I am a thin female trying to find a non overweight bf and alot of overweight men online DM me saying "I don't want to show you a photo of me because you are going to block me let's talk first" I know whenever someone says that they are fat. I know this cause I even tested it and whenever they didn't send they were fat men. My question is do I just block them or do I tell them the truth? They will get mad if I block but I risk getting reported if I say the truth which is I am not into fat people
what you have there is a woman problem, and as such you should go find another hole to help you.
>>81483383 (OP)man can't get fat. only women are fat.
>>81483383 (OP)Might as well give your height req while you're at it
>>81483383 (OP)say you prefer femboys and twinks, but in a way that sounds like you're attracted to their feminine side
rejecting a man for being too "manly" is very unlikely to affect him
>>81483383 (OP)My advice is to stop using the internet altogether and pick up a real hobby.
just be fully upfront, it would be refreshing and they can take it on the chin(s), maybe lose some weight with a wakeup call
>>81483383 (OP)>I risk getting reported if I say the truth which is I am not into fat peopleThe thought of some fat faggot reporting you is hilarious. I don't think you'll get banned for that, I've rejected so many fat chicks.
80% of people being lardasses is a problem everyone faces. For the under 30 cohort less than half of America is White, so expect the dating problems to only get worse.
My honest advice is find one of those weird culty churches. The one's who don't give their address on the website and require a vetting process to even get permission to attend a service. You'll be able to find a man who works hard and is looking for serious marriage. Atheists don't see being fat as morally wrong so they are disproportionately fat.
>>81483383 (OP)Prevent people like this in the first place by stating it's a deal breaker if your boyfriend doesn't like [put a very physically demanding fitness activity here] because it's your favourite hobby. If anyone leaks through state the truth without outright stating the reason, "I don't find you physically attractive, sorry."
>>81483634This ^ It's not complicated and be glad that these dudes are basically filtering themselves.
>>81483383 (OP)Date me and help me lose weight.
>>81483383 (OP)I like waiting until I am in a relationship to let myself go and gaining weight then see what she's willing to put up
>>81483383 (OP)just tell em your preferences straight up, it says more about them if they freak out about it when you're just being honest, last thing u want is a insecure dude overrelying on your energy to feel validated or to "fix" themselves
>>81483383 (OP)I'M A SCHIZOID LIFTER WHO WORKS IN THE SUN ALL DAY LIKE A BADASS AND I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO FIND WOMEN AT ALL LET ALONE NON OVERWEIGHT WOMEN SO I DON'T KNOW HOW TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION YOU SHOULD PROBABLY JUST GIVE UP AND MAKE A THOROUGH SUICIDE PLAN THAT'LL LOOK SUPER COOL
>>81483383 (OP)You don't because skinny women are undesired whereas skinny men are desired. So it's not the same.
>>81483383 (OP)You can block them, ignore them, say you have a bf. Are you a woman? Or autistic?
