>>81485787I fucked a shit ton in my twenties, but when I was in school, I was completely passive, even when women were (in retrospect) obviously coming on to me. I mean like smiling, waving, having their friends tell me she likes me, asking to hang out. I always found a reason to do nothing, and since no women was going to force me to hold their hands or kiss them, I never did either. My first girlfriend was some ugly chick my friends forced me to date because she had a crush on me. We dated for the better part of a decade in an open relationship, making up for lost time while staying dependent on the first girl because she was familiar.
I suspect if anybody is a khhv past high school, they are either not trying or sabotaging themselves. Or they have too high of standards, which is maybe the best reason to be a khhv.