober. She got pregnant. We're married with 3 kids now.

I am a very meek man.

>>81480814 (OP)
I have no good reason to believe any woman has ever had a crush on me. The premise of your question is false.